EMOSTIONS RUN DEEP

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Hi to all of you out there. I have never posted on here before but here

goes.. My wife forwards me a lot of your letter's and as I read them I some

times see my self..

To Vera..

I know the feeling. Except in a little different way, I sit and watch

Deborah go though her painfull emotions, crying etc.. It hurts and I some

times get so upset. I told her the other night when she looked at me and

said " why do you get up set with me " , I said " Honey, it is not you I am up

set with, it is the PD MSA.

Just think of it this way, What if you were sitting there looking at your

Dauther and she was on fire and in so much pain and you could only just sit

here and watch her " that is what I personally feel some times. I waited all

my life to find Deborah, my soul mate and here comes Pd MSA and it is taking

her from me..

Bill, I understand you lost your wife Charlotte, I am very sorry for you,

for I personally can understand your lost. You are a good Man to sit here

after she is gone and continue with this group. I admire you for that..

And to the rest of you out there, THANK YOU. Especially Belinda and Jan. It

has been hard for me to get into this group because I have always been a

loaner. Even in business.. I always did it my way and it is very hard to

change. I quess I have come to the conclusion that to do this alone is TOO

hard and at time's each of us needs help. And one another..

Again, thank you for being there for my wife " tenacity " and now for me.

God bless all,.

Rober " tenacity's Man "

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(tenacity's man),

I am so glad to see you post here on this group. I know the pain you

feel because my husband has also told me the same thing about his

pain. He told me he would do anything he could to be the one who was

suffering and not me. Of course, Deborah and I wouldn't want to give

this to you or my husband anymore than you want us to have it. It

just is wonderful to know that one can be loved that much! I try very

hard to realize the frustrations this must be for the caregivers as I

am sure that others who have been inflicted with this disease has

also. The helplessness it can cause but also knowing you can talk to

others, research the web, talk to doctors, and whatever it takes to

help as much as you can. To me sometimes its the smallest things that

help so much; like holding my hand, holding me, and just saying I

love you means more than anything else. I am so sorry for the ones

who do not have a spouse at home to help them through this disease.

It does make it easier. To anyone who doesn't I want you to email me

and let me listen to you and be there for you in anyway that I can

be. , I thank you and Deborah thanks you for becoming a part of

this group. We are all here for you in all things. Jan and I are

going to come up there in July and see you and Deborah and we can't

wait. Amy and Dee if you want to come to Deborah's house also during

that time let and Deborah know. and Deborah don't you

just love the way I invite myself and everyone to your house. I know

you don't mind. We all have been looking forward to this for some

time. Hang in there you two, we are coming as soon as we can.

Lots of love,

Belinda

>

>

> Hi to all of you out there. I have never posted on here before but

here

> goes.. My wife forwards me a lot of your letter's and as I read

them I some

> times see my self..

>

> To Vera..

> I know the feeling. Except in a little different way, I sit and

watch

> Deborah go though her painfull emotions, crying etc.. It hurts and

I some

> times get so upset. I told her the other night when she looked at

me and

> said " why do you get up set with me " , I said " Honey, it is not you

I am up

> set with, it is the PD MSA.

> Just think of it this way, What if you were sitting there looking

at your

> Dauther and she was on fire and in so much pain and you could only

just sit

> here and watch her " that is what I personally feel some times. I

waited all

> my life to find Deborah, my soul mate and here comes Pd MSA and it

is taking

> her from me..

>

> Bill, I understand you lost your wife Charlotte, I am very sorry

for you,

> for I personally can understand your lost. You are a good Man to

sit here

> after she is gone and continue with this group. I admire you for

that..

>

> And to the rest of you out there, THANK YOU. Especially Belinda and

Jan. It

> has been hard for me to get into this group because I have always

been a

> loaner. Even in business.. I always did it my way and it is very

hard to

> change. I quess I have come to the conclusion that to do this

alone is TOO

> hard and at time's each of us needs help. And one another..

>

> Again, thank you for being there for my wife " tenacity " and now for

me.

>

> God bless all,.

>

> Rober " tenacity's Man "

>

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[Guest guest]

She's right -

We are so glad you are here with us, on the list and posting. And

yes, we will be at your doorstep. I think it is great that we have a

place to talk, all of us, from one end of the world to the other. A

place to share happy and sad times. I only wish Jerry could read the

posts and reply himself. I read him what others write and I think it

helps him feel connected to others. I only wish I had time to stop

and visit all those on the list in cities I will pass through on my

trip. After all, we are going on this trip to see family and you all

feel like family to me.

, there's only one problem with this plan to visit you. I

don't know how you'll be able to put up with Belinda and me at the

same time. Yak, yak, yak......Make sure Deborah takes a nap before

we get there. You might want a nap also.

