Guest guest Posted February 7, 2006 Report Share Posted February 7, 2006 Hi Pamela, I know I'm usually pretty quiet on this list, but I do try to read most posts, and keep up on what's posted. Right now, we aren't sure that our family has Mito, at least at my sis's and my last Neurological/Genetic Dr. visit. But, the more I've read through the information (again! LOL), the more convinced I am that more of the Mito signs and symptoms fit, than the diagnosis of Hereditary Sensory Neuropathy. As far as advising my daughter on having children, when the time comes for this (she's only ten right now), well, I do plan to have a talk with her on it. Actually, I plan to have several talks with her, between now and then! Granted, our family's symptoms are very mild, and so far, there have been no conclusive tests done. Nothing's been determined, and nothing's been absolutely ruled out. They all point to " possibly mito " or " possibly HSN " . So, really for our family, the situation is quite a bit different. Ours is definitely a nuclear error, so what goes with our generation, is going to go for the next generation and on down too. In other words, the symptoms will all be pretty much the same, and happen at aproximately the same age in our lives. So, since most of our family never had any major problems, and had no symptoms until our 40's, and my mom is still alive and doing well at age 70 (with some mild Altzheimers setting in now), it's pretty easy for me to advise my daughter. All I have to do is let her know of the symptoms, and what she can (and probably will) pass on to her children, if she chooses to have children. We have no life threatening symptoms in our family, just mild neuropathy, hearing loss, and the exercise intolerance, etc. I know if we had more symptoms and more severe symptoms at that, there would be a lot more to consider about having a family, and whether or not to bear children. If that were the case, I'd probably be taking or making opportunities to let my daughter know that I wouldn't want my grandchildren to suffer the same fate as myself. This is just my opinion, of course, and having children is definitely a very personal choice, and even with the risk of mito, we don't know what the future may hold for generations down the line, so I think all we can do is share our thoughts and feelings with our kids, and so long as they know the risks, let them make the decision from a well informed standpoint. Hope this helps some, I know it's a lot of babbling, and my situation doesn't fit with everyone here, I know, as there are some who have much more severe symptoms than myself. I can only speak for myself and what is happening in our family, and I can't really say what I'd do if the situation were different. Take care, Cin Re: Mito inheritance questions for folks with adult onset of the disease Kathleen my kids had dizzy spells and painful legs when they were growing up. Now in early twenties they are showing signs but not yet diagnosed. As to myself, some weird things happened throughout my life eg vagueness, deafness from age 11 in one ear, palpitations and ptosis started early twenties, muscle fatigue, major trouble breastfeeding, miscarriages, and losing babies in utero, a seizure and coma in early thirties, uterine prolapse and early menopause at 35, and since then further hearing loss, temporomandibular dysfunction, depression & anxiety, and five years ago at 50 a major heart attack from a combination of high cholesterol, pushing my body to perform at work, and anxiety, and since then lots of muscle spasm, tiredness diabetes. Now I come to think of it I sound like a real basket case - but I am still around and look normal, can walk ok and was only recently diagnosed (accidentally) and realised there was probably a reason for all the funny things that have happened. I don't know how old you are but the very fact that there is an adult mito list is encouraging. Lots of the people here have worse things that have happened to them and have learnt how to manage symptoms. While I am afraid for my children, at least they have gotten through their babyhood (now in early twenties are adults too) and have future advances in medical science on their side. I am now also thinking about my daughter, of child-bearing age, whether/when/how to advise her about not having her own, should she be diagnosed. (Wonder what others think about that...) pamela Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2006 Report Share Posted February 7, 2006 Just wanted to add that in my family my mother was the the only one ever diagnosed with epilepsy. She used to just faint all of a sudden. Until the last seizure she had her arm started shaking then she went into a coma. Until that time diabetes and slight hearing loss was the only common problem in our family. Looking back heat intolerance and exercise intolerance also. My grandmother was 95 when she died, my mothers sisters are in their 70's. I have mild symptoms also. If I had a girl, have only a boy. I would tell her what my doctor told me when I thought about a second child. I actually decided against it because I am not very good with younger children not because of the melas. He told me that their is a chance that the child will lead a normal life with only a few mild medical problems that the symptoms can be addressed or the child may be severely affected or anywhere in between. With more knowlege and testing in the future who knows what will be possible for the next generation. Janet Sample Re: Mito inheritance questions for folks with adult onset of the disease Kathleen my kids had dizzy spells and painful legs when they were growing up. Now in early twenties they are showing signs but not yet diagnosed. As