Guest guest Posted August 16, 2005 Report Share Posted August 16, 2005 Very funny, miss girly girl. I love your posts by the way. RobynnPamela wrote: I had thought that was going to "dis-allow anyfurther postings about this, but since not... Icompletely understand where you are coming from,Martha. And yes, I truly believe that "fat girls"often do not stand-up for themselves as often as theyshould because they feel as if they are already aburden for just being fat, for just taking up space,(isn't that sad?!) However, with that said, I think that there is farmore than one victim here: it's all of us. This issuehas taken away from what is really important; the loveand support we have for one another. I've said itbefore and I'll say it again: Can't we all just stopand, in the words of Azin, continue talking aboutconstipation? :)Pam BPS I hope that I did not offend anyone with this post.(OMG, Was that the "fat girl" in me talking just now?)--- nursefera2 wrote:> Regarding the recent unpleasantness...Please allow> me this post.> > My sense is that, like most of us who've removed our> fat suits,> Francisco is going through a period where he feels> like his skin is> peeled off. Nevertheless he is a man of fairness and> generosity. I> think he can tell when someone has good intentions,> even if what they> say comes out poorly. I tend to trust his judgement> about people and I> consider him a close friend. > > This is the second beloved friend of mine who has> been driven off this> list because she/he didn't feel safe here. In both> cases, someone from> this list sent hurtful emails to her/his private> email address,> criticizing that person's personal life. > > Given what I said above about Francisco's judgement,> I am reluctant to> let Rory off the hook. Yes, I read Rory's apology> and denial. But now> some people are scrambling to apologize for the> heated things they> said about the attacker. We fat girls are so ready> to apologize for> any time we stand up... and I don't think you should> in this case.> > The strong words that people used here were> addressed to an ANONYMOUS> bully and were a reflection of how much they love> Francisco. I expect> Rory to understand that, to know that people do> appreciate his> positive contributions, and not exploit the> situation to portray> himself as the victim here. > > Sincerely,> Martha> > > > > > __________________________________ Yahoo! Mail for Mobile Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone. http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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