Guest guest Posted October 22, 2002 Report Share Posted October 22, 2002 Hello all.....just need to vent a little..Just had an argument with my wife.....She came home today and had to fold some clothes that have been sitting on the dresser for a couple of days...She thinks because she works all day, that she shouldn't have to do trival things such as that...I am on retirement and bring home a decent amount of money every month. Enough to pay for our house and cars and she picks up the rest...The last few weeks, I have been quite depressed.. I am usually the one who is upbeat about most things....not sure why the depression has set in. I can see her point. I also haven't made the bed for a few days in a row.. I know this is a sore spot for her, but just can't seem to get going...She seems to forget though, that it is I who makes sure the house is nice and clean. I may not always do the actual work in keeping the house clean, we have three daughters who have their chores everyday. I am always on top of them to make sure they get it done.. I do all the cooking when my panc isn't trippin out. I help the girls with all of their homework.. I don't mind doing this one bit. I enjoy helping them in anyway that I can. My wife just had a gastric bypass. It is where they shrink the stomach and she is doing great with it. She has lost about 30lbs and has about 60 more to go...she has had thyroid problems over the years and about 6 years ago, she had cancer removed from her neck. I am always there for her, but she seems to have forgotten about this...Sorry, have to state this and I hope I don't offend anyone...our intimate life has been lacking for quite some time also. I understand she gets tired at work an all, but I truly love her and like being with her, but it is almost to the point of begging...I can't/won't and shouldn't have to do so. I try to communicate my feeling to her about this and all subjects and she will nod her head like she understands, but the beat goes on....I am feeling at a loss...I try not to tell her when my panc is hurting...When she has to take me to the ER, I see the pain it cause her to see me in pain in her eyes and I don't like to see that. Most times I just keep it to myself. Sorry for the rant...Thanks for listening... I hope this finds you and yours well Mark E. Armstrong NW Rep, PAI www.top5plus5.com casca@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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