It's Genz

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 06/20/2000 11:58:55 AM Central Daylight Time,

Dr_Rutledge@... writes:

<< None of us are either angels or devils. >>

The devil here...le raising her hand. LOL...half joking

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 6/20/2000 12:58:39 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

Dr_Rutledge@... writes:

<<

Sometimes these lists become so filled with emotion that we might take a

moment and step back for a second and look at the bigger picture.

>>

Hi Genz, On this subject I have to agree! You have every right to your

feelings after all and the Doc Do and they freely speak them. Im kind a

lost I thought I was defending , Oh maybe she meant when I said stop

eating like that..To me that would be something someone who cared for me

would say! Hey, Don't beat yourself up I have sent e-mails to the wrong

people. Example I had this big crush .. oh wait wrong story.. Oh yea I sent

an e-mail to the Doc he should not condone bad eating habits in front of the

pre-ops..Maybe he did not read it. Who knows, He only likes me to pick on.

Im not a loved one.

And yes in case you did not know now you do, I have been very sad and very

busy. I was a cash pay and had 2 operations before this surgery so I had

about 30,000. in extra bills not mention just out the Blue I fired My Husband

and decided to hop a plane with my daughter for a week and go to Boston for

the 4th of July. then Im heading for Durham for Judi's surgery, then

somewhere with my family and back in September for the picnic, So as sad as

my butt is I get up every morning be 5:00 to work!!! So sorry if I have not

been playing on the list but lately between work, working out and being a

Mother, My Husband is in the dog house so that part of my life is on hold. I

manage to read a few post and stay in touch with as many of you as I can!!! I

love you all!! And truly care about your health and feelings. Genz, I have

made a lot of mistakes (just look at this post), But that does not make you

or me a bad person!!!!

Take care and don't leave! I will posting a lot as I sit around on

vacation..NOw I must go tell my Husband IM leaving for Boston. Please pray

for me!..lol

Peace, love and rock and roll guess I grew up during that era too Doc.

Trish working her butt of Lanman

June 20, 2000

Hi Group,

I missed the party because I have no idea what was said and people are hurt

but I did want to say GOOOOOOOOOO DrR. Your calm demeaner still shines

through.

in Fayetteville

June 20, 2000

Hi Group,

I missed the party because I have no idea what was said and people are hurt

but I did want to say GOOOOOOOOOO DrR. Your calm demeaner still shines

through.

in Fayetteville

June 20, 2000

Hi Group,

I missed the party because I have no idea what was said and people are hurt

but I did want to say GOOOOOOOOOO DrR. Your calm demeaner still shines

through.

in Fayetteville

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 6/20/2000 2:26:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

linfaync@... writes:

<<

Hi Group,

I missed the party because I have no idea what was said and people are hurt

but I did want to say GOOOOOOOOOO DrR. Your calm demeaner still shines

through.

in Fayetteville >>

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HE IS THE ONE THAT STARTED IT>>>TAG***YOUR IT DOC!

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 6/20/2000 2:26:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

linfaync@... writes:

<<

Hi Group,

I missed the party because I have no idea what was said and people are hurt

but I did want to say GOOOOOOOOOO DrR. Your calm demeaner still shines

through.

in Fayetteville >>

````````````````

HE IS THE ONE THAT STARTED IT>>>TAG***YOUR IT DOC!

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 6/20/2000 2:26:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

linfaync@... writes:

<<

Hi Group,

I missed the party because I have no idea what was said and people are hurt

but I did want to say GOOOOOOOOOO DrR. Your calm demeaner still shines

through.

in Fayetteville >>

````````````````

HE IS THE ONE THAT STARTED IT>>>TAG***YOUR IT DOC!

June 20, 2000

started what?

June 20, 2000

started what?

June 20, 2000

started what?

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 6/20/2000 2:33:12 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

linfaync@... writes:

<<

started what?

>>

He knows!

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 6/20/2000 2:33:12 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

linfaync@... writes:

<<

started what?

>>

He knows!

June 20, 2000

Hey Trish,

Thanks for the message.....I'm not leaving. I'm just sick to death of

.

She is so irrational and then Dr. R sends a post saying that he loves her. Made

me want to puke. She is a detriment to this list and then he comes along and

validates her behavior. I just don't understand it. sent me a private

message of apology, but basically she blamed you for her actions. I'll forward

her message if you want to read it. I'm really down about her. The woman is a

" malcontent " (per Rexanne) mean spirited bitch. Did you read Dr.R's letter to

her????? It's beyond me. Anyway, I hope you are doing ok. According to

(the all knowing authority) you aren't doing too good. I miss you

terribly....I miss our fun times. Sweet Judi called me and was so nice.....I

hope

Dr. R reconsiders his stance on 's posts and how they affect the rest of

his

patients. I think he may be trying to avoid a lawsuit from her. What a shame.

Write soon.

Love,

Genz

PS, Give Chuck a hug and kiss for me.

metrishal@... wrote:

> Hi My Sweet trouble making friend, I heard you were leaving... Well, HMMM.

> Are you not going to wait until we get back? I mean Flo and Judi at least

> deserve to beat you up first, And well me, I guess you now what I will do!!!!

> Just remember your knee BABY! I will be back soon.

> I miss you!!

> Trisha

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June 20, 2000

Dear Genz,

Please don't be sorry.....Everyone knows you are the

sweetest,warm and caring person. 99% of everything out

of your mouth comes straight from your heart of hearts,

and this 1 thing came straight from you gut. Why?

