Guest guest Posted June 18, 2001 Report Share Posted June 18, 2001 Hang in there . If it's really what you want go for it, it will all come together. I will keep you in my prayers. Good luck! Kim B. Dr. Anthone dgb/ds-4/18/01 -60lbs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2001 Report Share Posted June 18, 2001 [sorry for the cross post, but I do not have the energy to post twice... : 0( ] Thought I'd update you all on my sick joke of a life- My surgery is being postponed because the lovely office staff at Mt. Sinai struck again - THEY LOST MY FILE FOR TWO WEEKS!!! I called first thing this morning , only to have her tell me (without benefit of seeing my file) that Dr. Pomp will be writing me a fine letter of appeal and that in her experience (her favorite phrase) it could take up to a couple of months!!!! I was devastated and didn't know what to say so I got off the phone at that point. My husband and my mother immediately started calling Sinai looking for answers while I proceeded to fall apart. Later on calls me back and finally admits that they had lost the file (I still don't think that she had located it at that point). She was still sticking to the couple of months scenario so we cancelled our reservations at the Guest Residence. Dr. Pomp calls me this afternoon to offer his support and empathize. He was outraged at his staff. He calmed me by saying that he called and left a message with Aetna and they have 24 hours to get back to him. He is still confident that they will approve at this stage - he even offered to keep me on for Wednesday!!! I exclaimed that we had already cancelled our reservations because of what had said. At that point, we agreed that it would be best to take me off for Wednesday and put me on standby for next week - gives me a chance to de-stress a bit. Meantime, my PCP is worried about my high white blood cell count and, in conferring with Dr. Pomp, they have both decided that I should see a hematologist to clear me for surgery. Okay, fine. My PCP set up my case with the hematologist - but the PCP is leaving the office for vacation tomorrow at noon. Unless the hematologist faxes the results of his testing to the PCP by then, I'm stuck until next Tuesday for his surgical release!!!!!! Somebody please, please remind me why I'm doing all this. I can't tell you how many times I have thought about canceling for good. I can't help feeling like this is all a bad omen.... from NE PhillyBMI 63, age 39Open DS w/ Dr. Pomp...someday maybe Aetna USHC, HMO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2001 Report Share Posted June 18, 2001 Hang in there, . It WILL all come together. Until then, we're all with you! Marcia -----Original Message-----From: mibrica Sent: Monday, June 18, 2001 10:04 PMTo: duodenalswitch ; DS-Support Subject: 's surgery (or lack thereof) update [sorry for the cross post, but I do not have the energy to post twice... : 0( ] Thought I'd update you all on my sick joke of a life- My surgery is being postponed because the lovely office staff at Mt. Sinai struck again - THEY LOST MY FILE FOR TWO WEEKS!!! I called first thing this morning , only to have her tell me (without benefit of seeing my file) that Dr. Pomp will be writing me a fine letter of appeal and that in her experience (her favorite phrase) it could take up to a couple of months!!!! I was devastated and didn't know what to say so I got off the phone at that point. My husband and my mother immediately started calling Sinai looking for answers while I proceeded to fall apart. Later on calls me back and finally admits that they had lost the file (I still don't think that she had located it at that point). She was still sticking to the couple of months scenario so we cancelled our reservations at the Guest Residence. Dr. Pomp calls me this afternoon to offer his support and empathize. He was outraged at his staff. He calmed me by saying that he called and left a message with Aetna and they have 24 hours to get back to him. He is still confident that they will approve at this stage - he even offered to keep me on for Wednesday!!! I exclaimed that we had already cancelled our reservations because of what had said. At that point, we agreed that it would be best to take me off for Wednesday and put me on standby for next week - gives me a chance to de-stress a bit. Meantime, my PCP is worried about my high white blood cell count and, in conferring with Dr. Pomp, they have both decided that I should see a hematologist to clear me for surgery. Okay, fine. My PCP set up my case with the hematologist - but the PCP is leaving the office for vacation tomorrow at noon. Unless the hematologist faxes the results of his testing to the PCP by then, I'm stuck until next Tuesday for his surgical release!!!!!! Somebody please, please remind me why I'm doing all this. I can't tell you how many times I have thought about canceling for good. I can't help feeling like this is all a bad omen.... from NE PhillyBMI 63, age 39Open DS w/ Dr. Pomp...someday maybe Aetna USHC, HMO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2001 Report Share Posted June 18, 2001 , I'm sorry you had to go through all this, but think of it as a test of your commitment to your future health and happiness! *hugs* Don't let Mt Sinai's staff or anyone stand in your way!! Good luck and keep us updated! I'm swinging chickens that Aetna responds positively for you! Anita Pre-op in Denver > [sorry for the cross post, but I do not have the energy to post twice... : 0( ] > > Thought I'd update you all on my sick joke of a life- > > My surgery is being postponed because the lovely office staff at Mt. Sinai struck again - THEY LOST MY FILE FOR TWO WEEKS!!! I called first thing this morning , only to have her tell me (without benefit of seeing my file) that Dr. Pomp will be writing me a fine letter of appeal and that in her experience (her favorite phrase) it could take up to a couple of months!!!! I was devastated and didn't know what to say so I got off the phone at that point. My husband and my mother immediately started calling Sinai looking for answers while I proceeded to fall apart. Later on calls me back and finally admits that they had lost the file (I still don't think that she had located it at that point). She was still sticking to the couple of months scenario so we cancelled our reservations at the Guest Residence. Dr. Pomp calls me this afternoon to offer his support and empathize. He was outraged at his staff. He calmed me by saying that he called and left a message with Aetna and they have 24 