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Lori,

I'm sorry I can't help you, however, I do think that it would be a smart idea

for you to go to the emergency room if you can't get in touch with any Dr.'s

within a day or 2.

I'm sure everything is fine and you needn't worry. I will keep my fingers

crossed that all is ok. Please let me know.

Patti & in MD

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Lori,

I'm sorry I can't help you, however, I do think that it would be a smart idea

for you to go to the emergency room if you can't get in touch with any Dr.'s

within a day or 2.

I'm sure everything is fine and you needn't worry. I will keep my fingers

crossed that all is ok. Please let me know.

Patti & in MD

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Sounds like a bladder infection and if it is, it will get worse fast

and that will drive you do medical attention. It will make you have

to urinate *very* often, but nothing comes out.

It's easy to get and just about as easy to get rid of but it's awful

to have it.

You'll get some medicine that will probably turn your urine orange.

In the meantime, start drinking cranberry juice, as much as you can

stand.

> I dont know if its MGB related....After urinating I had blood, so I

m

> thinking I have Blood in my urine. And for certain it's not from

> menses...Well, when I urinated there was a little pressure a little

> painful. I have no other systems. CAn you get a urinary infection

> from not drinking enough liquids? Can this be inturn of an inflated

> liver?

> I m not in a panic..yet. I m out of town. Doc in the box is closed

> now but will open in the morning...Do I go to emergency now??? is

> this MGB related? I tried paging Dr R and he is probably in

transit,

> with no answer.

> Lori

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--- Well, I went for a urine test and theres a trace of bacteria and

they gave me one super duper antibiotic, and will send it out for a

culture.

The pain this morning was almost nothing, and the test showed that I

had NO blood in my urine. so I m lucky and THANK_FUL!

The dry blood I had was after I urinated yesterday afternoon,,very

small amount then this morning no blood, little discomfort...this was

not explained to me. I had no other symptoms didnt have the " need to

go .........But yesterday Painful(urethra) . The doc in the box here

gave me one super antibiotic......So I m getting treated for UTI,

hopefully that will be the end of it.....

Do you think its from the catherder at surgery??? I dont know what to

In MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com, " " <lindat@f...>

wrote:

>

> Sounds like a bladder infection and if it is, it will get worse

fast

> and that will drive you do medical attention. It will make you

have

> to urinate *very* often, but nothing comes out.

>

> It's easy to get and just about as easy to get rid of but it's

awful

> to have it.

>

> You'll get some medicine that will probably turn your urine orange.

>

> In the meantime, start drinking cranberry juice, as much as you can

> stand.

>

>

>

>

>

> > I dont know if its MGB related....After urinating I had blood, so

I

> m

> > thinking I have Blood in my urine. And for certain it's not from

> > menses...Well, when I urinated there was a little pressure a

little

> > painful. I have no other systems. CAn you get a urinary infection

> > from not drinking enough liquids? Can this be inturn of an

inflated

> > liver?

> > I m not in a panic..yet. I m out of town. Doc in the box is

closed

> > now but will open in the morning...Do I go to emergency now??? is

> > this MGB related? I tried paging Dr R and he is probably in

> transit,

> > with no answer.

> > Lori

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--- Well, I went for a urine test and theres a trace of bacteria and

they gave me one super duper antibiotic, and will send it out for a

culture.

The pain this morning was almost nothing, and the test showed that I

had NO blood in my urine. so I m lucky and THANK_FUL!

The dry blood I had was after I urinated yesterday afternoon,,very

small amount then this morning no blood, little discomfort...this was

not explained to me. I had no other symptoms didnt have the " need to

go .........But yesterday Painful(urethra) . The doc in the box here

gave me one super antibiotic......So I m getting treated for UTI,

hopefully that will be the end of it.....

Do you think its from the catherder at surgery??? I dont know what to

In MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com, " " <lindat@f...>

wrote:

>

> Sounds like a bladder infection and if it is, it will get worse

fast

> and that will drive you do medical attention. It will make you

have

> to urinate *very* often, but nothing comes out.

>

> It's easy to get and just about as easy to get rid of but it's

awful

> to have it.

