Guest guest Posted July 10, 2004 Report Share Posted July 10, 2004 At 12:46 PM 7/10/2004, you wrote: >We lost our first child at 23.5 weeks pg and >that is why we are scared to try again after the surgery. I am >supposed to start the clomid today, but I want this surgery SOOOOO >badly. I am so torn because I know my family isn't complete ---------------------------- I am so sorry about the loss of your child! I will be honest with you.... MANY women who were infertile or had fertility issues due to PCOS needed very limited or no help at all conceiving POST WLS....That being said.... ( I don't have PCOS) my first pg with Noah (my 31 weeker) was difficult because I was so heavy... The swelling was painful... etc... I had Open RNY 12/2/03.. and got preggers 10 weeks later. *** I am NOT advocating this **** I am currently 195 lbs.. down from 262 on a 5' frame... What a difference!! While I am more tired because of limited food intake.... I feel so much better...My ob and peri are quite hopeful that I will carry to term this time. I did have a m/c in last July... and that is when I decided to take time for ME... fix ME.... have the surgery for ME.... I don't want to be the " Fat Mom " ..... I don't want to sit on a bench and watch my boys play....I want to be active with them and for them.. and for myself. My not so humble opinion is to put the baby making on hold and Concentrate on YOU first.. K in Ft Lauderdale Mommy to: Noah 10/14/02 Jonah edd 11/18/04 http://stores.ebay.com/Handcrafted-with-Love And.... my handsome little boy http://www.love-my-kids.com/Noah.htm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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