Ortho visit scheduled for today

July 27, 2007

Going in to have my shoulder and back checked out. Of course the spine

pain had been there for months and immediately after they made the

appointmen for me last frida to come in today, the back paim

disappeared. Now wasn't that lucky. I was thinking that I might need a

nerve block.

I have been introducing my husband to some of all of your wonderful

posts. He is astonished at how wonderful our group is. We are fortunate

to have each other.

To everyone who is having inlaw problems, been there, done that. Mine

wanted Bob to divorce me big time. Got to the point that they would now

allow me or my children in their home and did disown him in their wills.

All this for the most stupid reason, prejudice. My family was from

Sisily and they were very against southern Italians.

I eventually was able to go to their grave sites one sunny afternoon

and told them that I forgave them for what they had done to me and most

of all my sons. During this time of disownment I told my kids that

everyone had a cup of love when they were born and that some peoples

cups were as small as thimbles and some cups were as large as buckets

andand that it was each person was to work with the size of their cup.

I also told my husgand to continue visiting them, he often went over on

his lunch time. I was scared just like all of you who are experiencing

in law problems. Give yourself and your husband credit for being

smarter them what we think. Reconsider what it was about him that led

you to marry him. We have been married 44 years and he has really

proven himself to me during the last 5 years.

Hope you have a wonderful day and weekend. Will attempt this Chatroom

thi thing again. Hang in there I will eventually figure it out. At

least we can laugh at our imperfect ourselves and laugh about it.

Hugs to my wonderful Sarc Family, Love to you all

Judy in PA

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