>

> You'll get some medicine that will probably turn your urine orange.

>

> In the meantime, start drinking cranberry juice, as much as you can

> stand.

>

>

>

>

>

> > I dont know if its MGB related....After urinating I had blood, so

I

> m

> > thinking I have Blood in my urine. And for certain it's not from

> > menses...Well, when I urinated there was a little pressure a

little

> > painful. I have no other systems. CAn you get a urinary infection

> > from not drinking enough liquids? Can this be inturn of an

inflated

> > liver?

> > I m not in a panic..yet. I m out of town. Doc in the box is

closed

> > now but will open in the morning...Do I go to emergency now??? is

> > this MGB related? I tried paging Dr R and he is probably in

> transit,

> > with no answer.

> > Lori

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Lori,

I'm glad you went to the doc; I also have a bladder infection, first

one in 7 years. It probably is from not enough fluids, i.e. water.

My urine is concentrated more now than after surgery so I try to get

in the fluids. I had the same discomfort and blood but I also had my

period at the same time. I started on an over-the-counter med called

Azo-Dine (it turns your urine bright orange!) for the discomfort and

spasms. For future reference, it is good to keep on hand, it is only

effective for 48 hours until you can see the doctor, but it eases the

pain. Also, like said, cranberry juice helps the ph of your

bladder so you inhibit anymore bacterial growth until you get on the

antibiotic. I'm keeping a supply on hand in case this happens again!

Take care!!

MGB 5/15/00

> > > I dont know if its MGB related....After urinating I had blood,

so

> I

> > m

> > > thinking I have Blood in my urine. And for certain it's not

from

> > > menses...Well, when I urinated there was a little pressure a

> little

> > > painful. I have no other systems. CAn you get a urinary

infection

> > > from not drinking enough liquids? Can this be inturn of an

> inflated

> > > liver?

> > > I m not in a panic..yet. I m out of town. Doc in the box is

> closed

> > > now but will open in the morning...Do I go to emergency now???

is

> > > this MGB related? I tried paging Dr R and he is probably in

> > transit,

> > > with no answer.

> > > Lori

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Hi,

Just a question to help pin down the problem. Was he taking the

florinef after about 2 PM ? It is best to take the florinef when you

first arise and then before 2 PM as it stays in the system a fairly long

time and taking it after 2 pm caused problems with many people for

sleeping time.

Carol's ideas look good also - cutting back and possibly trying Midrodine.

Take care, Bill Werre

============

mgildor wrote:

>If I can make a suggestion for those trying to decide between canes

>and walking poles - Eastern Mountain Sports makes a cork

>handled 'walking stick', adjustable and collapsable, which comes with

>a removable basket and rubber tip. We found it to be the most

>versitile so far.

>HELP - My husband just started getting severe headaches with very

>high blood pressure when he sits or squats in one position for very

>long and when he goes to bed. When up and about his pressure is quite

>low. He had been taking Fludro 4 -5 days a week for the past couple

>of months with good results untill now. His MDs have taken him off of

>it and he can barely function. Has anyone dealt with this problem

>successfully? Up untill this happened he was coping rather well,

>considering....

>I saw a link to articles on otrhostatic hypotension in one of Pam's

>posts and can't get back to it. Can anyone refer me to the articles?

>

>I seem to be asking a lot for my first post. I've been reading the

>posts for a while and have found them very helpful. Thank you all.

>

>

>If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may

>unsubscribe by sending a blank email to

>

>shydrager-unsubscribe

>

>

>

>

>

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Hi,

Just a question to help pin down the problem. Was he taking the

florinef after about 2 PM ? It is best to take the florinef when you

first arise and then before 2 PM as it stays in the system a fairly long

time and taking it after 2 pm caused problems with many people for

sleeping time.

Carol's ideas look good also - cutting back and possibly trying Midrodine.

Take care, Bill Werre

============

mgildor wrote:

>If I can make a suggestion for those trying to decide between canes

>and walking poles - Eastern Mountain Sports makes a cork

>handled 'walking stick', adjustable and collapsable, which comes with

>a removable basket and rubber tip. We found it to be the most

>versitile so far.

