Robin - Mothers - Update from the doctors

July 9, 2004

My mother went all crazy on the telephone when I called her. She thinks

something is wrong with the baby because it is not as big as .

I had to keep saying the same thing over and over. She didn't want me to get

pregnant because of the gastric bypass....she has been suspicious through the

whole pregnancy that the baby is not getting what he needs.

Even though my dad is an R.N. she won't listen to him.

I wish I could have this baby and then she will calm down...

I'm feeling surprisingly serene aside from being exhausted.

Chrystal

Wife to Jace - together 6 Years!

Happy Mommy to - 4 Years Old!

Jonas Due July 28, 2004!

Zookeeper for 2 big dogs and 6 cats who let me feed them!

July 9, 2004

on 7/9/04 7:24 AM, Chrystal at nowhiners@... wrote:

I wish I could have this baby and then she will calm down...

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Chrystal... ummm... I hate to break it to you, but your mother may *never*

calm down... lol... she will be hassling you about one thing or the other

for the rest of that baby's life! hehehehe Seriously, though, if she's like

MY mother, she will watch that child like a hawk and every single misstep or

curiosity will result in a " It's all because you had surgery! " . With my two

daughters, everything is because they were adopted and God-knows-what those

birthmothers did during *their* pregnancies... GAH! I moved ten hours away

from her and it improved vastly. Now she only gets wacky when she's

visiting. Otherwise she just doesn't know about all the daily stuff that

might set her off.

Tee hee! I waver between hoping I don't act like her when my kids are

grown... and hoping I live long enough to give my kids as much hell as she

gives me. LMHO!!

--

Kris Wood

" The child is in me still... and sometimes not so still. "

-Fred

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