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I need advice desperately. I have had IBS (irritable bowel syndrome - Nervous Diahrea) for some years. Recently due to my ballooning weight, my personal feelings about myself and stress, the IBS has gotten alot worse.

I am scared to go out of the house, and i hate driving. I saw my gastroenterologist today and he feels that I shouldn't have BPD/DS as it will probably make my IBS ten times worse. Oh the other hand I feel that if I lose some of the weight that it may make the IBS a little better, even if at the begining it is worse. My doctor has put me on Anti-depressants to try and calm the panic attacks but they arent working and I am not happy about being medicated.

Oh please someone out there tell me what you think, I feel like my dream of losing weight is slipping out of my fingers, but I certainly don't want to have BPD/DS and find that I am worse off. Oh What am I going to do???

Sobs

Tracey

Tracey....

I don't think that is necessarily true. I also have IBS, to the point where I had to always be places with a bathroom, never drove in traffic because god forbid I got stuck and my stomach acted up. I am having this done and my dr didn't say anything along those lines. I will say since I moved and got some things done that reduced my stress...its become almost a non issue in recent time, but I still have days where I want to stay home. I would question that..maybe some people here that have had it will be able to give you advice....

~~* AJ *~~

BMI 58

NW Washington Medical

DR Heap, Richland WA

Working on 1st appeal

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Hi Everyone

I need advice desperately. I have had IBS (irritable bowel syndrome -

Nervous Diahrea) for some years. Recently due to my ballooning weight, my

personal feelings about myself and stress, the IBS has gotten alot worse. I

am scared to go out of the house, and i hate driving. I saw my

gastroenterologist today and he feels that I shouldn't have BPD/DS as it

will probably make my IBS ten times worse. Oh the other hand I feel that if

I lose some of the weight that it may make the IBS a little better, even if

at the begining it is worse. My doctor has put me on Anti-depressants to

try and calm the panic attacks but they arent working and I am not happy

about being medicated.

Oh please someone out there tell me what you think, I feel like my dream of

losing weight is slipping out of my fingers, but I certainly don't want to

have BPD/DS and find that I am worse off. Oh What am I going to do???

Sobs

Tracey

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Wow I just logged on to ask about the effects of IBS

when you have the BPD/DS. I am glad I am not the only

person wondering

Lisbeth

--- lookn2bthin@... wrote:

> In a message dated 5/30/01 7:47:48 PM Pacific

> Daylight Time,

> taylorbear@... writes:

>

>

> > I need advice desperately. I have had IBS

> (irritable bowel syndrome -

> > Nervous Diahrea) for some years. Recently due to

> my ballooning weight, my

> > personal feelings about myself and stress, the IBS

> has gotten alot worse.

> > I

> > am scared to go out of the house, and i hate

> driving. I saw my

> > gastroenterologist today and he feels that I

> shouldn't have BPD/DS as it

> > will probably make my IBS ten times worse. Oh the

> other hand I feel that

> > if

> > I lose some of the weight that it may make the IBS

> a little better, even if

> > at the begining it is worse. My doctor has put me

> on Anti-depressants to

> > try and calm the panic attacks but they arent

> working and I am not happy

> > about being medicated.

> >

> > Oh please someone out there tell me what you

> think, I feel like my dream of

> > losing weight is slipping out of my fingers, but I

> certainly don't want to

> > have BPD/DS and find that I am worse off. Oh What

> am I going to do???

> >

> > Sobs

> > Tracey

> >

> >

>

> Tracey....

>

> I don't think that is necessarily true. I also have

> IBS, to the point where I

> had to always be places with a bathroom, never drove

> in traffic because god

> forbid I got stuck and my stomach acted up. I am

> having this done and my dr

> didn't say anything along those lines. I will say

> since I moved and got some

> things done that reduced my stress...its become

> almost a non issue in recent

> time, but I still have days where I want to stay

> home. I would question

> that..maybe some people here that have had it will

> be able to give you

> advice....

>

> ~~* AJ *~~

> BMI 58

> NW Washington Medical

> DR Heap, Richland WA

> Working on 1st appeal

>

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Hi ,

This is not medical advice just a few suggestions from another patient.

