Vera's Day >Barbara woodford

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Barb:

Your right it does make it hard at times when they do , do these insults,

mostly when your trying so hard to understand what they are feeling. I know

it's hard when so much has changed in their life and ours. Nothing comes

easy with this illness. It's along hard road for all.

Hugs Vera

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Vera,

First of all, we don't go on many trips any more---just to Mayo clinic.

Chuck is hard headed and argues with me on every item. I know if I had

been the one pushing the w/c, he would have been directing me down every

wrong ramp and turn. You and I just have to take the bull (so to speak)

by the horns and do what we think is best.

As far as the insults, that is very unfortunate and I think part of the

disease and frustration from having it. But how awful that must make you

feel, when you're doing your best---beyond best. Maybe, just sit down

with him and tell him you can't handle that insulting stuff anymore.

That's what I do with Chuck on the occasions when he gets that way.

Sometimes it works for a while.