Peace

[Guest guest]

I want to add my comments regarding the recent, er, unpleasantness. I

personally do not want to see ANYONE go. I will remind some of the

oldtimers of a flap I got involved with. I was attacked, and I was very

pleasantly surprised at the level of support I received. So far so good.

But the other side is that the other person appears to have fallen off

the face of the earth, and I feel bad about that! Is there something I

could have done differently? Is she okay? I don't know, and that bothers me.

I guess what I'm saying is that, okay, some things were said, and

feelings ran hot. Francisco tends to be quite sensitive, which is one of

the things I love about him, but it does mean that he might have felt

hurt when that was not the intent. I don't know. I haven't read the

emails between the principles, nor do I want to.

I look on this group as being like a family. I don't want to have to

choose sides, and I don't want to lose anyone from this group. You're my

family, and ALL of you are precious to me. Yes, even those I don't hear

from. We have enough demons to fight in the outside world. Let's not

fight each other, okay?

Hope this made sense. Bottom line is that you are my family, and I love

and need you ALL!

--

Eleanor Oster

eleanor@... (personal address)

www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

San , CA

Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

~5'9 " tall

05/09/2003 319 Orientation

07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?

[Guest guest]

Thank you, thank you, thank you Eleanor!! Finally,

someone who makes sense!!

Pam b

--- Eleanor Oster wls@...> wrote:

> I want to add my comments regarding the recent, er,

> unpleasantness. I

> personally do not want to see ANYONE go. I will

> remind some of the

> oldtimers of a flap I got involved with. I was

> attacked, and I was very

> pleasantly surprised at the level of support I

> received. So far so good.

>

> But the other side is that the other person appears

> to have fallen off

> the face of the earth, and I feel bad about that! Is

> there something I

> could have done differently? Is she okay? I don't

> know, and that bothers me.

>

> I guess what I'm saying is that, okay, some things

> were said, and

> feelings ran hot. Francisco tends to be quite

> sensitive, which is one of

> the things I love about him, but it does mean that

> he might have felt

> hurt when that was not the intent. I don't know. I

> haven't read the

> emails between the principles, nor do I want to.

>

> I look on this group as being like a family. I don't

> want to have to

> choose sides, and I don't want to lose anyone from

> this group. You're my

> family, and ALL of you are precious to me. Yes, even

> those I don't hear

> from. We have enough demons to fight in the outside

> world. Let's not

> fight each other, okay?

>

> Hope this made sense. Bottom line is that you are my

> family, and I love

> and need you ALL!

>

> --

> Eleanor Oster

> eleanor@... (personal address)

> www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> San , CA

> Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> ~5'9 " tall

> 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?

>

>

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