>HELP - My husband just started getting severe headaches with very

>high blood pressure when he sits or squats in one position for very

>long and when he goes to bed. When up and about his pressure is quite

>low. He had been taking Fludro 4 -5 days a week for the past couple

>of months with good results untill now. His MDs have taken him off of

>it and he can barely function. Has anyone dealt with this problem

>successfully? Up untill this happened he was coping rather well,

>considering....

>I saw a link to articles on otrhostatic hypotension in one of Pam's

>posts and can't get back to it. Can anyone refer me to the articles?

>

>I seem to be asking a lot for my first post. I've been reading the

>posts for a while and have found them very helpful. Thank you all.

>

>

>If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may

>unsubscribe by sending a blank email to

>

>shydrager-unsubscribe

>

>

>

>

>

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Do you both see the same doc? If you don't, but you like your doctor, why

not get his/her opinion on your child. Also, ask what other antibiotics are

sensitive, perhaps they could use a different combination from the current

one. Also, is your child on the TOBI inhalation cycle?

Personally, the TOBI cycle has helped my son very well, even though his bugs

are resistant to tobramycin.

Amber

Nick's mom

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Do you both see the same doc? If you don't, but you like your doctor, why

not get his/her opinion on your child. Also, ask what other antibiotics are

sensitive, perhaps they could use a different combination from the current

one. Also, is your child on the TOBI inhalation cycle?

Personally, the TOBI cycle has helped my son very well, even though his bugs

are resistant to tobramycin.

Amber

Nick's mom

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My daughter has tried inhaled Tobi and it caused her bronchospasms, and inhaled

Colisten caused her PFTs to drop dramatically after taking it. No we have

different doctors, and there are a couple more they have added to the clinic in

the past year, and I think I am going to switch her to one of them.

Date: Tue, 11 Mar 2003 20:26:45 EST

From: misybailey1@...

Subject: Re: Help!

Do you both see the same doc? If you don't, but you like your doctor, why

not get his/her opinion on your child. Also, ask what other antibiotics are

sensitive, perhaps they could use a different combination from the current

one. Also, is your child on the TOBI inhalation cycle?

Personally, the TOBI cycle has helped my son very well, even though his bugs

are resistant to tobramycin.

Amber

Nick's mom

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My daughter spent every 6 months in the hospital with coughing and weight loss

for over 3 years, but finally I requested a bronc to look and see what was

really wrong with her. They took a culture and saw that she has Asthma like

symptoms and hardly any real infection , she does have PA but we don't have a

hard time treating that, they also found Aspergilla and then treated her

correctly and we stayed out of the hospital for 1 1/2years. If they are going to

put a port in your daughter ask if they can do a bronc at the same time. There

are new drugs for PA also, as my daughter is resistant to all oral drugs. If you

have the choice to see another DR with a different plan don't hesitate as your

daughter is more important than making a DR feel good about his job.

Help!

I am new to the wesites about CF, but I have learned so much from

reading all the emails, thank you all. I started my search to find

alternatives for treating my daughter within the last month. She has

had a rough couple of years, she has pseusdomonas, and it has really

been acting up. She has had 3 week courses of antibiotics about

every 6 mos over the last 2 years. but since Oct. this will be the 3

time. The last time she came off a course, the end of Jan. her lungs

were cleaner then they had been in a long time. The within 3 weeks

she caught and cold and the " bad spots " started coming back. She

goes in the hospital tomorrow to be started on antibiotics because

Friday she is getting a port put in. She will then do another 3 week

course of antibiotics. She has became resistant to Cipro and

starting to get resistant to Tobra. I am very frustrated because the

treatment plan they are using for her is not working, it temporarily

makes it better but now within weeks it comes right back. I have

read about a few different things that he should try and I have

asked about them and I have not gotten any answers from him, however

by Friday he will tell me what his plan is or we will be fnding

another doctor. My question to you all is, what works for you? What

have you found to really help to keep your pseudomonas under

control? I also have CF and pseudomonas, but I am able to keep mine

more controlled than her, except when I am really stressed and

worried about her like now. Thank you all again for all your help!

