Re: 9 1/2 year old exposes herself to my 4 year old, i dont know what to do

November 11, 2002

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Maybe the girl has been molested or assulted and this is her way of

acting out. Maybe she has seen things that are inappropriate and is

trying to show you because she feels safe at your house. I had a

friend when I was a little girl who used to want to play

these " games " that creeped me out but I didn't understand. I was only

9. Come to find out when I was in my teens that she had been molested

by an Uncle.

Maybe the parents are acting non shalant because they know and are

ashamed or embarrased. Well, I won't go into details. I would talk to

the pediatrician about it just to make sure there is nothing to do

for your son. As far as what to do about the other family I don't

know.

I had a neighbor boy a couple of years back always wanted to get

undressed with my son and look at eachother's penis. I kept my son

away from him because I couldn't get him to stop. The details of how

it came about are too long. Anyways, I had a weird feeling about it

from the beginning because of my experience w/ my childhood friend. I

later found out the father was always laying around his home naked

and looking at porn on his laptop. I have my own thoughts of what may

have happened or what the child saw but I have no proof so I chose to

just stay away and leave it alone. I won't call child protective

services unless I have concrete evidence.

Anyways, I know it's scary but this is my experience and I thought

I'd share so you won't feel alone!

Christy

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