Guest guest Posted May 23, 2004 Report Share Posted May 23, 2004 The docs do scare the crap outta me but I know he is a good doc and is the whole office and they will take good care of us. I just want everything to go okay and i have worried because of my age. I did not do the amnio test or anything cause I did not want the extra stress. We'll justb wait and see. God Bless, Robin, NorthEastern, NY Age- 41 EDD- July 27th, 2004 IT'S A BOY!!!!!! Mommy to: & (twin boys 8 years), Madison, daughter, 5 years and Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) Gastric Bypass Surgery- October 18th 2002 Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) goal 170 after baby It's a BOY!!!!! Emerson Roger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 23, 2004 Report Share Posted May 23, 2004 Robin, I think that is the obgyn's goal is to scare the crap out of us while we are prego...Don't worry, easier said than done I know...believe me , I KNOW. I am sure that everything will be fine. They just like to tell us worst case senario's to cover their butt's... Take Care. Dianne 411/255/??? surgery 04-14-03 9 weeks prego (Adam will be 12 June 1st, Abby is 10 1/2--both are very excited) Husband and I are just getting used to the idea?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 23, 2004 Report Share Posted May 23, 2004 Hi Robin:-) Keep the faith and visualize your Emerson nice & strong. I'm with ya, I'm a giant worrywart. There's so much to obsess about when we're preggo, but I trust the Good Merciful Lord to look out for me & my bee-bee. PS What's the deal w/ guys & vasectomies,hehehe.... WlsMomma EDD 12/20/04 > I guess I should leave well enough alone but was wondering what it meant to > have the excessive amniotic fluid and I went searching. I do not like what I > found. It could be nothing but the things it could be scared the hell out of me. > It says it could mean problems with the baby or his kidneys or chromosones . > If I was diabetic it would possible be it too but I am not this time around, I > am low. I just had an ultrasound thursday and he is having me have another > Wednesday so he must be looking for something he is not telling me about. it > says it could correct itself so please pray for me and Emerson that it does. if > not I guess i will have frequent US's for the duration and also it says that we > usually also have preterm labor but I could not see how preterm they were > talking about. I know i am going to stress now cause i found this info last night > and it ahs been on my mind all night and day now and everytime I get a BH > contraction I wonder if theya re going to stop or not. Earlier they were quite > strong and made me wonder if it was the real thing coming. Pregnancy is sooo > scary and I guesss I really should really get my tubes tied this time. I did sign > the papers when I went to the docs last time for them to do my tubal the day > after i deliver but i really hate to go thru with it. i hate such a permanent > thing being done to me. My chicken ass hubby will not go and do himself even > though I have asked him many times. Oh well, i guesss I will have to wait this > out and pray, pray and more prayer. thanks for listening. > God Bless, > Robin, NorthEastern, NY > Age- 41 > EDD- July 27th, 2004 > IT'S A BOY!!!!!! > Mommy to: > & > (twin boys 8 years), > Madison, daughter, 5 years and > Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) > Gastric Bypass Surgery- > October 18th 2002 > Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) > goal 170 after baby > It's a BOY!!!!! > Emerson Roger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 23, 2004 Report Share Posted May 23, 2004 Dear Robin, I know what you mean about scaring yourself. I started the day with these horrible menstrual type cramps and they have come and gone all day long. I was doing deep lamaze breaths in the Babies R Us....! Some people were looking at me kind of funny. I have to remind myself when I have this pain not to tense up which is really hard for me!!! I really worry about this baby being born too early and him not being able to come home from the hospital when I go home......or worse. I am an excessive worrier! Then I wonder if its just my imagination but I know its not cause I feel like crying and I know I have a super high tolerance for pain... I don't want to call the doctors cause I know they will just say come in and get checked but the last time I came in and got checked it took over 5 hours!!!! And I hate going to the ER unless its an emergency!!! Plus when I was there Thursday the Dr said my cervix was behind and firm and I was not dialated at all...... With my son 4.5 years ago the problem was not enough amniotic fluid and he was born almost 3 weeks late....so I know nothing about too much amniotic fluid.....I'm just glad they are being careful with you. Maybe just try to stay positive. The more they look at the baby the more you get to see him before you get to hold him. I know they are going to start weekly ultrasounds and monitoring in 2 weeks with me......I feel like I am going crazy. I'll pray for you and you pray for me. Big Hugs, Chrystal Wife to Jace - together 6 Years! Happy Mommy to - 4 Years Old! New Baby Boy Swenson Due July 28, 2004! Zookeeper for 2 big dogs and 5 cats who let me feed them! http://chrystallife.50megs.com/ http://members.ebay.com/aboutme/seeswensonauctions/ a.