Dear Robynn and ...

[Guest guest]

Good morning!!!!

First of all, Robynn!!!! LOVE IS BLIND!!!! Lust might peek, but even

so if it feels good all a guy in lust wants is to do it!!!! If

anybody comments or makes you feel strange...they are a CREEP!!!!

Yet I realize that your feeling are there, Randy is looking awesome

and after shaving the other day, he said he realized that he is

getting an " old man chin " !!!! PLEASE!!!! It will be a time of

adjustment for you, and while sleeveless tops and tight shorts are

sexy to some.... lots of guys like a lady who is a little more

modest in public and a suductress in bed!!!! It leaves more to the

imagination!!!! And I'm sure you know that!!!! I finally saw the

Kaiser shrink, not the kooky cookie doctor!!!! He listened patiently

when I said part of my weight problem was that once I hit 140 way

back when, I felt like I looked a lot more full, not a skinny little

girl, but that that much weight was also more to drag around so I

got less active and later quit being able to much at all without

shortness of breath and heart palpatations. I regret ever saying to

myself that 140 looked good! I should have stopped gaining weight

back then!!!! Now I still can't see the fat part of me the way

others do, it looks normal to me. Health is kicking my ass. I sure

do see that every so often I wore a bigger size but I blew it

off....so I wonder what will happen after surgery when I lose

weight.....it will be wierd! But please stop worrying about you

excess lumps and sags, you yourself said that you sent old pics and

headshots, that was a bit of deception.....now you can show off the

real you!!!! Walk tall!!!! Hugs !!!!

And now my dear neighbor !!!! I have worried and prayed for

your safety and good health!!!! When you don't need that cane

anymore maybe you can have it fashioned into stilletto heels and

earings to match!!!! You rock!!!! Maybe we can meet face to face one

day! I'm sure you are a cheap date now so maybe you and your hubby

and Randy and I can " do lunch " sometime! You and Randy can split a

kids meal!!!! I won't even get jelous!!!! Hugs!!!! Sue in Palmdale

[Guest guest]

Thanks, Sue. One point of clarification...I never sent the old pictures without telling him how old they were...I didn't have current ones, because as most of us do at our top weights...I avoided the camera. I was always the photographer. I started sending full body shots when i started losing weight and feeling better about myself...and when i got myself a digital camera. So, he has seen current body shots. Just not body shots without clothes on!

Robynnsue mendez wrote:

Good morning!!!! First of all, Robynn!!!! LOVE IS BLIND!!!! Lust might peek, but even so if it feels good all a guy in lust wants is to do it!!!! If anybody comments or makes you feel strange...they are a CREEP!!!! Yet I realize that your feeling are there, Randy is looking awesome and after shaving the other day, he said he realized that he is getting an "old man chin"!!!! PLEASE!!!! It will be a time of adjustment for you, and while sleeveless tops and tight shorts are sexy to some.... lots of guys like a lady who is a little more modest in public and a suductress in bed!!!! It leaves more to the imagination!!!! And I'm sure you know that!!!! I finally saw the Kaiser shrink, not the kooky cookie doctor!!!! He listened patiently when I said part of my weight problem was that once I hit 140 way back when, I felt like I looked a

lot more full, not a skinny little girl, but that that much weight was also more to drag around so I got less active and later quit being able to much at all without shortness of breath and heart palpatations. I regret ever saying to myself that 140 looked good! I should have stopped gaining weight back then!!!! Now I still can't see the fat part of me the way others do, it looks normal to me. Health is kicking my ass. I sure do see that every so often I wore a bigger size but I blew it off....so I wonder what will happen after surgery when I lose weight.....it will be wierd! But please stop worrying about you excess lumps and sags, you yourself said that you sent old pics and headshots, that was a bit of deception.....now you can show off the real you!!!! Walk tall!!!! Hugs !!!! And now my dear neighbor !!!! I have worried and prayed for your safety and good health!!!! When you don't need that cane anymore

maybe you can have it fashioned into stilletto heels and earings to match!!!! You rock!!!! Maybe we can meet face to face one day! I'm sure you are a cheap date now so maybe you and your hubby and Randy and I can "do lunch" sometime! You and Randy can split a kids meal!!!! I won't even get jelous!!!! Hugs!!!! Sue in Palmdale