Those antidepressants shouldn't be the first medicatioin if the problem is

anxiety. Ask about klonopin or small amount of xanax or something in that

family. Only use them for short time. Long term they are addictive.

Since you said you don't like being on drugs you might want to try KAVA.

Usualy in liquid dropper bottle. Follow directions. I would use few drops under

tounge. Tastes lousy but it really does calm you down.

Valerian might also help. Chamomile tea is worth a try also.

But the KAVA is best and works fastest.

You might add lots of fiber to your diet. That helped me with IBS in the past.

Not a cure but a big help.

Also, I dont know if you have blood sugar problems but cutting out sugar and

cutting down on starches;breads,pasta, etc, will help the anxiety. It has for me

and its' certainly worth a shot.

Now these suggestions don't take away the real stressors you currently have

in your life but they can make them easier to deal with.

I'm preop so I won't address the D/S stuff. Others will, I'm sure.

Good Luck,

Will

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I respectfully disagree with you, Will.

All the SSRI antidepressants and Serzone/Nefazodone are FDA approved for use

in anxiety and are often prescribed just for that purpose. I like

Paxil/Paroxetine and Serzone/Nefazodone best for anxiety. Interestingly,

many of my colleagues prefer prescribing Effexor for anxiety. I haven't had

such success with that for my patients.

Xanax and Klonopin are extremely addictive within less than a month. Yes,

some folks use them wisely and without abuse for years. Others are abusing

within weeks. For good anxiety control the medication has to be taken

routinely, not on an " as needed " or PRN basis. The catecholamines that

produce anxiety are deactivated in about 20 minutes-- faster than the meds

can work. These medications (benzos) also can cause confusion, impair

judgment, and make depression worse. Combined with alcohol they are deadly.

They can be lifesavers for occasional use.

Anxiety is also very responsive to non medication interventions.

And I totally agree that there are many things we can do to relieve anxiety.

Tracey, some folks report good results with SSRIs for IBS. Others complain

it is worse. Hope yours is better.

in Seattle

----- Original Message -----

> Hi ,

> This is not medical advice just a few suggestions from another

patient. Those antidepressants shouldn't be the first medicatioin if the

problem is anxiety. Ask about klonopin or small amount of xanax or something

in that family. Only use them for short time. Long term they are addictive.

> Since you said you don't like being on drugs you might want to try KAVA.

Usualy in liquid dropper bottle. Follow directions. I would use few drops

under tounge. Tastes lousy but it really does calm you down.

> Valerian might also help. Chamomile tea is worth a try also.

> But the KAVA is best and works fastest.

> You might add lots of fiber to your diet. That helped me with IBS in the

past. Not a cure but a big help.

> Also, I dont know if you have blood sugar problems but cutting out sugar

and cutting down on starches;breads,pasta, etc, will help the anxiety. It

has for me and its' certainly worth a shot.

> Now these suggestions don't take away the real stressors you currently

have in your life but they can make them easier to deal with.

> I'm preop so I won't address the D/S stuff. Others will, I'm sure.

> Good Luck,

>

> Will

>

>

> ----------------------------------------------------------------------

>

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I am always nervous about replying to people's questions because I

feel like I am no expert, and never want to steer anyone wrong. But

in this instance, I can tell you I have had a similar experience.

When I told Dr. Pomp during my pre-op consultation that I have, in

the past, been told by my PCP that I have a touch of irritable bowel

syndrome, Dr. P made me have a colonoscopy along with the usual

endoscopy. He said that if it is just IBS, then it would be okay,

but if it was actually the more serious Inflamed Bowel Disease, then

you could not have the BPD/DS. Because DSers have a tendency to have

diarrhea anyway post-op, it would be a mistake. The Colonoscopy was

to rule out H Pylori bacteria if I remember correctly.

I had my surgery 6 months ago. I had terrible diarrhea for 6 weeks

after the surgery. The only thing that helped it was Cholysteramine

(a prescription for high cholesterol that has a side effect of

causing constipation in people with normal GI tracts). I still take

it now, but only 1/2 a packet every night instead of a whole packet

(you mix it with OJ). While I still have diarrhea occasionally, it

is not worse than it was before the surgery, in fact it is better.

