Guest guest Posted November 21, 2002 Report Share Posted November 21, 2002 Not coming home tonight. BP crashed when she tried to get up and get dressed. Also found a few cracked ribs and started to have a problem breathing. She seemed better when I left. Docs have her sedated but watching her closely. Don't want to give her too much of anything because of the SVT and low BP. She's managing to get some rest. Thanks for all the posts and I have to say that she is taking way too much on and I'm no help to her at all. Big wake up call for me today. How everything can be gone in a flash. Will have a long talk with her tomorrow about how I promise to help her more around the house and with the kids. Wouldn't blame her if she left me and I know she's thought about it. She did tell me that she was trying to finish up things so she can clear herself up for the next few months. She's exhausted and has taken things on that she couldn't say no to. Shit is hitting the fan in other areas too and the walls are starting to close in on her. May send her away on a little vacation to be alone without me, the kids or anyone else after this is over. God knows she can use it. Thanks for everything. Will keep you posted. Tim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2002 Report Share Posted November 21, 2002 Wrap her in bubble wrap and don't let her leave the house for at least a month! Remove all sharp objects and anything that could shatter and then tell her that we all are lifting her up and are wishing her the best. Alice The Loon RNY 12/28/00 > Not coming home tonight. BP crashed when she tried to get up and get > dressed. Also found a few cracked ribs and started to have a problem > breathing. She seemed better when I left. Docs have her sedated but > watching her closely. Don't want to give her too much of anything > because of the SVT and low BP. She's managing to get some rest. > > Thanks for all the posts and I have to say that she is taking way too > much on and I'm no help to her at all. Big wake up call for me today. > How everything can be gone in a flash. Will have a long talk with her > tomorrow about how I promise to help her more around the house and with > the kids. Wouldn't blame her if she left me and I know she's thought > about it. > > She did tell me that she was trying to finish up things so she can clear > herself up for the next few months. She's exhausted and has taken things > on that she couldn't say no to. Shit is hitting the fan in other areas > too and the walls are starting to close in on her. May send her away on > a little vacation to be alone without me, the kids or anyone else after > this is over. God knows she can use it. > > Thanks for everything. Will keep you posted. > > Tim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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