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Hi,

I am far behind with my mails and this may have be said already, but I think

that three weeks courses are not the correct treatment against pseudomonas

infections. You have to take Cipro and Colistin at least for three MONTHS.

The shorter courses may be the reason for the resistancy. But there are

other drugs like gentamicin and Zithromax that could help to eradicate the

bug. If at all possible look out for a second opinion, your current doc is

not up to date.

Peace

Torsten, dad of Fiona 6wcf

e-mail: torstenkrafft@...

Help!

> I am new to the wesites about CF, but I have learned so much from

> reading all the emails, thank you all. I started my search to find

> alternatives for treating my daughter within the last month. She has

> had a rough couple of years, she has pseusdomonas, and it has really

> been acting up. She has had 3 week courses of antibiotics about

> every 6 mos over the last 2 years. but since Oct. this will be the 3

> time. The last time she came off a course, the end of Jan. her lungs

> were cleaner then they had been in a long time. The within 3 weeks

> she caught and cold and the " bad spots " started coming back. She

> goes in the hospital tomorrow to be started on antibiotics because

> Friday she is getting a port put in. She will then do another 3 week

> course of antibiotics. She has became resistant to Cipro and

> starting to get resistant to Tobra. I am very frustrated because the

> treatment plan they are using for her is not working, it temporarily

> makes it better but now within weeks it comes right back. I have

> read about a few different things that he should try and I have

> asked about them and I have not gotten any answers from him, however

> by Friday he will tell me what his plan is or we will be fnding

> another doctor. My question to you all is, what works for you? What

> have you found to really help to keep your pseudomonas under

> control? I also have CF and pseudomonas, but I am able to keep mine

> more controlled than her, except when I am really stressed and

> worried about her like now. Thank you all again for all your help!

>

>

>

>

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> The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY

> be construed as medical advice.

>

> PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR

TREATMENTS.

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It is my opinion that though occasionally enlightened cf centers do the

right treatment, as mentioned by Torsten, most do not and one is fortu

nate indeed to get even two weeks of the same old two antibiotics, which, of

course, increases one's resistance to antibiotics. I am fortun

ate in that Colistin is part of my regimen, I am still not resistant to

Cipro,

and have a reasonably enlightened physician--but this is not common

here in the united states.

Good luck to all at cf parents--keep advocating for the bet treatment

that you can get for your child or for yourself; my adult child wcf has got

ten treatment as good as have I.

n

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Marla, does the doctor that did the psyc eval know all the past therapy

you've had addressing this? I too was told to lose 28# prior to surgery.

It sounded like going to the moon! I knew that no way would I be able to do

that....if so, then why did I need the surgery? Well, after 11 months I

lost 7#, but it didn't stop the surgery. The reason they recommend 10% is

to make the surgery easier and safer....more room to move around inside.

Once I understood this, I had more motivation to lose some.

I totally relate to your childhood and how it has affected you. Your post

is exactly what I would have written about myself. I had 11 years of

therapy, that actually began as a weight loss tool. Learned a lot about

myself, and changed a lot of coping skills, but certainly didn't affect my

weight. That's where my question comes in.....does this doctor know the

therapy you've already had? If so, I don't understand his opinion that you

need therapy. My psyc eval was done by a psychiatrist that I've been seeing

for almost 10 years (thankfully I'm over the hard part of therapy, and now

only see him every 4 months), and when I told him, he thought it was a great

idea, and supported me totally. He knows what I've done to try to lose

weight...and keep it off. The weight clinic wanted to send me to their

doctor, but I told them I already had one that knew me and could do it. It

didn't need to be a specific doctor. This eval is what the insurance

company wants. Do some research about your specific situation and find out

if you can use " your " doctor if you still have access to him/her. Or

educate the current doctor as to past therapy. Good luck!

