Re: Anniversary of sorts

[Guest guest]

Can you retroactively dedicate your marathon run partially to him?

Some of those anniversaries can be a bear. Yesterday was the tenth

anniversary of my previous husband's death. In his case, morbid obesity,

hypertension, cholesterol, and the immediate cause was sleep apnea. He

was not yet 39. Although I have gone on with my life, remarrying and

having a son, there are still times when I miss Marty. Especially some

of his VERY rude sayings, which have snuck their way into my vocabulary.

Diane Duenas wrote:

>The fourth anniversary of my brothers death from morbid obesity(450+

>pounds) at the young age of 34 will be approaching soon....Sept 4th.

>Its really bothering me more this year, especially since I was given

>the gift he died waiting for approval to receive. I'd like to celebrate

>it in a significant way. Any ideas??

>

>

--

Eleanor Oster

eleanor@... (personal address)

www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

San , CA

Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

~5'9 " tall

05/09/2003 319 Orientation

07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?

[Guest guest]

I think thats a great idea. So many people have told me the way to

remember and honor him is to enjoy my new life that he died wanting.

I wii let you all know what I decide.

Huggles

>

> >The fourth anniversary of my brothers death from morbid obesity

(450+

> >pounds) at the young age of 34 will be approaching soon....Sept

4th.

> >Its really bothering me more this year, especially since I was

given

> >the gift he died waiting for approval to receive. I'd like to

celebrate

> >it in a significant way. Any ideas??

> >

> >

> --

> Eleanor Oster

> eleanor@s... (personal address)

> www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> San , CA

> Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> ~5'9 " tall

> 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?