Guest guest Posted November 18, 2002 Report Share Posted November 18, 2002 Yeh , your mum sounds so liek my mum. She can drive me carzy and thats cos she right to haha. I now tell her and at times I snap too then I laugh. We dont often hug only when we see each other she lives a way away . Then we hug We have never been huggy people either. But have become more so in the last few years. She can drive me crazy like no other and yes usually she's right. I may not admit it at the time but later yes mum you told me so you were right. Yes I have learned. Sounds like we are similar ages I am 38. Cheers debs > > Debs, > > Yeah I have a hubby that worries. He's scared to death for me. > He had quit smoking for the 3rd time since we married 12+ years > ago. He was doing well for about 3-4 months. He bought a pack of > cigarettes when he got of the plane in VA after flying there to be > with me when I had the first attack (in over a year) in July. He's > been smoking ever since. I try to keep him from seeing me when the > pain is bad unless it warrants the ER. The other day my mom was > over when I was having a particularly rough day. She and I were > talking and she just got quite all of a sudden. I thought maybe she > wasn't feeling well. I asked if she was okay and she said yes. > Finally I said, Mom what is wrong. she looked at me with tears in > her eyes and said I am just so worried about you. I have tears in > my eyes as I write this. Another time, my 20 year old daughter had > come to the hospital to visit me since I was in the hospital near > the town where she goes to college. She was sitting on my bed, > rubbing my hand, when I noticed she was crying. I asked her what in > the world was the matter. She said she was scared to death for me. > I told her this mama was gonna be fine and had no intention of going > anywhere. I promised her I'd be around a good long time to keep > making her crazy, just like Granny does me (though I don't know what > I'd without my mom). I promised her that eventually I would get > better again. Since that time, I try to downplay things with my > daughter, especially. It's a lot easier than with my mom and hubby > since she lives 2 1/2 hours away. She is only 20 for pete's sake. > She is a junior in college and works, too. She does not need to be > worrying about me! Seeing the pain and worry in the faces of my > loved ones is much more painful than the physical pain. It is one > of the hardest things of a chronic illness. > > > > W > > Spouses that worry > > > > > > Arghhh > > > > I hide my pain most of the time but he frets about me goign down > > hill again especially when I have these episodes pain thats not > > under control. arghhhhh > > anyone else have a fretty hubby > > Kind ahard tellign them its a cross between somone giving you > agood > > punch and a stb in th back with a knife and a sharp twist > > > > arghhh > > > > debs > > > > > > PANCREATITIS Association, Intl. > > Online e-mail group > > > > To reply to this message hit & quot;reply & quot; or send > an e-mail to: Pancreatitis@Y... > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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