Joan

LAP RNY 11/18/03

Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA

282pre-op/275surg/236/140

Well that is not my reason for writing. My problem,...the doctor

that did my psy eval, says I need therapy to deal with my reason for

over eating. And he says I need to loose 10% of my body weight

before surgery. My weight now is 261, so 10% would be 26 lbs. Have

you folks been told the same? I really am new at this, so please

give me feed back. A little background. As a child, I was a victim

of sexual abuse. He thinks this is my reason for over eating. Yes,

it has some to do with the problem. I have been through years of

therapy and I still have an eating disorder. When he told me they

would not approve the surgery until I went through therapy and lost

26 lbs, first I cried then I ate and gained 10 lbs in 2 weeks! Any

information would be greatly appreciated. As a result of the abuse,

I also have PTSD. I am no longer a victim, but a survivor, so I know

I can survivor this also.

Marla Sloan

Pre-op

Dr. Murr TGH

261/135

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Marla, does the doctor that did the psyc eval know all the past therapy

you've had addressing this? I too was told to lose 28# prior to surgery.

It sounded like going to the moon! I knew that no way would I be able to do

that....if so, then why did I need the surgery? Well, after 11 months I

lost 7#, but it didn't stop the surgery. The reason they recommend 10% is

to make the surgery easier and safer....more room to move around inside.

Once I understood this, I had more motivation to lose some.

I totally relate to your childhood and how it has affected you. Your post

is exactly what I would have written about myself. I had 11 years of

therapy, that actually began as a weight loss tool. Learned a lot about

myself, and changed a lot of coping skills, but certainly didn't affect my

weight. That's where my question comes in.....does this doctor know the

therapy you've already had? If so, I don't understand his opinion that you

need therapy. My psyc eval was done by a psychiatrist that I've been seeing

for almost 10 years (thankfully I'm over the hard part of therapy, and now

only see him every 4 months), and when I told him, he thought it was a great

idea, and supported me totally. He knows what I've done to try to lose

weight...and keep it off. The weight clinic wanted to send me to their

doctor, but I told them I already had one that knew me and could do it. It

didn't need to be a specific doctor. This eval is what the insurance

company wants. Do some research about your specific situation and find out

if you can use " your " doctor if you still have access to him/her. Or

educate the current doctor as to past therapy. Good luck!

Joan

LAP RNY 11/18/03

Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA

282pre-op/275surg/236/140

Well that is not my reason for writing. My problem,...the doctor

that did my psy eval, says I need therapy to deal with my reason for

over eating. And he says I need to loose 10% of my body weight

before surgery. My weight now is 261, so 10% would be 26 lbs. Have

you folks been told the same? I really am new at this, so please

give me feed back. A little background. As a child, I was a victim

of sexual abuse. He thinks this is my reason for over eating. Yes,

it has some to do with the problem. I have been through years of

therapy and I still have an eating disorder. When he told me they

would not approve the surgery until I went through therapy and lost

26 lbs, first I cried then I ate and gained 10 lbs in 2 weeks! Any

information would be greatly appreciated. As a result of the abuse,

I also have PTSD. I am no longer a victim, but a survivor, so I know

I can survivor this also.

Marla Sloan

Pre-op

Dr. Murr TGH

261/135

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Too bad it's not the other way around. I could gain 10 percent in 3

days or less!!!lol

I am sitting here waiting on my mom to pick my kids up so I can go

to doctor!! Made my list!! I heard the doctor looked good too! That

makes it so much harder!! LOL

> Marla, does the doctor that did the psyc eval know all the past

therapy

> you've had addressing this? I too was told to lose 28# prior to

surgery.

> It sounded like going to the moon! I knew that no way would I be

able to do

> that....if so, then why did I need the surgery? Well, after 11

months I

> lost 7#, but it didn't stop the surgery. The reason they

recommend 10% is

> to make the surgery easier and safer....more room to move around

inside.

> Once I understood this, I had more motivation to lose some.

>

> I totally relate to your childhood and how it has affected you.

Your post

> is exactly what I would have written about myself. I had 11 years

of

> therapy, that actually began as a weight loss tool. Learned a lot

about

> myself, and changed a lot of coping skills, but certainly didn't

affect my

> weight. That's where my question comes in.....does this doctor

know the

> therapy you've already had? If so, I don't understand his opinion

that you

> need therapy. My psyc eval was done by a psychiatrist that I've

been seeing

> for almost 10 years (thankfully I'm over the hard part of therapy,

and now

> only see him every 4 months), and when I told him, he thought it

was a great

> idea, and supported me totally. He knows what I've done to try to

lose

> weight...and keep it off. The weight clinic wanted to send me to

their

> doctor, but I told them I already had one that knew me and could

do it. It

> didn't need to be a specific doctor. This eval is what the

insurance

> company wants. Do some research about your specific situation and

find out

> if you can use " your " doctor if you still have access to him/her.

