Guest guest Posted June 8, 2004 Report Share Posted June 8, 2004 In a message dated 6/8/2004 5:35:18 PM Eastern Daylight Time, nolongerhuge@... writes: Well, I lost the baby at the hospital this morning. It was really really hard, but I figure it just wasn't meant to be this time. We're going to try again in a couple of months, so hopefully I will be on the boards again soon. This is really hard, and now to figure out how to tell the kids. Any ideas? Kris ---------------- I am so sorry Kris!! ((( hugs ))) We had a loss at 14 weeks last July... and it IS hard. Doesn't matter how much you try to convince yourself " wasn't meant to be " ... it still is hard. I pray your body heals quickly... and that the grieving process goes as smoothly as can be expected. As for the kids.... My mother lost 8 pregnancies... she would always tell us we have another Angel watching over us. - Mommy to: Noah - 10/14/02 - 31 weeker - 3lbs 11 oz Deanna Marie or Jonah due November 18th - 2004 http://www.love-my-kids.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2004 Report Share Posted June 8, 2004 I am ssooo sorry Kris. It was very hard when I had to tell my kids too. I still don't know if they full understand what happened, I just told them the baby had gotten sick and died in my belly and they went with that. I thank God got pregnant again so this took their mind off the last one but my daughter actually brought the dead baby up the other day and that was a surprise that she remembered since it has been 10 months. You are in my prayers Kris. I wish you the best of luck TTC again. Rest that body and mind first though, you need time to mourn and heal. God Bless, God Bless, Robin, NorthEastern, NY Age- 41 EDD- July 27th, 2004 IT'S A BOY!!!!!! Mommy to: & (twin boys 8 years), Madison, daughter, 5 years and Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) Gastric Bypass Surgery- October 18th 2002 Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) goal 170 after baby It's a BOY!!!!! Emerson Roger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2004 Report Share Posted June 8, 2004 In a message dated 6/8/2004 7:24:43 PM Eastern Standard Time, dikoch@... writes: I believe grandma explains that just like the roses on the bush some bud but never bloom babies are sometimes the same and still important. That is such a nice way to explain it. God Bless, Robin, NorthEastern, NY Age- 41 EDD- July 27th, 2004 IT'S A BOY!!!!!! Mommy to: & (twin boys 8 years), Madison, daughter, 5 years and Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988) Gastric Bypass Surgery- October 18th 2002 Start-378, current- 246(pregnant) goal 170 after baby It's a BOY!!!!! Emerson Roger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2004 Report Share Posted June 8, 2004 Kris, I am so very sorry to hear that you lost your baby. May God guide you and your family through this difficult time. Prayers are sent to you, your husband and your kids. Paradise, TX Lap Gastric Bypass: 4-18-03 Internal hernia repairs & Gallbladder removal: 2-12-04 - 100 pounds! Mother of 2 year old & working on #2 child! ;-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2004 Report Share Posted June 8, 2004 Kris, My heart is with you in your loss. I am so very sorry. I live in fear of this happening to me almost every day. I hope you are able to surround yourself with loving support right now. Hugs, > Well, I lost the baby at the hospital this morning. It was really > really hard, but I figure it just wasn't meant to be this time. > We're going to try again in a couple of months, so hopefully I will > be on the boards again soon. This is really hard, and now to figure > out how to tell the kids. Any ideas? > > Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2004 Report Share Posted June 8, 2004 There are a few books you can check out from the library that are for kids that discuss miscarriage. There is one specifically that I got for my neices when my sister lost her baby. It is about a little girl about 8 ish whose mother had a M/C and grandma is trying to explain and comfort the little girl. They buy a rose bush to be planted in memory and greiving for the baby and I believe grandma explains that just like the roses on the bush some bud but never bloom babies are sometimes the same and still important. I can't remember the name of the book but if you cannot find it by asking the libriarian send me a message and I will ask my sister what the title was. Goopd Luck and take care of your self - I have lost 3 and it is so hard so I do understand. - Diane > Well, I lost the baby at the hospital this morning. It was really > really hard, but I figure it just wasn't meant to be this time. > We're going to try again in a couple of months, so hopefully I will > be on the boards again soon. This is really hard, and now to figure > out how to tell the kids. Any ideas? > > Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2004 Report Share Posted June 8, 2004 Kris, I am sorry for your loss. There are never any " right " words at this time. Let us know if we can do anything for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 8, 2004 Report Share Posted June 8, 2004 Oh Kris, I am so sorry for you and your family. My prayers are with you. Hugs, Trish > Well, I lost the baby at the hospital this morning. It was really > really hard, but I figure it just wasn't meant to be this time. > We're going to try again in a couple of months, so hopefully I will > be on the boards again soon. This is really hard, and now to figure > out how to tell the kids. Any ideas? > > Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2004 Report Share Posted June 9, 2004 So so sorry, Kris. WlsMomma > Well, I lost the baby at the hospital this morning. It was really > really hard, but I figure it just wasn't meant to be this time. > We're going to try again in a couple of months, so hopefully I will > be on the boards again soon. This is really hard, and now to figure > out how to tell the kids. Any ideas? > > Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2004 Report Share Posted June 10, 2004 Kris, I struggled with what to say after reading your post....because I know that no words can begin to touch where you are right now....PLease know how sorry I am... my heart is broken for you ...and that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family... We are all here if you need us.... Sending hugs~ > >Reply-To: OSSG-pregnant >To: OSSG-pregnant >Subject: Lost my baby... >Date: Tue, 08 Jun 2004 21:32:41 -0000 > >Well, I lost the baby at the hospital this morning. It was really >really hard, but I figure it just wasn't meant to be this time. >We're going to try again in a couple of months, so hopefully I will >be on the boards again soon. This is really hard, and now to figure >out how to tell the kids. Any ideas? > >Kris > _________________________________________________________________ Watch the online reality show Mixed Messages with a friend and enter to win a trip to NY http://www.msnmessenger-download.click-url.com/go/onm00200497ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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