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 23, 2004 Report Share Posted May 23, 2004 HI Robin...well now you've got me worried too! Of course I'm a worry wart, but I did read a little on it...probably the same web pages you did...but what you need to do (easier said than done, I know) is relax and try not to fret about it. I read that in about 60 percent of cases, there's no particular cause and nothing is wrong with the baby, and the condition usually goes away on its own. So I'm praying for you and Emerson and want you to think " happy thoughts " and quit reading the darned internet! Sometimes that freaks me out more than anything! ) Blessings to you! > I guess I should leave well enough alone but was wondering what it meant to > have the excessive amniotic fluid and I went searching. I do not like what I > found. It could be nothing but the things it could be scared the hell out of me. > It says it could mean problems with the baby or his kidneys or chromosones . > If I was diabetic it would possible be it too but I am not this time around, I > am low. I just had an ultrasound thursday and he is having me have another > Wednesday so he must be looking for something he is not telling me about. it > says it could correct itself so please pray for me and Emerson that it does. if > not I guess i will have frequent US's for the duration and also it says that we > usually also have preterm labor but I could not see how preterm they were > talking about. I know i am going to stress now cause i found this info last night > and it ahs been on my mind all night and day now and everytime I get a BH > contraction I wonder if theya re going to stop or not. Earlier they were quite > strong and made me wonder if it was the real thing coming. Pregnancy is sooo > scary and I guesss I really should really get my tubes tied this time. I did sign > the papers when I went to the docs last time for them to do my tubal the day > after i deliver but i really hate to go thru with it. i hate such a permanent > thing being done to me. My chicken ass hubby will not go and do himself even > though I have asked him many times. Oh well, i guesss I will have to wait this > out and pray, pray and more prayer. thanks for listening. > > > God Bless, > Robin, NorthEastern, NY > Age- 41 > EDD- July 27th, 2004 > IT'S A BOY!!!!!! > Mommy to: > & > (twin boys 8 years), > Madison, daughter, 5 years and > Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) > Gastric Bypass Surgery- > October 18th 2002 > Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) > goal 170 after baby > It's a BOY!!!!! > Emerson Roger > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 24, 2004 Report Share Posted May 24, 2004 Thanks Chrystal. I do hope those cramps go away for you like mine did. I know I just feel like crap these past 2 weeks and everything is making me stress too much. I had my twins at 33 weeks and they did really well, one came home on day 5 and the other day 13. they were tiny and ssooo cute but healthy, had jaundice like most preemies, thats why they stayed and the smaller one had low blood sugars but they did awesome so I am not as stressed about this one if he has to come early since they weighed him in last time at 4 pounds even. He is a big boy and I feel HUGE and look HUGE. I will defiantley have you in my prayers also and I cannot wait until these babies are born ( when they are due of course) and they are healthy and in our arms God Bless, Robin, NorthEastern, NY Age- 41 EDD- July 27th, 2004 IT'S A BOY!!!!!! Mommy to: & (twin boys 8 years), Madison, daughter, 5 years and Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) Gastric Bypass Surgery- October 18th 2002 Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) goal 170 after baby It's a BOY!!!!! Emerson Roger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 24, 2004 Report Share Posted May 24, 2004 Thanks , I am for sure staying away from the internet from now on. I cannot wait until Wednesdays US and I will have the tech look around for any signs of anything else. She is a sweettheart and will look at everything usually. I hope my mind will be at ease after that. God Bless, Robin, NorthEastern, NY Age- 41 EDD- July 27th, 2004 IT'S A BOY!!!!!! Mommy to: & (twin boys 8 years), Madison, daughter, 5 years and Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) Gastric Bypass Surgery- October 18th 2002 Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) goal 170 after baby It's a BOY!!!!! Emerson Roger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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