Guest guest Posted October 6, 2002 Report Share Posted October 6, 2002 è we have a responsibility to speak up, and make our voices heard. I hope that everyone who has this disease, who knows some one with it, who Loves someone with it ... will take the time to listen and understand ... will stand up for the ones they love, will tell the doctors to pay attention and find out WHY, and WHAT is causing the pain Dear : I know the loss of Marty is hard for you and his family, but if he could look down from heaven and see that out of his leaving earth the way he did would activate all of us to speak up -- and together maybe we can make " our voice " heard -- he would smile, and maybe even shout YEAH. Even if we belong to one or two or even three different Pancreatitis groups, I would hope that we can work together, because that is the only way we will be heard. I believe that the support offered through message boards is a very important first step for uniting those suffering from Pancreatitis and their caregivers. The Symposium is offering us a chance to take that second step by networking with Pancreatitis specialists and each other. - you take care. Allow yourself to grieve, this is hard -- so hard; but we are here for you not matter what. You know how important it is to share the knowledge -- and we all appreciate the work you have done with your research for answers when none of us had them. So remember that now -- your letter today may save countless lives. Thank you, Gail West þ Many People, Many Faces, One Voice Indiana State Chapter Representative Pancreatitis Association International http://www.pancassociation.org contactPAIgwest@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2002 Report Share Posted October 6, 2002 è we have a responsibility to speak up, and make our voices heard. I hope that everyone who has this disease, who knows some one with it, who Loves someone with it ... will take the time to listen and understand ... will stand up for the ones they love, will tell the doctors to pay attention and find out WHY, and WHAT is causing the pain Dear : I know the loss of Marty is hard for you and his family, but if he could look down from heaven and see that out of his leaving earth the way he did would activate all of us to speak up -- and together maybe we can make " our voice " heard -- he would smile, and maybe even shout YEAH. Even if we belong to one or two or even three different Pancreatitis groups, I would hope that we can work together, because that is the only way we will be heard. I believe that the support offered through message boards is a very important first step for uniting those suffering from Pancreatitis and their caregivers. The Symposium is offering us a chance to take that second step by networking with Pancreatitis specialists and each other. - you take care. Allow yourself to grieve, this is hard -- so hard; but we are here for you not matter what. You know how important it is to share the knowledge -- and we all appreciate the work you have done with your research for answers when none of us had them. So remember that now -- your letter today may save countless lives. Thank you, Gail West þ Many People, Many Faces, One Voice Indiana State Chapter Representative Pancreatitis Association International http://www.pancassociation.org contactPAIgwest@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2002 Report Share Posted October 6, 2002 è we have a responsibility to speak up, and make our voices heard. I hope that everyone who has this disease, who knows some one with it, who Loves someone with it ... will take the time to listen and understand ... will stand up for the ones they love, will tell the doctors to pay attention and find out WHY, and WHAT is causing the pain Dear : I know the loss of Marty is hard for you and his family, but if he could look down from heaven and see that out of his leaving earth the way he did would activate all of us to speak up -- and together maybe we can make " our voice " heard -- he would smile, and maybe even shout YEAH. Even if we belong to one or two or even three different Pancreatitis groups, I would hope that we can work together, because that is the only way we will be heard. I believe that the support offered through message boards is a very important first step for uniting those suffering from Pancreatitis and their caregivers. The Symposium is offering us a chance to take that second step by networking with Pancreatitis specialists and each other. - you take care. Allow yourself to grieve, this is hard -- so hard; but we are here for you not matter what. You know how important it is to share the knowledge -- and we all appreciate the work you have done with your research for answers when none of us had them. So remember that now -- your letter today may save countless lives. Thank you, Gail West þ Many People, Many Faces, One Voice Indiana State Chapter Representative Pancreatitis Association International http://www.pancassociation.org contactPAIgwest@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2002 Report Share Posted October 6, 2002 I posted this to another group I belong to so I'm sorry if many of you have already seen it, but I was on the soapbox when I wrote it and I felt it was something I needed to share with everyone. Yes he (Marty) did have CP, his was idiopathic, and they ran him around in circles before they ever diagnosed him. They thought he had a psuedo- cyst and were going in to remove it because of the size, but what they found was cancer that had wrapped around his pancreas, spleen and infiltrated his liver. They closed him back up and gave his family the news. If they had done the CA-19-9 they would have seen the cancer markers and quite possibly prolonged his life. He suffered a great deal more pain than I would ever wish on even my worst enemy (even than I would on those that attacked the US.) He was on constant IV pain meds and chemotherapy that made him even weaker. He was a vibrant young man (although opinionated as all get out, to know him was to Love him!!) And he was a wonderful father, and brother. His sister was with him from the very beginning of the illness, and she was, I am sure there when he passed. I feel like the system failed him terribly. I hope that by Speaking up about the illness and how sadly most of those that suffer with CP (well, a great number of them anyway) will end up in this same position at some time (maybe not in a terminal case, but there none the less) we have a responsibility to speak up, and make our voices heard. I hope that everyone who has this disease, who knows some one with it, who Loves someone with it... will take the time to listen and understand... will stand up for the ones they love, will tell the doctors to pay attention and find out WHY, and WHAT is causing the pain. And lastly will tell the doctors before they just open someone up to CHECK, DOUBLE CHECK THEN CHECK AGAIN, for cancer BEFORE they do any surgeries. We have to be proactive in our treatment. We have to be vocal about how we feel, and we have to stand our ground when they tell us they don't know... because that is unacceptable. I DON'T KNOW... its a cop out. Ok, I am done, climbing off of my soap box... for a minute at least. I hope you are all having a PAIN less Day! {{{HUGZ}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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