hours to get back to him. He is still confident that they will approve at this stage - he even offered to keep me on for Wednesday!!! I exclaimed that we had already cancelled our reservations because of what had said. At that point, we agreed that it would be best to take me off for Wednesday and put me on standby for next week - gives me a chance to de-stress a bit. > > Meantime, my PCP is worried about my high white blood cell count and, in conferring with Dr. Pomp, they have both decided that I should see a hematologist to clear me for surgery. Okay, fine. My PCP set up my case with the hematologist - but the PCP is leaving the office for vacation tomorrow at noon. Unless the hematologist faxes the results of his testing to the PCP by then, I'm stuck until next Tuesday for his surgical release!!!!!! > > Somebody please, please remind me why I'm doing all this. I can't tell you how many times I have thought about canceling for good. I can't help feeling like this is all a bad omen.... > > from NE Philly > BMI 63, age 39 > Open DS w/ Dr. Pomp...someday maybe > Aetna USHC, HMO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2001 Report Share Posted June 18, 2001 > > Somebody please, please remind me why I'm doing all > this. I can't tell you how many times I have thought > about canceling for good. > > from NE Philly > BMI 63, age 39 Hi : I don't know you, so I can't really say for sure why you are seeking surgery, but I'll take a guess. Could it have something to do with the fact that you are 39 years old with a BMI of 63? Perhaps you have made a decision that you deserve a long, happy life, rather than a short, miserable life. I hope so, BECAUSE YOU DO! Okay, somebody lost your file and now you're surgery has been set back a bit. So what? Are you going to let the screwup of some booger-eating-moron deprive you of the longer, happier life you deserve? EFF-NO YOU'RE NOT! Who the Hell gave this freaking nitwit the power to decide whether you live a long, happy life or die in a few years from a stroke (or whatever). I'll tell you who. Nobody. ONLY YOU CAN GIVE THAT NITWIT THE POWER! Is that what you are going to do? I DON'T THINK SO! (; Tom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2001 Report Share Posted June 19, 2001 Tom said it best girl! FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2001 Report Share Posted June 19, 2001 Believe you me, I understand! Just take each step and only concern yourself with that step. That is how you will finish the long journey you have undertaken....you will get to see the light at the end of the tunnel....one step at a time. Yes, dealing with problems not of your own doing is hard, but dream of 2, 5 or 20 years from know, you are normal size, healthy and happy....THIS IS WHY WE ARE ALL DOING WHAT WE ARE DOING!! I will see you on the other side..DAN > [sorry for the cross post, but I do not have the energy to post twice... : 0( ] > > Thought I'd update you all on my sick joke of a life- > > My surgery is being postponed because the lovely office staff at Mt. Sinai struck again - THEY LOST MY FILE FOR TWO WEEKS!!! I called first thing this morning , only to have her tell me (without benefit of seeing my file) that Dr. Pomp will be writing me a fine letter of appeal and that in her experience (her favorite phrase) it could take up to a couple of months!!!! I was devastated and didn't know what to say so I got off the phone at that point. My husband and my mother immediately started calling Sinai looking for answers while I proceeded to fall apart. Later on calls me back and finally admits that they had lost the file (I still don't think that she had located it at that point). She was still sticking to the couple of months scenario so we cancelled our reservations at the Guest Residence. Dr. Pomp calls me this afternoon to offer his support and empathize. He was outraged at his staff. He calmed me by saying that he called and left a message with Aetna and they have 24 hours to get back to him. He is still confident that they will approve at this stage - he even offered to keep me on for Wednesday!!! I exclaimed that we had already cancelled our reservations because of what had said. At that point, we agreed that it would be best to take me off for Wednesday and put me on standby for next week - gives me a chance to de-stress a bit. > > Meantime, my PCP is worried about my high white blood cell count and, in conferring with Dr. Pomp, they have both decided that I should see a hematologist to clear me for surgery. Okay, fine. My PCP set up my case with the hematologist - but the PCP is leaving the office for vacation tomorrow at noon. Unless the hematologist faxes the results of his testing to the PCP by then, I'm stuck until next Tuesday for his surgical release!!!!!! > > Somebody please, please remind me why I'm doing all this. I can't tell you how many times I have thought about canceling for good. I can't help feeling like this is all a bad omen.... > > from NE Philly > BMI 63, age 39 > Open DS w/ Dr. Pomp...someday maybe > Aetna USHC, HMO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2001 Report Share Posted June 19, 2001 BECAUSE YOU WANT TO LIVE TO BE A " RIPE " OLD AGE!!! HANG IN THERE! This really sucks, but it WILL be worth it. > Somebody please, please remind me why I'm doing all this. I can't tell > you how many times I have thought about canceling for good. I can't > help feeling like this is all a bad omen.... > > from NE Philly > BMI 63, age 39 > Open DS w/ Dr. Pomp...someday maybe > Aetna USHC, HMO > ===== from Upper Darby, PA BMI 63, age 41 Lap BPD/DS (possibly in 2 parts) Dr. Gagner - 9/15/01 __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2001 Report Share Posted June 19, 2001 , hang in there! There are lots of us fighting for the right to live more normal and healthy lives...and we will prevail, somehow or another! --stella Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2001 Report Share Posted June 19, 2001 Hang in there, Phellow Philly-ite! Just a few more obstacles and YOU will be waiting to greet ME on the other side! I'm certain that Dr. Pomp will, as a gesture of good faith for his staff's blunders, set you as a highest priority. Use that NE Philly addi-TUDE and get what you want. (If a little guy like Iverson can become MVP, than a big girl can get her surgery!) GO FOR IT! (Please keep me updated. I'm really pulling for you!) Hugs, Debbie from Philly (Havertown) Dr. Ren 7-12-01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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