Dear Robynn,

[Guest guest]

I am soooooo sorry if I offended you, either I didn't resd carefully or

was unwittingly insensitive to you. I feel like after that ass chewing

you gave me I've lost a good 10 pounds myself! (smaller ass, always a

good thing). I did go back and re-read your post, here is what you

said... " The subject of weight never really came

up in the beginning...although with time, I told him I'd be having

surgery, that I had gained quite a lot of weight in the prior couple

of years, and that the surgery would be changing me a lot.

I only sent him face shots...and some older shots. " I never ever meant

to upset you!!!! I just thought I was being supportive of you and your

perception of your " carcass " , anytime a person feels bad about

themselves, and their appearance it is a sensitive issue. What I meant

to convey is that you are such a great person....warm, sensitive,

smart, caring, and beautiful, that all people should see is the best of

you..... your perception of you is valid only to you, others see you

for your incredible self. I hope to return to your good graces at some

point, I'm still a little worried that I said something to hurt you and

that was NEVER MY INTENT.

All the Best,

Sue