Tracey, I feel your anguish. I was sick with worry that the

colonoscopy might show that I couldn't have the surgery, because I

knew that would be my death sentence. At 386 pounds I could barely

even stand for more than 5 minutes at a time. Walking a block was a

nightmare of shortness of breath and sweating like a pig, even in 50

degree weather. Diabetes and high blood pressure were in their early

stages, and my knees were a ruin. I feel tears pricking the back of

my eyes right this very moment as I think about it, and think about

you and know what you are feeling. And I thank God every day for

giving me Dr. Pomp, and letting me come through the surgery with

flying colors. I have lost 118 pounds in 6 months. I feel happy for

the first time in so many years that I thought there was something

wrong with me until I realized that's what it was: Happiness. I

told my sister I didn't know what to make of it, had no experience

with it, what do people do with these random feelings of happiness

that hit you at inexplicable moments and cause you to smile foolishly

for no reason? As much as I hate to tell another person what to do,

I so want you to feel this feeling. I don't know where you are, or

who your surgeon is, or if you even have one yet. Your surgeon needs

to be comfortable that you are the right candidate for him, but you

need him to be the right surgeon for you. You can email me if you

want to, and we can talk on the phone. My email is

janicedrew@....

Best wishes,

Janice Drew

386/268

BPD/DS 11/29/00

Dr. Alfons Pomp, Mt. Sinai in NYC

> Hi Everyone

> I need advice desperately. I have had IBS (irritable bowel

syndrome -

> Nervous Diahrea) for some years. Recently due to my ballooning

weight, my

> personal feelings about myself and stress, the IBS has gotten alot

worse. I

> am scared to go out of the house, and i hate driving. I saw my

> gastroenterologist today and he feels that I shouldn't have BPD/DS

as it

> will probably make my IBS ten times worse. Oh the other hand I

feel that if

> I lose some of the weight that it may make the IBS a little better,

even if

> at the begining it is worse. My doctor has put me on Anti-

depressants to

> try and calm the panic attacks but they arent working and I am not

happy

> about being medicated.

>

> Oh please someone out there tell me what you think, I feel like my

dream of

> losing weight is slipping out of my fingers, but I certainly don't

want to

> have BPD/DS and find that I am worse off. Oh What am I going to

do???

>

> Sobs

> Tracey

>

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I can't speak from personal experience -- but hopefully those who have/had

IBS will speak up. I do know that I've read some cases where it got worse

with the DS, but most, I believe, got better. You can always do a search in

the message archives, as well.

Wishing you the best -

Kris G

Cincinnati, Ohio

5'7 " , 40 years old

8/22 - 283 - BMI 44.3

05/22 - 152 - BMI 23.8

ciao to 131 lbs. & 134.25 inches in 9 months

Open BPD/DS 08/22/00

Bowel obstruction surgery 4/21/01

Dr. Maguire, Kettering OH

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Re: DESPERATE

| Wow I just logged on to ask about the effects of IBS

| when you have the BPD/DS. I am glad I am not the only

| person wondering

|

| Lisbeth

|

| --- lookn2bthin@... wrote:

| > In a message dated 5/30/01 7:47:48 PM Pacific

| > Daylight Time,

| > taylorbear@... writes:

| >

| >

| > > I need advice desperately. I have had IBS

| > (irritable bowel syndrome -

| > > Nervous Diahrea) for some years. Recently due to

| > my ballooning weight, my

| > > personal feelings about myself and stress, the IBS

| > has gotten alot worse.

| > > I

| > > am scared to go out of the house, and i hate

| > driving. I saw my

| > > gastroenterologist today and he feels that I

| > shouldn't have BPD/DS as it

| > > will probably make my IBS ten times worse. Oh the

| > other hand I feel that

| > > if

| > > I lose some of the weight that it may make the IBS

| > a little better, even if

| > > at the begining it is worse. My doctor has put me

| > on Anti-depressants to

| > > try and calm the panic attacks but they arent

| > working and I am not happy

| > > about being medicated.

| > >

| > > Oh please someone out there tell me what you

| > think, I feel like my dream of

| > > losing weight is slipping out of my fingers, but I

| > certainly don't want to

| > > have BPD/DS and find that I am worse off. Oh What

| > am I going to do???

