Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 At 11:22 PM 12/15/2009, you wrote: I guess I know what you mean and am not a depressed person in general although this " diagnosis " has defnitely done a number on me!!! I'm trying to stay strong, the social stuff sucks on this diet especially while everyone stuffs their mouths with everything and seems perfectly fine...so not fair but I know lifes not supposed to be fair. Actually, my social life is BETTER than it was before SCD. Sure, I have to carry a food bag with me (and I have even carried my own food to two wedding receptions!). But what the heck? I don't spend the entire event wondering when, not if, I'll have to bolt for the bathroom. And if, when I do bolt, I'll be able to make it. Or if I'll be able to clean up adequately. (I no longer have to carry clean underwear and wet wipes with me -- I'd rather take a food bag, any day!) I can't change the hand heredity and environment have dealt me. What I can change is my attitude towards it, and how I take control of my own health situation. — Marilyn New Orleans, Louisiana, USA Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 Darn Good SCD Cook No Human Children Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 I have to agree. My whole life has changed as well and all it entails is taking my own food with me and now I can even eat out.. So what! that I am the gal that gets Steak with veggies. Everyone loves seeing me feel better and we enjoy each others company! That is what it is about anyway. There is so much light at the end of the tunnel due to this SCD. I also consider the mind/body work that I do crucial as well! I consider it nothing short of a miracle for me!! Jodi > >I guess I know what you mean and am not a > >depressed person in general although this > > " diagnosis " has defnitely done a number on me!!! > >I'm trying to stay strong, the social stuff > >sucks on this diet especially while everyone > >stuffs their mouths with everything and seems > >perfectly fine...so not fair but I know lifes not supposed to be fair. > > Actually, my social life is BETTER than it was > before SCD. Sure, I have to carry a food bag with > me (and I have even carried my own food to two wedding receptions!). > > But what the heck? I don't spend the entire event > wondering when, not if, I'll have to bolt for the > bathroom. And if, when I do bolt, I'll be able to > make it. Or if I'll be able to clean up > adequately. (I no longer have to carry clean > underwear and wet wipes with me -- I'd rather take a food bag, any day!) > > I can't change the hand heredity and environment > have dealt me. What I can change is my attitude > towards it, and how I take control of my own health situation. > > > — Marilyn > New Orleans, Louisiana, USA > Undiagnosed IBS since 1976, SCD since 2001 > Darn Good SCD Cook > No Human Children > Shadow & Sunny Longhair Dachshund > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 It does take a little time at first to get used to having a different diet and being totally responsible for sticking to it even unto carrying food wherever we go. But as Marilyn says, the rewards are great in improved gut pain and bathroom disasters. As to thinking everyone else eats what they want and are fine, maybe so, maybe not. Even if they can now, poor diet may get them later or they may have other and even worse problems to deal with. I find that most people hardly even notice I'm eating differently or pulling stuff out of my purse at a restaurant even. A few ask and it's very rare that anyone is hostile. If a friend asks I will tell them as much as they want to know; if a stranger asks I will usually say I have " severe allergies " . Everyone understands about allergies. I think you will find with a little practice this will come easier. In the meantime try to focus on the positive if you can. I'm trying to stay strong, the social stuff sucks on this diet especially while everyone stuffs their mouths with everything and seems perfectly fine...so not fair but I know lifes not supposed to be fair. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 > I'm trying to stay strong, the social stuff sucks on this diet especially while everyone stuffs their mouths with everything and seems perfectly fine...so not fair but I know lifes not supposed to be fair. Some practical advice. If there is nothing you can eat at a certain bar or friend's house or hang out joint, and you don't feel comfortable bringing food with you yet, eat before you go out - that way, you won't be hungry and have cravings. Secondly, eventually you'll care a great deal less about the food you can no longer eat. I still think about pizza occasionally, but overall, mostly when I'm walking by a pizza place and it smells good, and once your taste buds adjust - and if you take time to care for yourself by cooking yourself delicious food, you won't miss the other stuff. I know this can be an emotional issue for some - but it definitely becomes less acute over time. Mara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 Hey Amber, I certainly don't mind you posting about my blog. I'm glad you did as you've started an interesting conversation that a lot of people have a definite opinion about. Like you've said, we're just trying to make the decisions that are best for us. When I was getting ready for the follow up appointment with my GI after the colonoscopy, I figured he would again recommend that I take Imuran. I wasn't going to do that, but it led me to re-research the available treatments for Crohn's. What came out of that exercise was a simple tool that buttressed my " no drugs " position. I've posted it on my blog. Cheers, Stocker http://eatingSCD.com > > Hi , > > I hope you don't mind my posting about your blog. It was just something that really got me thinking about the possibility for me getting off my medications. > > I really appreciate your honesty, and I know that you didn't have a scope pre-SCD to compare it to, so there is that to take into consideration. Definitely having no symptoms is better than being symptomatic, and the blood work results are great too. > > I'm not trying to be a downer or doubter, I just have concerns about my own personal decisions about medication. I also worry, because I've read that it's chronic inflammation that causes caner. However, I'm on Remicade and Methotrexate- and