newbie, never thought this would happen

[Guest guest]

I was sitting her thinking about your situation and felt I needed to

put in my two cents worth. First, I applaud you for your decision to

have the baby. It will be the greatest event in your life and will

bring you the biggest joy later.

Also about the father of the baby.

You seem to have a decision to make about whether to cut him out of

yours and the babies life, or make him stand up, be a man and take

care of his responsibility. Having a child is expensive and whether

he thinks he is to old, to busy or just can't afford it is to bad. It

took two people for you to become pregnant. He may not want to see

the child,that is his choice, but if you choose, he needs to help

take care of it. The line my 75 year old grandmother told me years

ago was that there is a big difference between a sperm donor and a

father, but they both have to pick up their end of the bargain. Kind

of like you play you pay, huh!

Anyway I wish you the very best of luck and know that even with your

fears and doubts, that baby will make your world complete. You will

never love anyone else like you do your child.

in Nevada