to myself, some weird things happened throughout my life eg vagueness, deafness from age 11 in one ear, palpitations and ptosis started early twenties, muscle fatigue, major trouble breastfeeding, miscarriages, and losing babies in utero, a seizure and coma in early thirties, uterine prolapse and early menopause at 35, and since then further hearing loss, temporomandibular dysfunction, depression & anxiety, and five years ago at 50 a major heart attack from a combination of high cholesterol, pushing my body to perform at work, and anxiety, and since then lots of muscle spasm, tiredness diabetes. Now I come to think of it I sound like a real basket case - but I am still around and look normal, can walk ok and was only recently diagnosed (accidentally) and realised there was probably a reason for all the funny things that have happened. I don't know how old you are but the very fact that there is an adult mito list is encouraging. Lots of the people here have worse things that have happened to them and have learnt how to manage symptoms. While I am afraid for my children, at least they have gotten through their babyhood (now in early twenties are adults too) and have future advances in medical science on their side. I am now also thinking about my daughter, of child-bearing age, whether/when/how to advise her about not having her own, should she be diagnosed. (Wonder what others think about that...) pamela Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2006 Report Share Posted February 13, 2006 If the mitochondrial disease is caused by a nuclear DNA genetic defect, a male could pass it on as well. Whether it manifests as " mitochondrial disease " depends on the specific defect - I was told that since I have a nDNA defect, it is unlikely my kids will be as ill as me if my husband is not a carrier. But others on this list have mentioned " dominant " conditions, that might have an effect if only one parent passes it on. Having kids is a crapshoot anyway, I have " healthy " friends who have multiple disabled kids and have had multiple miscarriages. I would only tell my daughter (I have one) to decide whether or not to seek genetic counseling - perhaps by the time she is an adult, there will be better tests available. I think a son should be told " just in case " the genetics of the mito disease are not clear, but overall there seems to be less risk than for a female. Take care, RH > > Janet and Cindy thanks for your thoughts about this. pamela > Re: Mito inheritance questions/Pamela/advising children on giving birth > > > > If I had a girl, have only a boy. I would tell her what my doctor told me when I thought about a second child. I actually decided against it because I am not very good with younger children not because of the melas. > > He told me that their is a chance that the child will lead a normal life with only a few mild medical problems that the symptoms can be addressed or the child may be severely affected or anywhere in between. > > With more knowlege and testing in the future who knows what will be possible for the next generation. > > Janet Sample > ===================== > > Hi Pamela, > As far as advising my daughter on having children, when the time comes for this (she's only ten right now), well, I do plan to have a talk with her on it. Actually, I plan to have several talks with her, between now and then! Granted, our family's symptoms are very mild, and so far, there have been no conclusive tests done. Nothing's been determined, and nothing's been absolutely ruled out. They all point to " possibly mito " or " possibly HSN " . So, really for our family, the situation is quite a bit different. Ours is definitely a nuclear error, so what goes with our generation, is going to go for the next generation and on down too. In other words, the symptoms will all be pretty much the same, and happen at aproximately the same age in our lives. So, since most of our family never had any major problems, and had no symptoms until our 40's, and my mom is still alive and doing well at age 70 (with some mild Altzheimers setting in now), it's pretty easy for me to advise my daughter. All I have to do is let her know of the symptoms, and what she can (and probably will) pass on to her children, if she chooses to have children. We have no life threatening symptoms in our family, just mild neuropathy, hearing loss, and the exercise intolerance, etc. I know if we had more symptoms and more severe symptoms at that, there would be a lot more to consider about having a family, and whether or not to bear children. If that were the case, I'd probably be taking or making opportunities to let my daughter know that I wouldn't want my grandchildren to suffer the same fate as myself. This is just my opinion, of course, and having children is definitely a very personal choice, and even with the risk of mito, we don't know what the future may hold for generations down the line, so I think all we can do is share our thoughts and feelings with our kids, and so long as they know the risks, let them make the decision from a well informed standpoint. > Hope this helps some, I know it's a lot of babbling, and my situation doesn't fit with everyone here, I know, as there are some who have much more severe symptoms than myself. I can only speak for myself and what is happening in our family, and I can't really say what I'd do if the situation were different. > > Take care, > Cin > > I am now also thinking about my daughter, of child-bearing age, whether/when/how to advise her about not having her own, should she be diagnosed. (Wonder what others think about that...) pamela > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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