Guest guest Posted February 27, 2005 Report Share Posted February 27, 2005 I can't speak for your husband, obviously - but one perspective could be that since the Ponseti Method produces such immediate, noticeable results, the DBB wear almost seems pointless. The feet look fixed, why torture the child wearing this piece of hardware on its feet? Understanding fully the purpose of the DBB's mission may help him adhere to its use. Has your dh looked at this site with all the stories and photos? That may be a good start. Another perspective may be your dh feels a sense of guilt for *causing* his own child to be deformed like him - and seeing the DBB is a sore reminder to him. Perhaps help him understand it is NOT his fault, anymore than it was his parent's fault he was born with it. Again, the articles available on this board could help him move past any feelings of guilt by understanding he is not responsible for his son's deformity. In any event, please communicate sympathetically with your husband because the DBB is so critical to the treatment. good luck! ee, mother of two bcf boys: - NON Ponseti Method Club Foot Disaster Everett - Dr. Ponseti Success Story I just don't understand why my husband is having such a tough time sticking to the rules. He's the one that was born with club feet and spent his first five years in casts and having multiple surgeries. I know he doesn't want his son to go through the same thing. My husband is very self conscious about the scars on his feet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2005 Report Share Posted February 27, 2005 We're in San Francisco. Our doc is Dr. Diab at UCSF. He's a nice doctor, and claims to follow the Ponsetti method. His assistant studied under Ponsetti and he teaches his students (UCSF is a teaching hospital)what Dr. Ponsetti recommends. I guess I was expecting more involvement now after seeing him once a week for the first 2 1/2 months. I was thinking of checking out the doctor in Sacramento at Shriners that I've seen some posts about. Little Zander is only 4 1/2 months old and he's generally a good sport about the shoes. My husband stays home with him, so it's his responsibility to make sure he's wearing them while I'm at work. I just can't believe how little information both the doctor and the orthotics department gave us. The guy that gave us the shoes told me the strap wasn't that important! My other big complaint is insurance. Why bother paying all those premiums when they don't even cover the shoes? $1000 worth of shoes the first two years will prevent $10,000 in surgery later, but they don't seem to care. > > > Welcome! You will get wonderful info here! My son has the same > >bar, and we are going to get a new one at our next appt. hopefully. > >They are painful! As for the time, did your son have surgery or > >casting?I don't know if it is the same for surgery, but for casts it > >is very important to make sure they are worn 23/7 for around 3 > >months. If they are coming off try making them tighter. My son has > >had them for 6 wks., and we weren't tightening them enough in the > >beginning. Another cause of the foot coming out is that the foot > >wasn't fully corrected. I know it is hard at first, but I swear it > >gets easier. This site was a great help to me! > > > > > > > > > How many hours a day-really? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hello, I'm new to this group. I had emailed the distributor of > >the > > > Markell shoes complaining of the difficulty we had in keeping > >them > > > on our son and they recommended I check out this group. They > >also > > > sent me instructions on how to properly use the shoes, something > > > neither the orthopedic surgeon nor the orthotics clinic bothered > >to > > > do. The surgeon said he needed to be in the shoes 24/7, but > >we're > > > having a tough time sticking to it. Multiple reasons - the baby > > > kicks them off, his feet get sweaty, the way the shoes are > >attached > > > to the bar(they used wingnuts with bolts coming out that poke us > > > instead of the shoe platform), and it's hard for my husband to > >tie > > > the little laces. > > > Anyone else willing to fess up that they don't keep the poor > >things > > > strapped in 24/7? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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