9 1/2 year old exposes herself to my 4 year old, i dont know what to do

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Hi all, I have no idea where to begin. well it started three days ago, my

friend went into the hospital and her and her boyfriend asked me to watch

their kids. 9 1/2 year old girl and a two year old boy. so I said okay, I was

doing it to help them in this rough spot. well friday evening I was talking

to their mom on the phone and my 4 year old came into the living room and

told me that the girl wants to see his penis, well I freaked, I asked

what happened and he told me she wanted to see it, now their mother also

heard this well, I told the kids to come in the living room, well it didnt

stop there when the girl came back in the living room , My son said mommy

Brea is different and I asked what he meant and he replied she has a hole,

well I nearly had a heartattack, has no idea what the female looks

like in that way, so she had to spread herself for to see her vagina.

all this time their mother was on the phone listening to this, the girl lied

and said she was looking in a book and just showed the description. I

know for a fact that we do not have such a book. well anyway I left my kids

at home with daddy and I took their kids back home to wait for their father,

once he got there I explained it all to him and he went and asked her if it

was true, he asked did you show your private parts to and she said

yes. I refuse to watch their kids again. I am numb, I have cried and cried I

have talked to a few people and I have been told kids will be kids but I dont

believe that, I just don't know how this could happen, I watched my kids and

their kids like a hawk, I had just checked on them when the phone rang and

went to answer it, I couldnt have been more than five minutes, I was right

there and yet it happened. I really dont know what to do, I have never dealt

with something like this, her parents act like it is nothing and say that I

am over reacting. I can definitly see the friendship changed, I cant even go

near them knowing what has happened, I feel like they arent taking this

serious, The girl Brea already sees a counceler because she has add so they

did call her to tell them what happened, but as far as I know it will be

dealt with later. I am so upset, I haven't slept well these past nights.

is ok and I thank God for that. I am at aloss to know what to do, I

feel helpless, I thought about calling his peditritrician and talking about

how I should deal with this. I explained to that no one is to look or

touch his private parts unless it is with a doctor. I would appreciate if

someone could respond , I really need some support. well I will talk to you

later.

, mommy of 4 yrs old w/cf and 16 months old/no cf