| > >

| > > Sobs

| > > Tracey

| > >

| > >

| >

| > Tracey....

| >

| > I don't think that is necessarily true. I also have

| > IBS, to the point where I

| > had to always be places with a bathroom, never drove

| > in traffic because god

| > forbid I got stuck and my stomach acted up. I am

| > having this done and my dr

| > didn't say anything along those lines. I will say

| > since I moved and got some

| > things done that reduced my stress...its become

| > almost a non issue in recent

| > time, but I still have days where I want to stay

| > home. I would question

| > that..maybe some people here that have had it will

| > be able to give you

| > advice....

| >

| > ~~* AJ *~~

| > BMI 58

| > NW Washington Medical

| > DR Heap, Richland WA

| > Working on 1st appeal

| >

|

|

| __________________________________________________

|

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It's odd because I have gone through so many different

medical issues in the past and its only now that I

realize that I am not the only one. I have noticed

though that fatty and oily things are what get my IBS

really working overtime like yesterday for example, so

now I am trying to stay away from the oily and fatty

and I hope that works. Thank for the support it feels

nice to know that someone is there to listen.

Also for me I'm lactose intolerant. That makes a huge difference if I stay away from dairy. And yes...fats were my enemy also...LOL

Its nice to know I wasn't alone...sure wish I'd had a computer back 5 years ago...

~~* AJ *~~

BMI 58

NW Washington Medical

DR Heap, Richland WA

Working on 1st appeal

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Lisbeth

IBS is such a common problem but I honestly never knew so many people were

afflicted. I have opened up to my sister in law and best friend about my

problem (both whom i have know for in excess of 10 years) and both revealed

that they have had a similar problem that they have now under control, and

yet it has never come up in conversation I know that talking about bowel

problems is certainly yucky but just the fact that everyone here has opened

up to me so freely and shared their point of views and feelings makes me

incredibly grateful.

Hugs Tracey

>

>Reply-To: duodenalswitch

>To: duodenalswitch

>Subject: Re: DESPERATE

>Date: Wed, 30 May 2001 20:36:55 -0700 (PDT)

>

>Wow I just logged on to ask about the effects of IBS

>when you have the BPD/DS. I am glad I am not the only

>person wondering

>

>Lisbeth

>

>--- lookn2bthin@... wrote:

> > In a message dated 5/30/01 7:47:48 PM Pacific

> > Daylight Time,

> > taylorbear@... writes:

> >

> >

> > > I need advice desperately. I have had IBS

> > (irritable bowel syndrome -

> > > Nervous Diahrea) for some years. Recently due to

> > my ballooning weight, my

> > > personal feelings about myself and stress, the IBS

> > has gotten alot worse.

> > > I

> > > am scared to go out of the house, and i hate

> > driving. I saw my

> > > gastroenterologist today and he feels that I

> > shouldn't have BPD/DS as it

> > > will probably make my IBS ten times worse. Oh the

> > other hand I feel that

> > > if

> > > I lose some of the weight that it may make the IBS

> > a little better, even if

> > > at the begining it is worse. My doctor has put me

> > on Anti-depressants to

> > > try and calm the panic attacks but they arent

> > working and I am not happy

> > > about being medicated.

> > >

> > > Oh please someone out there tell me what you

> > think, I feel like my dream of

> > > losing weight is slipping out of my fingers, but I

> > certainly don't want to

> > > have BPD/DS and find that I am worse off. Oh What

> > am I going to do???

> > >

> > > Sobs

> > > Tracey

> > >

> > >

> >

> > Tracey....

> >

> > I don't think that is necessarily true. I also have

> > IBS, to the point where I

> > had to always be places with a bathroom, never drove

> > in traffic because god

> > forbid I got stuck and my stomach acted up. I am

> > having this done and my dr

> > didn't say anything along those lines. I will say

> > since I moved and got some

> > things done that reduced my stress...its become

> > almost a non issue in recent

> > time, but I still have days where I want to stay

> > home. I would question

> > that..maybe some people here that have had it will

> > be able to give you

> > advice....

