Guest guest Posted June 22, 2004 Report Share Posted June 22, 2004 Ok, the nerves have definitely set in. I keep going between a slight panic to a calm feeling of knowing this is almost done (in a sense)! The thought of surgery really doesn't leave my mind for too long. I really was good about not letting it get to me; but as soon as Monday hit, geez! It's not the surgery I'm so worried about obviously I'll have no clue, but it's waking up that I'm scared of. The unknown, it's a little too much. I have to check into the hospital on Thursday at 5:45; surgery is scheduled for 8:15, boy that seems like a long time to be sitting there. Too long. What exactly takes place during those 2 1/2 hours? Do they offer something to calm you or do you have to ask? (I've never had a surgery before.) & can you get it right away or is it like given to you right before surgery time? My mom is going to be there with me, and she is so supportive. I hope that my surgery/recovery can go as smoothly as the others in the June group. carrie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2004 Report Share Posted June 22, 2004 I totally understand - I just had my first surgery a couple of weeks ago on June 9. Like you I was worried about waking up. I guess that's just natural - the fear of the unknown. Not much you can do about it except get prepared at home. It's strange: the day before the surgery, when I visited my orthodontist, and they put my hooks in, I started to feel more calm. It's almost like events have taken over and you are just going along for the ride. You realize that people are going to take care of everything and all you really have to do is show up. Anyway I had a similar situation to yours: show up at 5:30 am for an 8:30 am surgery. You change into a hospital gown and they put you on a bed. My wife was there with me. Then an admitting nurse comes, weighs you, takes your vital signs, asks you a bunch of questions (that you've already answered 10 times), they put the wristband on you, and then you wait. No they don't offer you anything to calm your nerves. I don't know if asking will help, maybe it will. My wife was the one who really needed something. Right at about the time for your surgery maybe a little earlier, they wheel you down to the surgery area. The surgical nurse goes over your chart and then the anesthesiologist is there. He starts the IV. Then he says, " we're going to give you a little cocktail for the trip down the hall " or something like that and he pushes something into your IV. They wheel you into another area where your surgeon is waiting, and you may say hello to a few people in there, and then you wake up. Just like that (snapping fingers). I was very lucky (I guess) I had no nausea, queasiness, etc. I actually felt good when I woke up, except for a sore throat. Of course my mouth was fixed shut but I remember them asking, " how do you feel " and saying, " ok " . After a few minutes they wheeled me to my room and my wife was there and also my Dad and I felt pretty good. I spent the night and went home the next morning. Jay > Ok, the nerves have definitely set in. I keep going between a > slight panic to a calm feeling of knowing this is almost done (in a > sense)! The thought of surgery really doesn't leave my mind for too > long. I really was good about not letting it get to me; but as soon > as Monday hit, geez! It's not the surgery I'm so worried about > obviously I'll have no clue, but it's waking up that I'm scared of. > The unknown, it's a little too much. > > I have to check into the hospital on Thursday at 5:45; surgery is > scheduled for 8:15, boy that seems like a long time to be sitting > there. Too long. What exactly takes place during those 2 1/2 > hours? Do they offer something to calm you or do you have to ask? > (I've never had a surgery before.) & can you get it right away or > is it like given to you right before surgery time? My mom is going > to be there with me, and she is so supportive. > > I hope that my surgery/recovery can go as smoothly as the others in > the June group. > > carrie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2004 Report Share Posted June 22, 2004 , I know exactly how u feel. I had my surgery on June 8th and i was a nervous wreck for about 5 days before! But the night before really got me...i was so nervous that i forgot to eat my last " real " meal. I remember sitting in the tv room with my mother(im 18) and looking at law and order which comes on at 11 and goes off at 12. The closing credits were rolling and my tummy was growling. Mommy says oh well might as well go to bed u cant eat now. So there i was a nervous AND hungry wreck. Needless to say i didnt sleep until about 7:30 the morning of my surgery when they put me under. After 9 hours of surgery(upper and lower to fix class 3 underbite) and 2 hours in the recovery room i was awakened by a very cheerful young lady who asked me how i felt. I felt fine just a little tired and very thirsty. She gave me water in a syringe about 10 ten times after that. It was weird because i was so