Or

> educate the current doctor as to past therapy. Good luck!

>

> Joan

> LAP RNY 11/18/03

> Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA

> 282pre-op/275surg/236/140

> Well that is not my reason for writing. My problem,...the doctor

> that did my psy eval, says I need therapy to deal with my reason

for

> over eating. And he says I need to loose 10% of my body weight

> before surgery. My weight now is 261, so 10% would be 26 lbs.

Have

> you folks been told the same? I really am new at this, so please

> give me feed back. A little background. As a child, I was a

victim

> of sexual abuse. He thinks this is my reason for over eating.

Yes,

> it has some to do with the problem. I have been through years of

> therapy and I still have an eating disorder. When he told me they

> would not approve the surgery until I went through therapy and

lost

> 26 lbs, first I cried then I ate and gained 10 lbs in 2 weeks!

Any

> information would be greatly appreciated. As a result of the

abuse,

> I also have PTSD. I am no longer a victim, but a survivor, so I

know

> I can survivor this also.

>

> Marla Sloan

> Pre-op

> Dr. Murr TGH

> 261/135

>

>

>

>

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Too bad it's not the other way around. I could gain 10 percent in 3

days or less!!!lol

I am sitting here waiting on my mom to pick my kids up so I can go

to doctor!! Made my list!! I heard the doctor looked good too! That

makes it so much harder!! LOL

> Marla, does the doctor that did the psyc eval know all the past

therapy

> you've had addressing this? I too was told to lose 28# prior to

surgery.

> It sounded like going to the moon! I knew that no way would I be

able to do

> that....if so, then why did I need the surgery? Well, after 11

months I

> lost 7#, but it didn't stop the surgery. The reason they

recommend 10% is

> to make the surgery easier and safer....more room to move around

inside.

> Once I understood this, I had more motivation to lose some.

>

> I totally relate to your childhood and how it has affected you.

Your post

> is exactly what I would have written about myself. I had 11 years

of

> therapy, that actually began as a weight loss tool. Learned a lot

about

> myself, and changed a lot of coping skills, but certainly didn't

affect my

> weight. That's where my question comes in.....does this doctor

know the

> therapy you've already had? If so, I don't understand his opinion

that you

> need therapy. My psyc eval was done by a psychiatrist that I've

been seeing

> for almost 10 years (thankfully I'm over the hard part of therapy,

and now

> only see him every 4 months), and when I told him, he thought it

was a great

> idea, and supported me totally. He knows what I've done to try to

lose

> weight...and keep it off. The weight clinic wanted to send me to

their

> doctor, but I told them I already had one that knew me and could

do it. It

> didn't need to be a specific doctor. This eval is what the

insurance

> company wants. Do some research about your specific situation and

find out

> if you can use " your " doctor if you still have access to him/her.

Or

> educate the current doctor as to past therapy. Good luck!

>

> Joan

> LAP RNY 11/18/03

> Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA

> 282pre-op/275surg/236/140

> Well that is not my reason for writing. My problem,...the doctor

> that did my psy eval, says I need therapy to deal with my reason

for

> over eating. And he says I need to loose 10% of my body weight

> before surgery. My weight now is 261, so 10% would be 26 lbs.

Have

> you folks been told the same? I really am new at this, so please

> give me feed back. A little background. As a child, I was a

victim

> of sexual abuse. He thinks this is my reason for over eating.

Yes,

> it has some to do with the problem. I have been through years of

> therapy and I still have an eating disorder. When he told me they

> would not approve the surgery until I went through therapy and

lost

> 26 lbs, first I cried then I ate and gained 10 lbs in 2 weeks!

Any

> information would be greatly appreciated. As a result of the

abuse,

> I also have PTSD. I am no longer a victim, but a survivor, so I

know

> I can survivor this also.

