Guest guest Posted May 1, 2004 Report Share Posted May 1, 2004 Its becoming more apparent that I am going to be doing this baby thing alone. The so called father its not lookin like he is gonna contribute a whole lot financially. All we do is argue about him makin more money and he is just lying about what he is making or this week it was his check got sent somewhere else when I found his check stub and it looks like its already gone. I was hopin i only had to go back to work 2 maybe 3 days a week 5-6 hours a day but it looks like I will need to put the baby in day care and work full time. But I know day care is expensive and it will eat up alot of my paycheck so I could use some help if anyone who live in the New Jersey area or anyone had gone thru a similiar situation can tell me how they handled it or that has gotten help with daycare or any advice I can get. I feel like such a fool thinking he would wanna get a better paying job so his son would want for nothing and he wouldnt have to be put in daycare but obviously not and I am not gonna argue with someone on a daily basis I'm just tired of the whole thing. Im not due til July 14, 15 or 17th depending on what doctor you talk to. Were not married we were suposed to get married but I am not gonna marry a person who lies to me. I dont know if im just panicing for nothing. I know I will be fine as long as I can get good daycare. My mind is realing right now and know I am babbling but I didnt think I would have to do this alone. And this site has been so helpful I thought someone here could help so I can figure out what I need to do. So for the long post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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