Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 Hello My Fellow Panc Sufferers, I just posted a message concerning unknown pancreatitis. I can't remember being this angry over a post but I will chalk this up to having a very trying day in my quest to move. Maybe I took Dennis's post in the wrong way. I hope I have never come off as being an 'all knowing' person. Believe me, I learn from everyone here everyday. Just as I stay in cooking school everyday. I've learned cooking techniques from people I served in soup kitchens. Guess what I want to say is that I felt a 'holier than thou' attitude when I read that post. There is no way to get a quick diagnosis and just because someone is not a druggie or alkie doesn't mean genetics is THE ANSWER for pancreatitis. I'm sure others have experienced that " LOOK " physicians give when we mentioned anything we have learned from this support group or on the internet in general. I've had nurses in the ER proclaim..'this is possible pancreatitis' when I've had over 175 visits to the ER...75 being at the same hospital and 10 visits being triaged by the same nurse. Please accept my apology for being 'gruff'. If the dx and treatment were that easy none of us would be suffering as there would have been a cure....ability to extract the gene...long ago. Wishing a Peaceful Night to all, N'Awlins Gal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 , Don't get too down on yourself.... we all have Those kinds of days and you are under a lot of stress... Take it easy, you are not alone out there!! You have us night owls to keep you company! {{{HUGZ}}} --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 , Don't get too down on yourself.... we all have Those kinds of days and you are under a lot of stress... Take it easy, you are not alone out there!! You have us night owls to keep you company! {{{HUGZ}}} --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 Bad part about this denise is that I took 30 mg of restaril over 2 hours ago and I can't sleep......my body is not responding well to the increased bllod pressure (it's 220/175) right now..... -- In pancreatitis@y..., Hallock wrote: > > , > Don't get too down on yourself.... we all have Those kinds of days and you are under a lot of stress... Take it easy, you are not alone out there!! You have us night owls to keep you company! > {{{HUGZ}}} > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 , I'm sorry this move has you so stressed. But I bet in the long run you will be glad you are getting things done now. Are you moving in with your mom then? I bet she is glad that she is going to have you all to herself! I wish my daughter would come home more often... I miss her terribly. {{{HUGZ}}} PS... don't let what others say get you upset... obviously he hasn't read up on the subject or he would concur with you. Myself, I can't use any artificial sweeteners. They give me migrane head aches... go figure! --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 , I'm sorry this move has you so stressed. But I bet in the long run you will be glad you are getting things done now. Are you moving in with your mom then? I bet she is glad that she is going to have you all to herself! I wish my daughter would come home more often... I miss her terribly. {{{HUGZ}}} PS... don't let what others say get you upset... obviously he hasn't read up on the subject or he would concur with you. Myself, I can't use any artificial sweeteners. They give me migrane head aches... go figure! --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 , I'm sorry this move has you so stressed. But I bet in the long run you will be glad you are getting things done now. Are you moving in with your mom then? I bet she is glad that she is going to have you all to herself! I wish my daughter would come home more often... I miss her terribly. {{{HUGZ}}} PS... don't let what others say get you upset... obviously he hasn't read up on the subject or he would concur with you. Myself, I can't use any artificial sweeteners. They give me migrane head aches... go figure! --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 -, Problem is that mom & I have never been able to live together Amicably. As I said b4 she thinks all of my physical ailments are of my own doing. She doesn't realize that there is a segment of the population that sleeps during the day and stays up at night for whatever reason. For 33 years I have complained about artificial overhead light...I am blinded by it and get massive migraines on the left side...yet she insists on turning on the light when she is not in the room so that I can 'see' better. I don't want to sound ungreatful as I know she is going beyond the call of duty as a mom or for that matter a human being. I am just very realistic as to my personality and hers. She's completely on a military like schedule...I am not. She is still very degrading as to my choice of profession...I am a Chef..Always have been...always will be. She is just a very controlling person and I've apologized numerous times for not being her ideal daughter. Then again, sometimes God has a way of leeting people know they are not cut out to be parents. I'm well aware that I harbor resentment towards certain things she has done and we've gone through counseling...the therapist gave the best answer...be civil to one another, have no expectations and accept your differences. This move is not the Leave it to Beaver or Ozzie & Harriet scenerio. This is one that didn't work 30 years ago and is even more stressed as my brother harbors resentment towards me for not taking care of our dad when he was dying. I was 80 miles away with a dying child...did the best I could. Still having high BP.... I just wish that this surgery was tomorrow and all of the BS was over with. M -- In pancreatitis@y..., Hallock wrote: > > , > I'm sorry this move has you so stressed. But I bet in the long run you will be glad you are getting things done now. Are you moving in with your mom then? I bet she is glad that