Lost baby this Morning was a Boy afterall.

July 5, 2004

Oh No Jenni, I am ssoo very sorry. I can't even image how you feel. I am at a

loss for words. I am here for you though if you need a shoulder. I am glad

you got to see and hold him before you had to let him go. My heart and prayers

are with you.

God Bless,

Robin, NorthEastern, NY

Age- 41

Mommy to:

&

(twin boys 8 years),

Madison, daughter, 5 years and

Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988)

Gastric Bypass Surgery-

October 18th 2002

Start-378, current- 246(pregnant)

goal 170 after baby

July 5, 2004

Jenni,

I am so sorry to hear this about your little boy. You and your family are

in my prayers. May God bless and guide you thru this difficult time.

D.

Texas

Lap WLS 4-18-03

-100 pounds

Pregnant with 2nd child! ;-)

~Home Interiors & Gifts Consultant~

July 5, 2004

My deepest sympathies go out to you, Jenni. I cannot imagine how you must

feel at this point. I hope you and your family are able to take comfort in

each other through this.

Blessings,

Mandi in Concord, NC

July 5, 2004

I know the feeling. I have gone through the same experience several times.

Why would they not let you bury the baby? They should have given you a choice,

no matter how far along. Your baby was alive, until shortly after your water

broke.

My first I lost premature I had a choice and made the wrong one. I decided to

leave the baby at the hospital. I didn't have any support and didn't have

anyone (nurses, staff, etc) to talk to. I felt rushed to decide what to do. I

have never known anyone at the time that had even lost a baby, I was so

emotional

I couldn't think straight, I was in shock and in grief! My mom told me to

make my own decision b/c she didn't want me to blame her later if I decided that

was the wrong decision for me. I regret it so much. Guilt! Then with another I

lost in 2002....We had a funeral and buried her, just as it should have been

for her sister in 1996.

Call the hospital and ask question, if that is what you want to do. See if

your funeral home will go pick your baby up. Most do at no charge. Stress what

you want for YOUR child! It will make you feel better in the future, that you

did the best you could with the situation. Do what you feel is right for you

and your family now. You have options...in GA . Don't know where you live, but

you should check into it asap....if you really want what you had for your

last.

You are in my prayers and thoughts.

Sharon in GA

When you are ready...check out this website, it may help you

.......www.shareatlanta.org All you have to do is log on and read, no pressure,

just may help

you cope and read stories of others. Best wishes!

July 5, 2004

Hello Everyone I ust wanted to drop in and tell you I lost the baby

this morning, I had been in Labor since Sunday Morning, And I went in

this morning because they had told me before they could not stop it

if it was before 20 weeks. At first they were not sure what was going

on because I started hemroraging, and lost some very large clots but

the baby was still alive until I delivered they did an ultrasound and

I got to See him move around one last time and his little heart was

still beating , He moved his head and his arms. when I got back to

my room my water broke not that long after, I had to stay there

awhile, because of the loss of blood and they finally let me go about

about 40 minutes ago.

They did let me see him but would notlet me take him (I would have

liked to have burried him just a way to feel better I suppose that is

what I had done with the other) They Determined it was a Boy and My

girls and my mom Showed up just when they were done with me, I let

them know right away My 5 year old was determined to see the baby so

after thinking it over and her constantly asking I let her, she

really handled it well, so did my 9 year old. i didn't want to scare

them and he just looked like a miniature baby about as big as my hand.

Thank you everyone for all the help you have given me in the past

months, I am going to let my body rest the remainder of the time the

Dr wanted me to in the first place before I think of Having another

baby,

Jenni

wls 9-15-03 299/165

July 5, 2004

Jenni,

I want to tell you I am so sorry for your loss. I am crying for you

now. I had a very difficult pregnancy myself and had also lost a

baby in a previous pregnancy. My thoughts and prayers go out to you

and your family. Please take care.

Beverly

Pittsburgh, PA

RNY 4/10/02 335--145 gained 15 during pregnancy

Gianna Carmella June 10, 2004

> Hello Everyone I ust wanted to drop in and tell you I lost the

baby

> this morning, I had been in Labor since Sunday Morning, And I went

in

> this morning because they had told me before they could not stop

it

> if it was before 20 weeks. At first they were not sure what was

going

> on because I started hemroraging, and lost some very large clots

but

> the baby was still alive until I delivered they did an ultrasound

and

> I got to See him move around one last time and his little heart

was

> still beating , He moved his head and his arms. when I got back

to

> my room my water broke not that long after, I had to stay there

> awhile, because of the loss of blood and they finally let me go

about

> about 40 minutes ago.

>

> They did let me see him but would notlet me take him (I would have

> liked to have burried him just a way to feel better I suppose that

is

> what I had done with the other) They Determined it was a Boy and

My

> girls and my mom Showed up just when they were done with me, I

let

> them know right away My 5 year old was determined to see the baby

so

> after thinking it over and her constantly asking I let her, she

> really handled it well, so did my 9 year old. i didn't want to

scare

> them and he just looked like a miniature baby about as big as my

hand.

>

> Thank you everyone for all the help you have given me in the past

> months, I am going to let my body rest the remainder of the time

the

> Dr wanted me to in the first place before I think of Having

another

> baby,

>

> Jenni

> wls 9-15-03 299/165

July 5, 2004

Oh, Jenni... my heart just feels sick. I am so sorry. I don't have any

words. Just know that I am praying for you, dear one.

Kris

ListMom, OSSG-pregnant

July 5, 2004

Oh Jenni,

My heart breaks for you.. I absolutely sobbed when I read this. Oh

honey, I wish I could be there in person for you to just hug you. I

am so sorry for your family's loss. It's absolutely tragic.. I will

absolutely keep you in my prayers. Please let me know if I can do

anything for you.

Trish