Because you could no longer hold back the floodgates

on something you felt so strongly about.....you

did't want the newbies or anyone else for that matter

getting wrong info or taking this procedure and what is

required with the wrong mindset. You have been there

to cheer everyone on when they get down, you have prayed

for everyone during their surgeries and problems they

have had, and you have been a wealth of information

on any question that has been asked. We all love you

very much would NEVER want you to leave this group

for ANY reason. Maybe with the truth be told.. all

can learn from this.

Lv ya my friend.

Judi in Fla

Quoting smootgen@...:

> Hey Trish,

> Thanks for the message.....I'm not leaving.

I'm just sick to death

> of

> .

> She is so irrational and then Dr. R sends a post

saying that he loves her.

> Made

> me want to puke. She is a detriment to this list and

then he comes along

> and

> validates her behavior. I just don't understand it.

sent me a private

> message of apology, but basically she blamed you for

her actions. I'll

> forward

> her message if you want to read it. I'm really down

about her. The woman is

> a

> " malcontent " (per Rexanne) mean spirited bitch. Did

you read Dr.R's letter

> to

> her????? It's beyond me. Anyway, I hope you are doing

ok. According to

>

> (the all knowing authority) you aren't doing

too good. I miss you

> terribly....I miss our fun times. Sweet Judi called

me and was so

> nice.....I hope

> Dr. R reconsiders his stance on 's posts and how

they affect the rest

> of his

> patients. I think he may be trying to avoid a lawsuit

from her. What a

> shame.

> Write soon.

>

> Love,

> Genz

>

> PS, Give Chuck a hug and kiss for me.

>

> metrishal@... wrote:

>

> > Hi My Sweet trouble making friend, I heard you were

leaving... Well,

> HMMM.

> > Are you not going to wait until we get back? I

mean Flo and Judi at

> least

> > deserve to beat you up first, And well me, I guess

you now what I will

> do!!!!

> > Just remember your knee BABY! I will be back soon.

> > I miss you!!

> > Trisha

> >

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June 20, 2000

Hi,

> ... then Dr. R sends a post saying that he loves her.

I do not agree with everything says but I still love her.

I love you too, Genz.

Sometimes these lists become so filled with emotion that we might take a

moment and step back for a second and look at the bigger picture.

None of us are either angels or devils.

We are people all trying to do our best. It can be stressful and difficult

getting through our lives. I want to always remind myself to be considerate

and forgiving.

Peace and love.

Can you tell I grew up in the 60's?

RR

Rutledge, M.D., F.A.C.S.

The Center for Laparoscopic Obesity Surgery

4301 Ben lin Blvd.

Durham, N.C. 27704

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Amen

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June 20, 2000

Amen

Janice

June 20, 2000

Amen

Janice

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 6/20/2000 5:35:39 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

shoutjoy@... writes:

<<

> MGB 5/15/00

> 43 lbs gone forever as of 6/15/00!*

> *(I don't care who gets mad about this; I'm proud of it!!) >>

As well you should be!!! I'm very happy for you, hope to be a post op someday

(I keep waiting and waiting) and if I can lose close to half what you have

I'll be a happy camper.

Cathy in Lenoir, NC

Wanting to be on the other side

BMI 42

Patient info emailed 5/2/00

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

June 20, 2000

In a message dated 6/20/2000 5:35:39 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

shoutjoy@... writes:

<<

> MGB 5/15/00

> 43 lbs gone forever as of 6/15/00!*

> *(I don't care who gets mad about this; I'm proud of it!!) >>

As well you should be!!! I'm very happy for you, hope to be a post op someday

(I keep waiting and waiting) and if I can lose close to half what you have

I'll be a happy camper.

Cathy in Lenoir, NC

Wanting to be on the other side

BMI 42

Patient info emailed 5/2/00

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

June 20, 2000

WOW I must have missed something big, huh? Sorry for all the problems

you all are having.

a

smootgen@... wrote:

>

> Hey Trish,

> Thanks for the message.....I'm not leaving. I'm just sick to death of

> .

> She is so irrational and then Dr. R sends a post saying that he loves her.

Made

> me want to puke. She is a detriment to this list and then he comes along and

> validates her behavior. I just don't understand it. sent me a private

> message of apology, but basically she blamed you for her actions. I'll forward

> her message if you want to read it. I'm really down about her. The woman is a

> " malcontent " (per Rexanne) mean spirited bitch. Did you read Dr.R's letter to

> her????? It's beyond me. Anyway, I hope you are doing ok. According to

> (the all knowing authority) you aren't doing too good. I miss you

> terribly....I miss our fun times. Sweet Judi called me and was so nice.....I

hope

> Dr. R reconsiders his stance on 's posts and how they affect the rest of

his

> patients. I think he may be trying to avoid a lawsuit from her. What a shame.

> Write soon.

>

> Love,

> Genz

>

> PS, Give Chuck a hug and kiss for me.

>

> metrishal@... wrote:

>

> > Hi My Sweet trouble making friend, I heard you were leaving... Well, HMMM.

> > Are you not going to wait until we get back? I mean Flo and Judi at least

> > deserve to beat you up first, And well me, I guess you now what I will

do!!!!

> > Just remember your knee BABY! I will be back soon.

> > I miss you!!

> > Trisha

> >

> > ------------------------------------------------------------------------

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> > http://click.egroups.com/1/5544/2/_/453517/_/961408823/

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June 20, 2000