Birthday cakes?? What do you on their b-days?

[Guest guest]

DS' b-day is April 13 and we will be having 2 parties. One on 4/1

w/my IL's that he will share w/his cousin who's b-day is 4/1. The 2nd

party will be 4/15 with my parents/friends.

The first party is the one I'm more worried about b/c it's a shared

party. The 2nd one I will be providing the cake, snacks, etc. so I

can choose whatever it is. I'm not sure about the 1st. party(I need

to contact my SIL about it).

any ideas? Thankfully he isn't much of a cake eater, but he does love

ice cream. I try to buy him the rice milk ice cream b/c he isn't

supposed to have dairy. Any opinions on that?

Thanks!

Janice