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Sue,

You are teh awesome one. That doesnt sound bad stilletos huh? I had some when I used to party in my teens, dont even think I remember how to work them , but Im sure would help me remember (hahaha) Guess what though more blessings came yesterday. I went to get my staples out yesterday, and in 10 days, Ive lost 48lbs!!!!!!! I balled and fell apart at the scale.. Im down to 420lbs.. Thank you so much for your thoughts Sue, I also hope we get to meet.. Take care from your loving and gratefully blessed neighbor in L.A.sue mendez wrote:

Good morning!!!! First of all, Robynn!!!! LOVE IS BLIND!!!! Lust might peek, but even so if it feels good all a guy in lust wants is to do it!!!! If anybody comments or makes you feel strange...they are a CREEP!!!! Yet I realize that your feeling are there, Randy is looking awesome and after shaving the other day, he said he realized that he is getting an "old man chin"!!!! PLEASE!!!! It will be a time of adjustment for you, and while sleeveless tops and tight shorts are sexy to some.... lots of guys like a lady who is a little more modest in public and a suductress in bed!!!! It leaves more to the imagination!!!! And I'm sure you know that!!!! I finally saw the Kaiser shrink, not the kooky cookie doctor!!!! He listened patiently when I said part of my weight problem was that once I hit 140 way back when, I felt like I looked a

lot more full, not a skinny little girl, but that that much weight was also more to drag around so I got less active and later quit being able to much at all without shortness of breath and heart palpatations. I regret ever saying to myself that 140 looked good! I should have stopped gaining weight back then!!!! Now I still can't see the fat part of me the way others do, it looks normal to me. Health is kicking my ass. I sure do see that every so often I wore a bigger size but I blew it off....so I wonder what will happen after surgery when I lose weight.....it will be wierd! But please stop worrying about you excess lumps and sags, you yourself said that you sent old pics and headshots, that was a bit of deception.....now you can show off the real you!!!! Walk tall!!!! Hugs !!!! And now my dear neighbor !!!! I have worried and prayed for your safety and good health!!!! When you don't need that cane anymore

maybe you can have it fashioned into stilletto heels and earings to match!!!! You rock!!!! Maybe we can meet face to face one day! I'm sure you are a cheap date now so maybe you and your hubby and Randy and I can "do lunch" sometime! You and Randy can split a kids meal!!!! I won't even get jelous!!!! Hugs!!!! Sue in Palmdale Ciao,

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> Wow 48 lbs. congratulations, that must feel wonderful already. I am so excited

for you.

Kristie

>

> Date: 2005/10/08 Sat AM 01:20:26 PDT

> To: gastric-bypass-support-kaiser-patients

> Subject: Re: Dear Robynn and

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>

> Sue,

>

> You are teh awesome one. That doesnt sound bad stilletos huh? I had some

when I used to party in my teens, dont even think I remember how to work them ,

but Im sure would help me remember (hahaha) Guess what though more

blessings came yesterday. I went to get my staples out yesterday, and in 10

days, Ive lost 48lbs!!!!!!! I balled and fell apart at the scale.. Im down to

420lbs.. Thank you so much for your thoughts Sue, I also hope we get to meet..

Take care from your loving and gratefully blessed neighbor in L.A.

>

> sue mendez mendez6@...> wrote:

> Good morning!!!!

> First of all, Robynn!!!! LOVE IS BLIND!!!! Lust might peek, but even

> so if it feels good all a guy in lust wants is to do it!!!! If

> anybody comments or makes you feel strange...they are a CREEP!!!!