>

> Marla Sloan

> Pre-op

> Dr. Murr TGH

> 261/135

>

>

>

>

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hi marla. my gut feeling: this " scoundrel " has a vested interest in getting u

to come back for more sessions.

after surg, if folks need to talk in order to avoid self-sabotage b/c of old

patterns, that's another story.

obesity is a disease, imagine if they had smokers deal w/ their " issues " before

operating on them? ludicrous!!

it's another slap for the disenfranchised MO population, imho.

i pray there's another recourse to this for ya.

keep posting.

lori h.

--- In Gastric_Bypass_Family , " Marla " <msloan3@t...> wrote

Hi everyone. You all give me so much information and hope. I just

> want to say thanks first of all.

> Well that is not my reason for writing. My problem,...the doctor

> that did my psy eval, says I need therapy to deal with my reason for

> over eating. And he says I need to loose 10% of my body weight

> before surgery. My weight now is 261, so 10% would be 26 lbs. Have

> you folks been told the same? I really am new at this, so please

> give me feed back. A little background. As a child, I was a victim

> of sexual abuse. He thinks this is my reason for over eating. Yes,

> it has some to do with the problem. I have been through years of

> therapy and I still have an eating disorder. When he told me they

> would not approve the surgery until I went through therapy and lost

> 26 lbs, first I cried then I ate and gained 10 lbs in 2 weeks! Any

> information would be greatly appreciated. As a result of the abuse,

> I also have PTSD. I am no longer a victim, but a survivor, so I know

> I can survivor this also.

>

> Marla Sloan

> Pre-op

> Dr. Murr TGH

> 261/135

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hi marla. my gut feeling: this " scoundrel " has a vested interest in getting u

to come back for more sessions.

after surg, if folks need to talk in order to avoid self-sabotage b/c of old

patterns, that's another story.

obesity is a disease, imagine if they had smokers deal w/ their " issues " before

operating on them? ludicrous!!

it's another slap for the disenfranchised MO population, imho.

i pray there's another recourse to this for ya.

keep posting.

lori h.

--- In Gastric_Bypass_Family , " Marla " <msloan3@t...> wrote

Hi everyone. You all give me so much information and hope. I just

> want to say thanks first of all.

> Well that is not my reason for writing. My problem,...the doctor

> that did my psy eval, says I need therapy to deal with my reason for

> over eating. And he says I need to loose 10% of my body weight

> before surgery. My weight now is 261, so 10% would be 26 lbs. Have

> you folks been told the same? I really am new at this, so please

> give me feed back. A little background. As a child, I was a victim

> of sexual abuse. He thinks this is my reason for over eating. Yes,

> it has some to do with the problem. I have been through years of

> therapy and I still have an eating disorder. When he told me they

> would not approve the surgery until I went through therapy and lost

> 26 lbs, first I cried then I ate and gained 10 lbs in 2 weeks! Any

> information would be greatly appreciated. As a result of the abuse,

> I also have PTSD. I am no longer a victim, but a survivor, so I know

> I can survivor this also.

>

> Marla Sloan

> Pre-op

> Dr. Murr TGH

> 261/135

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,

For the last several years I have brought my two boys with me to the

convention. This year they will be 9 and 5. Jon is 9 and must come

because he has an appointment with Dr. H. on the other hand

has just come along for the ride. Most of the time they want to swim

or eat in the restaurants. Last year, I left them playing Playstation

in their room for one hour and I returned to a room with water

flowing through the ceiling and buckets and shoes lined up down the

beds to catch water. Luckily it was the children " upstairs " that

caused the flood and the only thing we lost other than our room was a

pair of new tennis shoes insisted on using to catch water.

All that being said, my kids love their friends at the convention but

it is definately a distraction for you. My recommendation would be

for you to encourage your son to have a special weekend with grandma.

Since he has never been, he won't know what he is missing and I'm

sure Grandma has some well placed spoiling she needs to do.

I think the most beneficial thing at the convention other than the

lectures are the conversations with other parents. As you and I both

know that is a difficult things with an active 5 year old running

around. I hope this helps.

Pattie

> Hi Guys,

>

> First, a few comments.