she is going to have you all to herself! I wish my daughter would come home more often... I miss her terribly. > {{{HUGZ}}} > > PS... don't let what others say get you upset... obviously he hasn't read up on the subject or he would concur with you. Myself, I can't use any artificial sweeteners. They give me migrane head aches... go figure! > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 -, Problem is that mom & I have never been able to live together Amicably. As I said b4 she thinks all of my physical ailments are of my own doing. She doesn't realize that there is a segment of the population that sleeps during the day and stays up at night for whatever reason. For 33 years I have complained about artificial overhead light...I am blinded by it and get massive migraines on the left side...yet she insists on turning on the light when she is not in the room so that I can 'see' better. I don't want to sound ungreatful as I know she is going beyond the call of duty as a mom or for that matter a human being. I am just very realistic as to my personality and hers. She's completely on a military like schedule...I am not. She is still very degrading as to my choice of profession...I am a Chef..Always have been...always will be. She is just a very controlling person and I've apologized numerous times for not being her ideal daughter. Then again, sometimes God has a way of leeting people know they are not cut out to be parents. I'm well aware that I harbor resentment towards certain things she has done and we've gone through counseling...the therapist gave the best answer...be civil to one another, have no expectations and accept your differences. This move is not the Leave it to Beaver or Ozzie & Harriet scenerio. This is one that didn't work 30 years ago and is even more stressed as my brother harbors resentment towards me for not taking care of our dad when he was dying. I was 80 miles away with a dying child...did the best I could. Still having high BP.... I just wish that this surgery was tomorrow and all of the BS was over with. M -- In pancreatitis@y..., Hallock wrote: > > , > I'm sorry this move has you so stressed. But I bet in the long run you will be glad you are getting things done now. Are you moving in with your mom then? I bet she is glad that she is going to have you all to herself! I wish my daughter would come home more often... I miss her terribly. > {{{HUGZ}}} > > PS... don't let what others say get you upset... obviously he hasn't read up on the subject or he would concur with you. Myself, I can't use any artificial sweeteners. They give me migrane head aches... go figure! > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 -, Problem is that mom & I have never been able to live together Amicably. As I said b4 she thinks all of my physical ailments are of my own doing. She doesn't realize that there is a segment of the population that sleeps during the day and stays up at night for whatever reason. For 33 years I have complained about artificial overhead light...I am blinded by it and get massive migraines on the left side...yet she insists on turning on the light when she is not in the room so that I can 'see' better. I don't want to sound ungreatful as I know she is going beyond the call of duty as a mom or for that matter a human being. I am just very realistic as to my personality and hers. She's completely on a military like schedule...I am not. She is still very degrading as to my choice of profession...I am a Chef..Always have been...always will be. She is just a very controlling person and I've apologized numerous times for not being her ideal daughter. Then again, sometimes God has a way of leeting people know they are not cut out to be parents. I'm well aware that I harbor resentment towards certain things she has done and we've gone through counseling...the therapist gave the best answer...be civil to one another, have no expectations and accept your differences. This move is not the Leave it to Beaver or Ozzie & Harriet scenerio. This is one that didn't work 30 years ago and is even more stressed as my brother harbors resentment towards me for not taking care of our dad when he was dying. I was 80 miles away with a dying child...did the best I could. Still having high BP.... I just wish that this surgery was tomorrow and all of the BS was over with. M -- In pancreatitis@y..., Hallock wrote: > > , > I'm sorry this move has you so stressed. But I bet in the long run you will be glad you are getting things done now. Are you moving in with your mom then? I bet she is glad that she is going to have you all to herself! I wish my daughter would come home more often... I miss her terribly. > {{{HUGZ}}} > > PS... don't let what others say get you upset... obviously he hasn't read up on the subject or he would concur with you. Myself, I can't use any artificial sweeteners. They give me migrane head aches... go figure! > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2002 Report Share Posted September 6, 2002 , I know what you mean about not getting along with mom... my mom and I are fine as long as we don't spend too much time together. I don't know if its a personality conflict of what but it just makes things too hard to cope with. And if your brother can't understand why you chose your child first... its his loss. I would be there for my children before myself (an often times am) or any other person whether they are my parents of any stranger on the street...my kids come frist and I bet your dad knew that and understood. (He is the one that matters in this, and your daughter too) I am so sorry for your losses. I lost my dad 8 years ago and I still miss him. (I probably always will). Well I need to try to lay down, these boys are going to have me up early to try to get me to go buy toys and junk that they don't need!!! Chin up Chicky... things will calm down soon! {{{HUGZand goodnight prayers}}} --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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