nervous and anxious before i now felt so calm and relaxed to know that it was all over and i was on " the other side " . It was actually kind of overwhelming. There was very little pain a lot of numbness and i think the worse part of my experience was the fact that they made my mommy leave me at 10pm because i had a semi-private room and visitors werent allowed overnight. And now that i am 15 days post-op i actually feel great about the surgery my swellin has gone downa great deal and i feel great now. So i hope i was helpful and inspiring, good luck and my prayers are with you as well as hopes for a problem-free surgery and recovery. Dont worry things will be fine! Just take lots of deep breaths and relax(i know its hard). -Krystal > Ok, the nerves have definitely set in. I keep going between a > slight panic to a calm feeling of knowing this is almost done (in a > sense)! The thought of surgery really doesn't leave my mind for too > long. I really was good about not letting it get to me; but as soon > as Monday hit, geez! It's not the surgery I'm so worried about > obviously I'll have no clue, but it's waking up that I'm scared of. > The unknown, it's a little too much. > > I have to check into the hospital on Thursday at 5:45; surgery is > scheduled for 8:15, boy that seems like a long time to be sitting > there. Too long. What exactly takes place during those 2 1/2 > hours? Do they offer something to calm you or do you have to ask? > (I've never had a surgery before.) & can you get it right away or > is it like given to you right before surgery time? My mom is going > to be there with me, and she is so supportive. > > I hope that my surgery/recovery can go as smoothly as the others in > the June group. > > carrie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2004 Report Share Posted June 23, 2004 Ditto here. Same exact story, except I'm not married and my parents are long dead, so my friend was waiting for me at ICU.. I was offered something to calm me, but I refused it. I didn't need it that bad. Ray > I totally understand - I just had my first surgery a couple > of weeks ago on June 9. Like you I was worried about waking up. I > guess that's just natural - the fear of the unknown. Not much you > can do about it except get prepared at home. > > It's strange: the day before the surgery, when I visited my > orthodontist, and they put my hooks in, I started to feel more > calm. It's almost like events have taken over and you are just > going along for the ride. You realize that people are going to take > care of everything and all you really have to do is show up. > > Anyway I had a similar situation to yours: show up at 5:30 am for an > 8:30 am surgery. You change into a hospital gown and they put you > on a bed. My wife was there with me. Then an admitting nurse > comes, weighs you, takes your vital signs, asks you a bunch of > questions (that you've already answered 10 times), they put the > wristband on you, and then you wait. No they don't offer you > anything to calm your nerves. I don't know if asking will help, > maybe it will. My wife was the one who really needed something. > > Right at about the time for your surgery maybe a little earlier, > they wheel you down to the surgery area. The surgical nurse goes > over your chart and then the anesthesiologist is there. He starts > the IV. Then he says, " we're going to give you a little cocktail > for the trip down the hall " or something like that and he pushes > something into your IV. They wheel you into another area where your > surgeon is waiting, and you may say hello to a few people in there, > and then you wake up. Just like that (snapping fingers). > > I was very lucky (I guess) I had no nausea, queasiness, etc. I > actually felt good when I woke up, except for a sore throat. Of > course my mouth was fixed shut but I remember them asking, " how do > you feel " and saying, " ok " . > > After a few minutes they wheeled me to my room and my wife was there > and also my Dad and I felt pretty good. I spent the night and went > home the next morning. > > Jay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2004 Report Share Posted June 23, 2004 Jay, Thank you so much for your thorough reply. I am right there with . I am going in Friday morn. Your description of what happens was helpful to me. I have had two other surgeries (tonsils and rhino for broken nose) so i know what it's like a little. You're lucky with no nausea. I had it both times and that is my biggest fear. Well, it's 5:43am right now and i just scoffed down something pretty hefty for breakfast. sorry, i probably should not have said that! i am STILL trying to put on a few pounds at this late stage. > > Ok, the nerves have definitely set in. I keep going between a > > slight panic to a calm feeling of knowing this is almost done (in > a > > sense)! The thought of surgery really doesn't leave my mind for > too > > long. I really was good about not letting it get to me; but as > soon > > as Monday hit, geez! It's not the surgery I'm so worried about > > obviously I'll have