Re: Leave out the emotional hype?

May 3, 2006

you are not speaking to what i said, anybody can take a few words out

of a post and write to that but you have to read the whole post to

get the sense of it.

there nothing more gracious that to take the time to point out issues

to soemone else that are not necessarily pleasant to consider, but

needed

a childs improvement is very exciting, the issue is confounding the

picture or selling in a very slanted way provisonal ideas on remedies

and what works, which is quite disruptive

i'm male and not female so the female emotional thinking is always a

bit disconcerting but in a practical sense i have seen female problem

solving though emotional thinking being very effective, more

effective and with greater economy of thought than male thinking

the other side is when it goes off the rails through toxicity and

unconcious self injury and reality denial it is profoudly destructive

and takes a board down with it and chelation boards like autism

mercury and frequent dose chelation which ban dissenting opinion are

sick like this and to see the way they go on year after year

clutching at each new straw while their health slowly erodes is

pathetic

just a couple of weeks ago a woman turned up on my message board who

had been chelating with dmps and had been irrepairably damaged by it,

she had been posting on frequent dose chelation which bans any anti

chelation view points

real thing happen on message boards, so if you try and make them less

difficult than real life the same thing happens as in real life when

you close yourself off from what you need to know, but don't want to

know

i think i am going to withdraw from this message board again, its

just too hard to keep posting like this and like before, people just

flicking off stuff and not reading posts properly and then expecting

me to straighten them out with a reply, well, its a sucker trap and i

have been in it way too long.

so thanks for showing me how the ground lies, i have seen it before

but seem to lose sight of it, i want scd to survive but guess it

won't in the present form, regardless it's too penal for me to try to

assist so wither it goes it goes and where it ends up i will follow

with interest but not at personal cost anymore.

actually things tend to sort themselves out anyway

>

> > read without the emotional hype.

>

> I believe that we need to always be gracious toward others that are

> or have gone through many trials and are healing. We can tell them

> that they should sound this way or that way but the truth is we are

> not going to change someone else. This is asking for them to

change

> their personality/who they are.

>

> I for one get very excited when I see a little more of my son

emerge

> and he is not even on the spectrum. We were dealing with some very

> difficult things though and when you see those thing fall off for a

> mom, at least this mom, it is emotional. I guess I thought that

> this was a safe place to express that but it definitely is

emotional

> at times.

>

> Not wanting to start a message war but did want to express my

> feelings here, emotional or not.

>

> Sandy M.

> Whole family SCD 3 1/2 months in support of 5 yr old who raged.

>

May 3, 2006

,

there are many of us, myself included that value your input greatly, it

would be a great help to all of us if you would stay and share your

knowledge with us. People must try to understand that message boards are

not sites of personal consultations and everything that is posted needs to

be applied to each persons individual case.

I think the point is that many people might be getting frustrated and

missing out on important information due to taking everything way to

personally. We are all here to help each other to the best of our

abilities, not add to the stress we already feel in life, this is definitly

not helpful to anyone's healing

We are very lucky to have posters such as yourself, Dr. Houston, Kare

DeFelice and others that have information to share which we can evaluate and