Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 YOU ARE F " ING KIDDING ME. OH MY GOD> I WOULD BE GETTING A NEW DOCTOR. THIS IS SSOOOO WRONG AND SSOOO NOT FAIR. I AM MAD FOR YOU GIRL. MY LAST PREGNANCY WHEN I WENT FOR THE ULTRASOUND THEY SAID THE BABY HAD NOT GROWN AT 5 PLUS WEEKS AND FOR ME TOO TAKE THESE PILLS THAT WOULD NATUARALLY ABORT IT, WELL I COULD NOT DO IT AND I HEARD BAD THINGS ABOUT THE PILLS SO I CALLED MY OTHER OB I SUED TO HAVE FOR MY DAUGHTER AND THEY SEEN ME SO I COULD GET A D&C INSTEAD AND THEY GAVE ME AN ULTRASOUND AND TOLD ME THE BABY WAS NOT DEAD BUT THE OTHER OB SAID YES IT WAS, THEY TOOK MY BLOOD NAD ARGUED BACK AND FORTH FOR 2 DAMN WEEKS BEFORE IT WAS CONFIRMED IT DID NOT GROW. I WAS TORTURED FOR ALL THAT TIME WONDERING JUST LIKE YOU ARE AND I COULD NOT GET ANYTHING DONE, I WAS DEPRESSED, ECT. I JUST NEEDED TO KNOW ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. I FEEL SSOOO TERRIBLE FOR YOU WITH THE NOT KNOWING. OH GOD, I WOULD REALLY TELL THEM OF AT THAT OFFICE. God Bless, Robin, NorthEastern, NY EDD- July 27th, 2004 IT'S A BOY!!!!!! Mommy to: & (twin boys 7 1/2), Madison, daughter, 5 years and Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) Gastric Bypass Surgery- October 18th 2002 Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) goal 170 after baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 Thanks Robin... The problem is I need a High Risk dr and there aren't many to choose from on my plan.. and the ones I had called.. (this Dr was the last on the list) NO ONE would see me. I was considered " too high risk " . Yes.. I had RNY 4 months ago... but I am doing fine.. I take extra vits ... I get my protein.. I live on cheese right now... She is very good at what she does.. but today 2 other patients needed her services in delivery. I am tired.. so very tired of all this.. - Mommy to: Noah - 10/14/02 - 31 weeker - 3lbs 11 oz edd November? m/c 7/04 Open RNY 12/3/03 - 47 lbs gone and counting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 I don't have a high risk doctorm just a great OB's office and I too am considered high risk but they took me in anyways. I am 41, will be close to 42 when I give birth, my last 2 pregnancies were miscarraiges, I had years of infertility, I have had gestational diabetes BOTpregnancies before this one, i am still overweight at 250 lbs and I have had the gastric bypass, lol...But the closest real High Risk center is across the alke in Vermont where I went before but I don;t want the long travel back and forth again and this doc was the best in town here so we hooked up. I would still cehck around. Why do they have you highrisk, the gastric bypass and noah being early?? God Bless, Robin, NorthEastern, NY EDD- July 27th, 2004 IT'S A BOY!!!!!! Mommy to: & (twin boys 7 1/2), Madison, daughter, 5 years and Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) Gastric Bypass Surgery- October 18th 2002 Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) goal 170 after baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 In a message dated 4/1/2004 4:37:31 PM Eastern Standard Time, mamaslilqueen@... writes: Why do they have you highrisk, the gastric bypass and noah being early?? God Bless, Robin, NorthEastern, NY ------------------------------------------------------- Well.. yes. No reg OB on my list will see me. They all say I need a high risk Dr. I think part of the issue is that most the Dr's down here don't carry malpractice insurance anymore. In Florida , a Dr is NOT required to carry it.. and most don't now. With that said.. many of the OB's will not see a high risk patient... to much to lose? Noah's prematurity has been unexplained...so therefore I have a high probability to repeat a preterm birth. Also.. he was an emergecy C section... my uterine cut is too long to even consider a VBAC.. so I am an automatic C section now. I actually LIKE the Dr I see now.. she is very good and her office is very nice.... it's just that it is a very small office.. and when she is needed to do a delivery.. she has no cover. Dr Reynolds does the US herself.. so no tech is involved. The office does the blood draws... ( my 2 old offices send you to the lab). I am just so very frustrated because I don't have a yes or no answer... My heart just about broke when I saw the empty sac last week... ::: sigh ::: I could go back to my last high risk dr.. but he gives me the heebie jeebies... - Mommy to: Noah - 10/14/02 - 31 weeker - 3lbs 11 oz edd November ? m/c 7/04 Open RNY 12/3/03 - 47 lbs gone and counting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 That is insane! Sorry you're having such a difficult time with the US rescheduling. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you for tomorrow morning! Jeri Lap RNY 12/10/02 EDD #1 12/7/04 > THEY Rescheduled me for TOMORROW at 10:30am! > The Dr is delivering a baby. > > This is the 5th reschedule.. > I had to WAKE my son up from his nap and feed him quickly so we wouldn't be > late for our 12:30 appt. > I walk in.. and " oops.. I don't know how to tell you this " > > Stick a fork in me.. I am DONE! > > > > > - Mommy to: > Noah - 10/14/02 - 31 weeker - 3lbs 11 oz > edd November? > m/c 7/04 > Open RNY 12/3/03 - 47 lbs gone and counting > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 My goodness. Is there no one else that could do the ultrasound??? I would probably not be as calm as you have been. Keep smiling!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 OMG! this is awful! I feel so bad for you! When is your next appointment? Maybe THEN you can get it done? Axelrod I went in for my US and..... THEY Rescheduled me for TOMORROW at 10:30am! The Dr is delivering a baby. This is the 5th reschedule.. I had to WAKE my son up from his nap and feed him quickly so we wouldn't be late for our 12:30 appt. I walk in.. and " oops.. I don't know how to tell you this " Stick a fork in me.. I am DONE! - Mommy to: Noah - 10/14/02 - 31 weeker - 3lbs 11 oz edd November? m/c 7/04 Open RNY 12/3/03 - 47 lbs gone and counting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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