>

> Remind me never to not read the listserve daily again! It has taken

> me hours to get through all the postings this month.

>

> Second - many of you wrote in with views regarding whether or not

> the listserve was useful vs. too damn scary. From my point of view

> as a relatively new member, it is a blessing. Even though my Jillie

> is definitely on the severe end of the spectrum for RSS as regards

> traits, need for medical interventions and slow development, I look

> forward to her getting where most of your kids are. Like some of the

> members who have kids on the mild end of the spectrum, being on the

> oposite end, I initially felt " left out " . At convention last year,

> Jillie was only 1 of 2 kids I saw needing oxygen, in a very small

> percentage in the overweight category and generally too sensitive to

> cope with the noise generated by 120 " RSS " families. But I find it

> invaluable to have other kids with which to measure her progress

> against who have the same albeit variable issues as she does. Very

> few people get what it is we have to deal with on a daily basis. You

> all know what the issues are. And as regards being too scary, I'd

> rather know potential problems than be in the dark. But that's just

> me - everyone is different.

>

> Now for the issue with which I need help. My original plan was to

> come to convention on my own and get some rest and relaxation!

> However, Dr H wants to see Jillie at convention and as she is

> medically complex, someone has to come with me to care for her as

> she is not a candidate for day care. All my plans backfired for a

> nurse to come with me and now I have to bring my husband who is

> miffed he cannot go to the lectures with me. The problem is my 5 yr

> old son Ethan. His Grandma has volunteered to look after him for the

> 3 days we are away. He loves going there. However, he is going

> through this awful stage of being unable to make up his mind. One

> minute he wants to come to Chicago with us, the next he wants to

> stay in MA with his Grandma. I obviously didn't sign him up for

> daycare when I registered and so if he comes, he'll potentially be

> stuck in a hotel room for all of Friday and Saturday morning with my

> husband who has to spend most of the day feeding or doing therapy

> with the Princess. Anyone any suggestions or thoughts?? When we were

> there last year, the hotel didn't strike me as being particularly

> kid oriented - not much for them to do except go to the pool.

> However, I could be wrong, I didn't explore much last year as I was

> quite busy with a much more fragile Jillian.

>

> Anyhow, we will be arriving Thurs morning - the 3 or 4 of us! Can't

> wiat to meet you all in person!

>

>

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I would wait another week then either do a nother urine or blood test. The

day after a misses period is sometimes to soon. Good luck.

Meridth

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Meridth

Thank you so much for responding. My period started. I just don't understand

why I am getting all these symptoms so early. I feel like I don't know my body

any more. Had a blighted ovum last pregnancy.

I appreciate your taking the time.

Gloria

Meribritt1@... wrote:

I would wait another week then either do a nother urine or blood test. The

day after a misses period is sometimes to soon. Good luck.

Meridth

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Mother to Forrest (01/21/01)

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Gastric ByPass 02/23/04

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What state are you in?

>

> I just got a call from the place making the AFOs for

> ...after insurance our portion is $231! We

> don't have that!! Do you guys know of any place were

> we parents can get assistance when we can't cover all

> this stuff?

>

> Any info would be appreciated...

>

>

> " Without music, life would be a mistake. " --Nietzsche

> " Heaven's not beyond the clouds, it's just beyond the fear.

> No heaven's not beyond the clouds, it's for us to find right here. " -

-Garth , " Belleau Wood "

>

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And the DBB made indentations in the shoes so they

show use and they won't take them back at all...and tt

the nurse and he said that it has to do with width of

foot as well?

--- lmorrow9 lmorrow9@...> wrote:

>

>

> What state are you in?

>

>

> >

> > I just got a call from the place making the AFOs

> for

> > ...after insurance our portion is $231! We

> > don't have that!! Do you guys know of any place

> were

> > we parents can get assistance when we can't cover

> all

> > this stuff?

> >

> > Any info would be appreciated...

> >

> >

> > " Without music, life would be a

> mistake. " --Nietzsche

> > " Heaven's not beyond the clouds, it's just beyond

> the fear.

> > No heaven's not beyond the clouds, it's for us to

> find right here. " -

> -Garth , " Belleau Wood "

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >

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