Re: it just wasn't meant to be...*m/c ment*

[Guest guest]

I'm sorry for your loss. My 2 previous pregnancies were MC's and I know how

heartbreaking it can be. The docs said it was because my hormones in the

pregnancy were not good or that something was not right with the baby, either

way

was still heartbreaking. I will have you in my prayers.

God Bless,

Robin, NorthEastern, NY

Age- 41

EDD- July 27th, 2004

IT'S A BOY!!!!!!

Mommy to:

&

(twin boys 8 years),

Madison, daughter, 5 years and

Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988)

Gastric Bypass Surgery-

October 18th 2002

Start-378, current- 246(pregnant)

goal 170 after baby

It's a BOY!!!!!

Emerson Roger

[Guest guest]

Hi Jackie,

I am so sorry . When I had my miscarriage I went ahead and waited for it to pass

the Dr did warn me it could take up to a Month. It took a week.. But it was a

very hard week for me, I heard awful things about D&C's that is why I chose not

to mostly I was afraid of the pain. I am still not sure if I would of opted for

the D&C as hard as it was to wait . You just have to make sure everything

passes if you do choose to let it pass on it's own.

Take care of your self and my thoughts are with you.

Jenni

[Guest guest]

Jackie,

It's such a sad time for you. I've never been through a m/c or

loss of pregnancy, but I am sure it's emotionally devastating.

You are right, the Lord knows what He's doing, even if we don't see

the reasoning. It's not up to us to question why, just to go on.

Medically speaking as an RN, I think although they can't pinpoint the

cause of miscarriages, I think it's b/c *something* isn't quite right

with the pregnancy and rather than carry a baby to term with major

problems, if it even survived, the body/nature and the good Lord take

it early.

Since I've not experienced a m/c, I think I would rather wait and

let nature take its course. I'm certain it's just a matter of

personal preference. Some just want to be asleep and not see

anything, others have a sense of " closure " in seeing something

tangible.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

God bless you.

Sheila