> >

> > ~~* AJ *~~

> > BMI 58

> > NW Washington Medical

> > DR Heap, Richland WA

> > Working on 1st appeal

> >

>

>

>__________________________________________________

>

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Hey Tracey,

It's odd because I have gone through so many different

medical issues in the past and its only now that I

realize that I am not the only one. I have noticed

though that fatty and oily things are what get my IBS

really working overtime like yesterday for example, so

now I am trying to stay away from the oily and fatty

and I hope that works. Thank for the support it feels

nice to know that someone is there to listen.

Lisbeth

--- Tracey Owen taylorbear@...> wrote:

> Lisbeth

> IBS is such a common problem but I honestly never

> knew so many people were

> afflicted. I have opened up to my sister in law and

> best friend about my

> problem (both whom i have know for in excess of 10

> years) and both revealed

> that they have had a similar problem that they have

> now under control, and

> yet it has never come up in conversation I know

> that talking about bowel

> problems is certainly yucky but just the fact that

> everyone here has opened

> up to me so freely and shared their point of views

> and feelings makes me

> incredibly grateful.

>

> Hugs Tracey

>

>

> >

> >Reply-To: duodenalswitch

> >To: duodenalswitch

> >Subject: Re: DESPERATE

> >Date: Wed, 30 May 2001 20:36:55 -0700 (PDT)

> >

> >Wow I just logged on to ask about the effects of

> IBS

> >when you have the BPD/DS. I am glad I am not the

> only

> >person wondering

> >

> >Lisbeth

> >

> >--- lookn2bthin@... wrote:

> > > In a message dated 5/30/01 7:47:48 PM Pacific

> > > Daylight Time,

> > > taylorbear@... writes:

> > >

> > >

> > > > I need advice desperately. I have had IBS

> > > (irritable bowel syndrome -

> > > > Nervous Diahrea) for some years. Recently due

> to

> > > my ballooning weight, my

> > > > personal feelings about myself and stress, the

> IBS

> > > has gotten alot worse.

> > > > I

> > > > am scared to go out of the house, and i hate

> > > driving. I saw my

> > > > gastroenterologist today and he feels that I

> > > shouldn't have BPD/DS as it

> > > > will probably make my IBS ten times worse. Oh

> the

> > > other hand I feel that

> > > > if

> > > > I lose some of the weight that it may make the

> IBS

> > > a little better, even if

> > > > at the begining it is worse. My doctor has

> put me

> > > on Anti-depressants to

> > > > try and calm the panic attacks but they arent

> > > working and I am not happy

> > > > about being medicated.

> > > >

> > > > Oh please someone out there tell me what you

> > > think, I feel like my dream of

> > > > losing weight is slipping out of my fingers,

> but I

> > > certainly don't want to

> > > > have BPD/DS and find that I am worse off. Oh

> What

> > > am I going to do???

> > > >

> > > > Sobs

> > > > Tracey

> > > >

> > > >

> > >

> > > Tracey....

> > >

> > > I don't think that is necessarily true. I also

> have

> > > IBS, to the point where I

> > > had to always be places with a bathroom, never

> drove

> > > in traffic because god

> > > forbid I got stuck and my stomach acted up. I

> am

> > > having this done and my dr

> > > didn't say anything along those lines. I will

> say

> > > since I moved and got some

> > > things done that reduced my stress...its become

> > > almost a non issue in recent

> > > time, but I still have days where I want to stay

> > > home. I would question

> > > that..maybe some people here that have had it

> will

> > > be able to give you

> > > advice....

> > >

> > > ~~* AJ *~~

> > > BMI 58

> > > NW Washington Medical

> > > DR Heap, Richland WA

> > > Working on 1st appeal

> > >

> >

> >

> >__________________________________________________

> >

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On Thu, 31 May 2001 12:23:33 -0400 " Kris Gibbs " iwillbefit@...>

writes:

> I can't speak from personal experience -- but hopefully those who

> have/had

> IBS will speak up. I do know that I've read some cases where it got

> worse

> with the DS, but most, I believe, got better. You can always do a

> search in

> the message archives, as well.

>

A chum of mine, not a WLS person, has IBS, and she said it is totally

controlled by Fibercon tablets. It seems to regulate the amount of water

in the large bowel, no matter which problem you have, too much or too

little. It solved my problems with loose stool when I was on Optifast,

too. Nan E.

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