Guest guest Posted June 21, 2001 Report Share Posted June 21, 2001 Evening All Well I thought I would come to the group to post to make sure that I was able to post!LOL This mail stuff is enough to drive a person crazy!LOL Hope you are all doing well! I have had another busy week of work and it is not going to end until next Friday. Yes that is right I don't get a day off until next Friday. Hurry up next Friday get here! LOL I am on days right now until they decide to hire me or someone else to do the job that I am already doing. I go for an interview next Tuesday so wish me luck, I think!LOL I don't know whether I realize what I am getting myself into. I will at least be on days and have weekends off! I had a hearing test on Monday and I passed with flying colors. Not enough hearing loss to count for anything. In fact the guy that tested me said I had really good hearing for someone my age. Hurray for me. At least I know the RP is not going there and I can breath a little easier for awhile! With all the stress and craziness going on right now in my life I am really doing well! The RP is giving me a break and I am holding my own. With all the bad stuff that has happened this year in this family I had some more bad news from my sister. She was diagnose on Friday with Fibromyalgia. She also has pherihial vascular disease. One of the main arteries to her legs is blocked. They are going to open her up from stem to stern and replace the artery. Don't know the exact date due to they have to run another MRI or MRA. Then the surgeon will schedule a date for it. He told her it was very serious surgery right up there with open heart! Please keep my family and sister in your thoughts and prayers. I really feel bad about asking for good thoughts and prayers all the time but it seems like this year has not been a very good one for the McClennen family. Like I said at least I am and have been pretty much holding my own with the RP so that is a real plus! Take care and thanks ahead of time for the good thoughts and prayers! Lots of Love Glenda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2001 Report Share Posted June 23, 2001 Dear Glenda, you are so brave with all the trials you are going through. I admire you greatly. Life is a bitch, my Mom is in the process or dieing, my only sister, no brothers, is on my case all of a sudden. She says my disease is in my head and I'm a depressed woman who is "owning" my disease. I don't have any LOL's now and maybe we just need a good cry. Hell, we deserve it sometime time. You take care and so much enjoy your mail....Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2001 Report Share Posted June 23, 2001 In a message dated 6/23/01 3:28:24 PM Pacific Daylight Time, grandm4@... writes: << I don't have any LOL's now and maybe we just need a good cry. >> Sue, go ahead and have that good cry. I went through almost the same thing when my mom was dying. My sister (only sibling) stayed with me for 6 weeks. Whew!!! She couldn't understand that I was ill. It's so easy for people to just say " Well, just force yourself to do it " . They don't understand there are times we CAN " T force ourselves any more. We forced ourselves to get out of bed. Hang in there and know I'm thinking of ya. (Go stand in that shower and just cry all you want). It may help a little. Lots of hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2001 Report Share Posted June 23, 2001 Thank You , I dealt with my mom going into nursing home, etc. shows up every few years and because I do love here, hey, it me. I put up with her b.s. She knows what buttons to push. I took a shower this morning but may need to take another one...T hank you so very much... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2001 Report Share Posted June 23, 2001 Sue My heart goes out to you! I have been through all that with both my parents. It is hard enough to go through without having RP on top of it! Take care and don't let them get to you! You, and you alone know what you are able to do. I am here if you need me! Sue I don't know whether I am brave or not!LOL I just know I have to go through or get through them for some reason or the other. I don't know all the reasons for any of it but there is a higher power that does! Take care of yourself!!!! Lots of Love Glenda Dear Glenda, you are so brave with all the trials you are going through. I admire you greatly. Life is a bitch, my Mom is in the process or dieing, my only sister, no brothers, is on my case all of a sudden. She says my disease is in my head and I'm a depressed woman who is "owning" my disease. I don't have any LOL's now and maybe we just need a good cry. Hell, we deserve it sometime time. You take care and so much enjoy your mail....Sue ---Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free.Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).Version: 6.0.256 / Virus Database: 129 - Release Date: 5/31/2001 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2001 Report Share Posted June 23, 2001 Dear Sue, Sorry you are having to deal with your sister along with your mom's illness and your own health problems. You don't need that stress in your life. We just have to let what they say go in one ear and out the other. Easier said than done sometimes though. I've been through the wringer with my two sisters and my mother in law. I try not to let it get to me, but it still does. First, I get mad, then I sulk for a week, then I usually get over it till the next time. But, each time that happens it takes a toll on my body. Can't change them, so I just have to try and let it go. Have a good cry, that's probably a lot healthier than the way I handle it. I'm here, anytime you want to blow off some steam. Love, Marilyn Dear Glenda, you are so brave with all the trials you are going through. I > admire you greatly. Life is a bitch, my Mom is in the process or dieing, my > only sister, no brothers, is on my case all of a sudden. She says my disease > is in my head and I'm a depressed woman who is " owning " my disease. I don't > have any LOL's now and maybe we just need a good cry. Hell, we deserve it > sometime time. You take care and so much enjoy your mail....Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2001 Report Share Posted June 24, 2001 Dear Marilyn, my sister knows me very well, she knows what buttons to push. I have been taking care of Mom for years and she shows upn every few years. When she does we connect and then she pushes me. I did decide to let her have IT in my next email. Sick of her shit...sorry, but that's how I feel. She blamed her whole life on my Mom and now she sits back and judges me..I don't think so...Thanks so much...Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2001 Report Share Posted June 24, 2001 Thank You Glenda, there is a higher power and I know that. In fact I'm counting on it...You are such a good person. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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