> Yet I realize that your feeling are there, Randy is looking awesome

> and after shaving the other day, he said he realized that he is

> getting an " old man chin " !!!! PLEASE!!!! It will be a time of

> adjustment for you, and while sleeveless tops and tight shorts are

> sexy to some.... lots of guys like a lady who is a little more

> modest in public and a suductress in bed!!!! It leaves more to the

> imagination!!!! And I'm sure you know that!!!! I finally saw the

> Kaiser shrink, not the kooky cookie doctor!!!! He listened patiently

> when I said part of my weight problem was that once I hit 140 way

> back when, I felt like I looked a lot more full, not a skinny little

> girl, but that that much weight was also more to drag around so I

> got less active and later quit being able to much at all without

> shortness of breath and heart palpatations. I regret ever saying to

> myself that 140 looked good! I should have stopped gaining weight

> back then!!!! Now I still can't see the fat part of me the way

> others do, it looks normal to me. Health is kicking my ass. I sure

> do see that every so often I wore a bigger size but I blew it

> off....so I wonder what will happen after surgery when I lose

> weight.....it will be wierd! But please stop worrying about you

> excess lumps and sags, you yourself said that you sent old pics and

> headshots, that was a bit of deception.....now you can show off the

> real you!!!! Walk tall!!!! Hugs !!!!

>

> And now my dear neighbor !!!! I have worried and prayed for

> your safety and good health!!!! When you don't need that cane

> anymore maybe you can have it fashioned into stilletto heels and

> earings to match!!!! You rock!!!! Maybe we can meet face to face one

> day! I'm sure you are a cheap date now so maybe you and your hubby

> and Randy and I can " do lunch " sometime! You and Randy can split a

> kids meal!!!! I won't even get jelous!!!! Hugs!!!! Sue in Palmdale

>

>

>

>

>

>

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Thanks Kristie it does feel great....hollotwomn@... wrote:

> Wow 48 lbs. congratulations, that must feel wonderful already. I am so excited for you. Kristie> > Date: 2005/10/08 Sat AM 01:20:26 PDT> To: gastric-bypass-support-kaiser-patients > Subject: Re: Dear Robynn and ...> > Sue,> > You are teh awesome one. That doesnt sound bad stilletos huh? I had some when I used to party in my teens, dont even think I remember how to work them , but Im sure would help me remember (hahaha) Guess what though more blessings came yesterday. I went to get my staples out yesterday, and in 10 days, Ive lost 48lbs!!!!!!! I balled and fell apart at the scale.. Im down to 420lbs.. Thank you so much for your thoughts Sue,

I also hope we get to meet.. Take care from your loving and gratefully blessed neighbor in L.A.> > sue mendez wrote:> Good morning!!!! > First of all, Robynn!!!! LOVE IS BLIND!!!! Lust might peek, but even > so if it feels good all a guy in lust wants is to do it!!!! If > anybody comments or makes you feel strange...they are a CREEP!!!! > Yet I realize that your feeling are there, Randy is looking awesome > and after shaving the other day, he said he realized that he is > getting an "old man chin"!!!! PLEASE!!!! It will be a time of > adjustment for you, and while sleeveless tops and tight shorts are > sexy to some.... lots of guys like a lady who is a little more > modest in public and a suductress in bed!!!! It leaves more to the > imagination!!!! And I'm sure you know that!!!! I finally saw the > Kaiser shrink, not the kooky cookie doctor!!!! He

listened patiently > when I said part of my weight problem was that once I hit 140 way > back when, I felt like I looked a lot more full, not a skinny little > girl, but that that much weight was also more to drag around so I > got less active and later quit being able to much at all without > shortness of breath and heart palpatations. I regret ever saying to > myself that 140 looked good! I should have stopped gaining weight > back then!!!! Now I still can't see the fat part of me the way > others do, it looks normal to me. Health is kicking my ass. I sure > do see that every so often I wore a bigger size but I blew it > off....so I wonder what will happen after surgery when I lose > weight.....it will be wierd! But please stop worrying about you > excess lumps and sags, you yourself said that you sent old pics and > headshots, that was a bit of deception.....now you can show off the

> real you!!!! Walk tall!!!! Hugs !!!! > > And now my dear neighbor !!!! I have worried and prayed for > your safety and good health!!!! When you don't need that cane > anymore maybe you can have it fashioned into stilletto heels and > earings to match!!!! You rock!!!! Maybe we can meet face to face one > day! I'm sure you are a cheap date now so maybe you and your hubby > and Randy and I can "do lunch" sometime! You and Randy can split a > kids meal!!!! I won't even get jelous!!!! Hugs!!!! Sue in Palmdale > > > > > >