childcare consideration....HEEELLLPPP please..

[Guest guest]

Good evening, morning to all--

My son is will be two on June 2. I have posted -lurked and

posted and mostly lurked. Thank you to everyone on the list who has

provided me with such useful information. I gave up a dream of mine

to stay at home with my son when dignosed at birth, that opportunity

is no longer avaiable to me. With that being said, I am now

considering putting into childcare. Only because of

legal " stuff " with father. has only been hospitlized to take

down his ostomy other than at birth for two months ( you see he was

not even suppose to live long enough for me to hold him) He

pulmnology doctor has told me that he is her healthiest cf baby. I

follow all the rules everyone takes off shoes santizes at door before

they come in--you guys know the drill. I carry clorox wipes

everywhere, the list goes on and on-- take in to the docs

first thing in the morning before the " germs get there " (we live an

hour away from doc and peditrician) at drop of a hat to make sure

nothing is going on etc.etc we have been scared of feeding tube

possibilities,had 4 bronchs, and two infant lung function test in

which he lungs where healthier than normal babies. I am TRULY

blessed by all of these things. NOW--childcare-how long should I

continue to stay at home with ? BTW- is invloved in

kindermusik and gym and playgroups to obtain activities with other

children buuuuttt under my supervision. HHEEEEELpppp..what are your

chilcare experiences-recommendations-thoughts- I feel lost and

afraid, I know a lot of you have dealt with this issue, please give

me any insight you have. I am very fortunate to have you folks to

turn to and for my son who has been a dream come true. Thank you for

your time. Sincerely, Crystal, mother of almost 2

[Guest guest]

Good evening, morning to all--

My son is will be two on June 2. I have posted -lurked and

posted and mostly lurked. Thank you to everyone on the list who has

provided me with such useful information. I gave up a dream of mine

to stay at home with my son when dignosed at birth, that opportunity

is no longer avaiable to me. With that being said, I am now

considering putting into childcare. Only because of

legal " stuff " with father. has only been hospitlized to take

down his ostomy other than at birth for two months ( you see he was

not even suppose to live long enough for me to hold him) He

pulmnology doctor has told me that he is her healthiest cf baby. I

follow all the rules everyone takes off shoes santizes at door before

they come in--you guys know the drill. I carry clorox wipes

everywhere, the list goes on and on-- take in to the docs

first thing in the morning before the " germs get there " (we live an

hour away from doc and peditrician) at drop of a hat to make sure

nothing is going on etc.etc we have been scared of feeding tube

possibilities,had 4 bronchs, and two infant lung function test in

which he lungs where healthier than normal babies. I am TRULY

blessed by all of these things. NOW--childcare-how long should I

continue to stay at home with ? BTW- is invloved in

kindermusik and gym and playgroups to obtain activities with other

children buuuuttt under my supervision. HHEEEEELpppp..what are your

chilcare experiences-recommendations-thoughts- I feel lost and

afraid, I know a lot of you have dealt with this issue, please give

me any insight you have. I am very fortunate to have you folks to

turn to and for my son who has been a dream come true. Thank you for

your time. Sincerely, Crystal, mother of almost 2