Guest guest Posted September 28, 2005 Report Share Posted September 28, 2005 Ok, I just had a horrible experience. A guy who appeared to not have all his facilties together, a stranger, possibly homeless...just passed me on the street and said and I quote, " Nice fat ass " . Im devastated. My coworkers said to take it as a compliment(kinda like a J Lo thing, saying most men like well rounded rear ends)...but all I heard is the fat part and almost fell apart. Im sooo upset. Huggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 29, 2005 Report Share Posted September 29, 2005 , Don't worry so much about what other people say... especially somebody who isn't in his right mind. It is very possible he was talking to his imaginary friend or maybe he said "phat" and not "fat" which is slang for "nice" or "great". I kind of like the latter of the two Don't waste your good energy on somebody who doesn't mean anything to you. Just my 2 cents. Hugs, Kym Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 29, 2005 Report Share Posted September 29, 2005 , I really, really feel for you as I am going thru something similar, and although, I am still HUGE and you're not, it hurts just the same. EVERYTIME I go to pick up my 4 y/o from pre-school, inevitably a child will say, in a very loud voice, " Boy, is 's Mommy FAT! " . I fell so ashamed, not for me, but for . But, what can I do? I can't change the way a four year old's mind works, (well, not any child other than my own, that is). Anyway, keep your chin up! You have come a long, long way, , and look WONDERFUL!!!! Don't allow some idiot's statement to bring you down! (Besides, men truly do seem to love " fat asses " , so perhaps you should take it as a compliment...) Take care! Pam b --- Diane Duenas brendadiane64@...> wrote: > Ok, I just had a horrible experience. A guy who > appeared to not have > all his facilties together, a stranger, possibly > homeless...just passed > me on the street and said and I quote, " Nice fat > ass " . Im devastated. > My coworkers said to take it as a compliment(kinda > like a J Lo thing, > saying most men like well rounded rear ends)...but > all I heard is the > fat part and almost fell apart. Im sooo upset. > > Huggles > > > __________________________________ Yahoo! Mail - PC Magazine Editors' Choice 2005 http://mail.yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 29, 2005 Report Share Posted September 29, 2005 Oh Im so sorry Pam. I think thats what hurt the most, it brought up so many old emotions. I know Im not normal weighted yet, I have hips and a butt...but Im not FAT anymore. Sigh!!! Huggles > > > Ok, I just had a horrible experience. A guy who > > appeared to not have > > all his facilties together, a stranger, possibly > > homeless...just passed > > me on the street and said and I quote, " Nice fat > > ass " . Im devastated. > > My coworkers said to take it as a compliment(kinda > > like a J Lo thing, > > saying most men like well rounded rear ends)...but > > all I heard is the > > fat part and almost fell apart. Im sooo upset. > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________ > Yahoo! Mail - PC Magazine Editors' Choice 2005 > http://mail.yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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