no clue, but it's waking up that I'm scared > of. > > The unknown, it's a little too much. > > > > I have to check into the hospital on Thursday at 5:45; surgery is > > scheduled for 8:15, boy that seems like a long time to be sitting > > there. Too long. What exactly takes place during those 2 1/2 > > hours? Do they offer something to calm you or do you have to > ask? > > (I've never had a surgery before.) & can you get it right away or > > is it like given to you right before surgery time? My mom is > going > > to be there with me, and she is so supportive. > > > > I hope that my surgery/recovery can go as smoothly as the others > in > > the June group. > > > > carrie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2004 Report Share Posted June 23, 2004 Hi , Best wishes to you Thursday, AM, You will be in my thoughts and prayers! All will be fine! As far a being at the hospital so early . . . they have their reasons. All the pre-op stuff they have to do . . . number one is to get you in to that lovely hospital gown! Believe me, time will go by quickly. I am 3 weeks post op today and feeling good. I was back at work 2 weeks post op. Of course, days 3 and 4 were about the worse for me. I have had no pain! When I woke in the hospital, I didn't even have a morphine pump. The only pain medication I received in the hospital was Toradol and I was sent home with liquid Lortab (from what I understand, the Lortab is stronger than the Toradol). I was discharged the next day and was lying comfortably in a recliner by 12 noon. Just make sure you take in lots of nourishment. I drank lots of apple juice and water, along with Boost, chicken broth, beef consomme and liquefied mash potatoes. I was also lucky because I was not wired or banded when I came out of surgery . .. . which made " eating " much easier for me. I did use zippie bags. My OS put bands on one week after surgery which I wore 24-7 until this past Monday. Now I only where the bands at night. Enough of my rambling . . . just wanted to wish you the best! Let us know how you are doing when you can. God speed ! Dale Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2004 Report Share Posted June 23, 2004 Krystal, that was such a positive message. I am sure appreciates it a lot. i know i do and i am in for surgery this Friday. I am SURE your attitude has a lot to do with how great you feel. Good for you. > > Ok, the nerves have definitely set in. I keep going between a > > slight panic to a calm feeling of knowing this is almost done (in > a > > sense)! The thought of surgery really doesn't leave my mind for > too > > long. I really was good about not letting it get to me; but as > soon > > as Monday hit, geez! It's not the surgery I'm so worried about > > obviously I'll have no clue, but it's waking up that I'm scared > of. > > The unknown, it's a little too much. > > > > I have to check into the hospital on Thursday at 5:45; surgery is > > scheduled for 8:15, boy that seems like a long time to be sitting > > there. Too long. What exactly takes place during those 2 1/2 > > hours? Do they offer something to calm you or do you have to > ask? > > (I've never had a surgery before.) & can you get it right away or > > is it like given to you right before surgery time? My mom is > going > > to be there with me, and she is so supportive. > > > > I hope that my surgery/recovery can go as smoothly as the others > in > > the June group. > > > > carrie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2004 Report Share Posted June 23, 2004 Yes the Lortab is liquid hydrocodone which is stronger than codeine. > Hi , > Best wishes to you Thursday, AM, You will be in my thoughts and prayers! > All will be fine! > As far a being at the hospital so early . . . they have their reasons. All > the pre-op stuff they have to do . . . number one is to get you in to that > lovely hospital gown! Believe me, time will go by quickly. I am 3 weeks post op > today and feeling good. I was back at work 2 weeks post op. Of course, days > 3 and 4 were about the worse for me. I have had no pain! When I woke in the > hospital, I didn't even have a morphine pump. The only pain medication I > received in the hospital was Toradol and I was sent home with liquid Lortab (from > what I understand, the Lortab is stronger than the Toradol). I was discharged > the next day and was lying comfortably in a recliner by 12 noon. Just make > sure you take in lots of nourishment. I drank lots of apple juice and water, > along with Boost, chicken broth, beef consomme and liquefied mash potatoes. I > was also lucky because I was not wired or banded when I came out of surgery . > . . which made " eating " much easier for me. I did use zippie bags. My OS put > bands on one week after surgery which I wore 24-7 until this past Monday. > Now I only where the bands at night. Enough of my rambling . . . just wanted to > wish you the best! Let us know how you are doing when you can. God speed > ! > Dale > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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