See you soon, Jan (110 degrees, no rain for 53 days and plenty of

pure, dry heat in Sunny AZ)

-- In shydrager@y..., " belnorest " wrote:

> (tenacity's man),

> I am so glad to see you post here on this group. I know the pain

you

> feel because my husband has also told me the same thing about his

> pain. He told me he would do anything he could to be the one who

was

> suffering and not me. Of course, Deborah and I wouldn't want to

give

> this to you or my husband anymore than you want us to have it. It

> just is wonderful to know that one can be loved that much! I try

very

> hard to realize the frustrations this must be for the caregivers as

I

> am sure that others who have been inflicted with this disease has

> also. The helplessness it can cause but also knowing you can talk

to

> others, research the web, talk to doctors, and whatever it takes to

> help as much as you can. To me sometimes its the smallest things

that

> help so much; like holding my hand, holding me, and just saying I

> love you means more than anything else. I am so sorry for the ones

> who do not have a spouse at home to help them through this disease.

> It does make it easier. To anyone who doesn't I want you to email

me

> and let me listen to you and be there for you in anyway that I can

> be. , I thank you and Deborah thanks you for becoming a part

of

> this group. We are all here for you in all things. Jan and I are

> going to come up there in July and see you and Deborah and we can't

> wait. Amy and Dee if you want to come to Deborah's house also

during

> that time let and Deborah know. and Deborah don't you

> just love the way I invite myself and everyone to your house. I

know

> you don't mind. We all have been looking forward to this for some

> time. Hang in there you two, we are coming as soon as we can.

> Lots of love,

> Belinda

>

>

>

>

> >

> >

> > Hi to all of you out there. I have never posted on here before

but

> here

> > goes.. My wife forwards me a lot of your letter's and as I read

> them I some

> > times see my self..

> >

> > To Vera..

> > I know the feeling. Except in a little different way, I sit and

> watch

> > Deborah go though her painfull emotions, crying etc.. It hurts

and

> I some

> > times get so upset. I told her the other night when she looked at

> me and

> > said " why do you get up set with me " , I said " Honey, it is not

you

> I am up

> > set with, it is the PD MSA.

> > Just think of it this way, What if you were sitting there looking

> at your

> > Dauther and she was on fire and in so much pain and you could

only

> just sit

> > here and watch her " that is what I personally feel some times. I

> waited all

> > my life to find Deborah, my soul mate and here comes Pd MSA and

it

> is taking

> > her from me..

> >

> > Bill, I understand you lost your wife Charlotte, I am very sorry

> for you,

> > for I personally can understand your lost. You are a good Man to

> sit here

> > after she is gone and continue with this group. I admire you for

> that..

> >

> > And to the rest of you out there, THANK YOU. Especially Belinda

and

> Jan. It

> > has been hard for me to get into this group because I have always

> been a

> > loaner. Even in business.. I always did it my way and it is very

> hard to

> > change. I quess I have come to the conclusion that to do this

> alone is TOO

> > hard and at time's each of us needs help. And one another..

> >

> > Again, thank you for being there for my wife " tenacity " and now

for

> me.

> >

> > God bless all,.

> >

> > Rober " tenacity's Man "

> >

> > _________________________________________________________________

> > Send and receive Hotmail on your mobile device:

> http://mobile.msn.com

[Guest guest]

Belinda,

Invite everyone! LOL! At least that will give me something to look

forward to. These past 2 weeks have been difficult. Too much pain, too

difficult to move, too much everything. I am glad that you are writing to

. I told him that I spent the last year training him and now it is

time to show me what he has learned about computers and list groups.

Now that it is getting harder and harder to type, I'm glad I have him as

my eyes, hands and voice.

He has a sense of humor too!

Hugs,

Deborah

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Deborah,

You taught him well. It has been great communicating with and

I look forward (along with the 200 others) to meeting the two of you

and Belinda in July. I'll bring the chips and dip. Someone should

get that baked bean recipe going from the California group. Only

kidding Deborah, no entertaining required. Just seeing you guys and

giving a few hugs will be wonderful. Oh yeah, get lots of rest

because laughter can be exhausting.

Hugs to you and ,

Jan

> Belinda,

>

> Invite everyone! LOL! At least that will give me something to

look

> forward to. These past 2 weeks have been difficult. Too much

pain, too

> difficult to move, too much everything. I am glad that you are

writing to

> . I told him that I spent the last year training him and now

it is

> time to show me what he has learned about computers and list groups.

>

> Now that it is getting harder and harder to type, I'm glad I have

him as

> my eyes, hands and voice.

>

> He has a sense of humor too!

>

> Hugs,

> Deborah

>

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