those can cause cancer too. I know nothing is a guarantee. I can be on meds and still have chronic inflammation and get sick. I've never been a fan of meds, and if I can heal myself through diet, I'm all for it. > > I admire your drive to stick with the SCD, and I hope that one day if you ever have to get scoped again, that your test comes back clean and disease free. I'm hoping that for me too! > > Thanks, > > Amber > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 Thanks PJ. Here's what my Dr. said about my colonscopy: " superficial ulceration " at ileum and a narrowing at the ileum. The narrowing was not a surprise as I hadn't done any kind of treatment for about 17 years before the SCD. Qualitatively, from what he could see, he considered my disease to be mild. Quantitatively, when he learned that 10cm of my bowl was involved he re-characterized my disease as moderate. I some ways I regret getting the scope. It caused me a great deal of unnecessary stress which had their own physical ramifications. On the other hand, it has generated some good conversations... Cheers, eatingSCD.com > > Hi , > I'm a fan of your blog. What puzzles me is how bad could the scope results have been without symptoms and a sed rate of 2? The only thing I can come up with is, yes there was some evidence of Chrons, but what would the results have been without SCD? - and one will never know because we can't test " you " as a control as well. I do wonder if this scope was a step in the right direction... that the next one (hopefully a long way off) will be better. I certainly hope so for everyone on this board. > > PJ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 , Since you had no treatment for years, and all he saw was superficial ulceration, that sounds like probable improvement after 2 years on SCD compared to 17 years off it. I don't blame you for not wanting another colonoscopy for a long time. They're wretched. PJ > > > > Hi , > > I'm a fan of your blog. What puzzles me is how bad could the scope results have been without symptoms and a sed rate of 2? The only thing I can come up with is, yes there was some evidence of Chrons, but what would the results have been without SCD? - and one will never know because we can't test " you " as a control as well. I do wonder if this scope was a step in the right direction... that the next one (hopefully a long way off) will be better. I certainly hope so for everyone on this board. > > > > PJ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 Secondly, eventually you'll care a great deal less about the food you can no longer eat This is entirely true. My DH has a stainless steel gut, I am convinced. He eats (but very moderately) of whatever he wishes. It's been 27 years since my gut went nuts, and it's been a long time since anything he eats bothered me. It might as well be dog food. The most that happens is once in awhile I will think something of his smells good or something but I'm not at all tempted to eat it. I even bake for him and never nibble, not any more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2009 Report Share Posted December 16, 2009 The one good thing I can say about the crohn's board I go to is that I did learn about SCD there (from a few rogues who promote diet over meds ;-)). The main reason I stay there is to provide resources when a new person asks about SCD. Here's a recent post about what foods are good for a bad gut: http://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=17&m=1669119 . Can you guess which poster I am (hint: I'm about the only one who doesn't mention mashed potatoes and white toast). Holly Crohn's SCD 12/01/08 > > > After traveling the country and meeting many people (in person) who have been on the SCD for years and also looking at my own experience (3 years med free with no signs of Crohns via CT scan or scope) it is clear to me that the SCD prevents (at least in some people) progression of the disease and even kicks it back into its most benign state. > Without SCD we would have fistulas, abscesses, resections, pain, and all other ways that the disease manifests itself. On the diet we are not only asymptomatic but also do not have to deal with major Crohn's related issues. > It really is a shame that Crohn's sites dismiss the SCD. I actually stopped visiting them because I saw how easily the SCD was dismissed and that lead me to doubt the value of their other advice. I really do not understand why some people in the medical and Crohn's community appear so closed minded to the SCD but I am hoping science will prove them wrong one day so that others can benefit from this most healthy solution. > Three years ago when I first started with my GI she was " ho hum " about the SCD and now she is the biggest advocate always encouraging me to stay on the diet and introducing me to her residents as " her poster child for alternative medicine. " > Jill > > > > > I go to a crohn's forum (HealingWell.com), and whenever someone brings > > up SCD, the moderators pipe in that it only helps your symptoms, and > > that the disease continues to do microscopic damage. I would love to > > refute them on this! > > > _________________________________________________________________ > Hotmail: Powerful Free email with security by Microsoft. > http://clk.atdmt.com/GBL/go/171222986/direct/01/ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2009 Report Share Posted December 17, 2009 Hi, Holly,Sounds like you are providing a real service, going on that site and letting folks know about scd.Without you, they might not learn about it, or it could be years before they do.What a generous thing to do.RuthRe: Asymptomatic vs. no signs of diseasePosted by: "spookyhurst" spookyhurst@... spookyhurstWed Dec 16, 2009 10:51 pm (PST)The one good thing I can say about the crohn's board I go to is that I did learn about SCD there (from a few rogues who promote diet over meds ;-)). The main reason I stay there is to provide resources when a new person asks about SCD.Here's a recent post about what foods are good for a bad gut:http://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=17 & m=1669119 . Can you guess which poster I am (hint: I'm about the only one who doesn't mention mashed potatoes and white toast).HollyCrohn'sSCD 12/01/08 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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