Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 In a message dated 12/25/2003 10:59:45 PM Eastern Standard Time, jason_s_king@... writes: However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. Yours in Weight Loss, Dear , Without God full force in my life and leading me in my faith I would never have gone under the knife. I thorougly believe that he led me to this place and I asked him that if it was his will for me to have this done then let it be. I am now a combined total of 92 pounds lighter since August 27,2003 and I have God and a wonderful surgeon whose hands he guided and a fantastic support group right here. They are the most terrific group of people I have ever gotten to know. Yes ...God is AWESOME! Because of him I was very much prepared both mentally and emotionally but most of all spiritually. Without God...I can't even imagine. And I ain't gonna! I just know that whether I had made it through or not I had prayed that God's Will be done in whatever he decided. And that my love for him would deliver me whether it be in this world or the next. I hope this helps. God Bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 In a message dated 12/25/2003 10:59:45 PM Eastern Standard Time, jason_s_king@... writes: However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. Yours in Weight Loss, Dear , Without God full force in my life and leading me in my faith I would never have gone under the knife. I thorougly believe that he led me to this place and I asked him that if it was his will for me to have this done then let it be. I am now a combined total of 92 pounds lighter since August 27,2003 and I have God and a wonderful surgeon whose hands he guided and a fantastic support group right here. They are the most terrific group of people I have ever gotten to know. Yes ...God is AWESOME! Because of him I was very much prepared both mentally and emotionally but most of all spiritually. Without God...I can't even imagine. And I ain't gonna! I just know that whether I had made it through or not I had prayed that God's Will be done in whatever he decided. And that my love for him would deliver me whether it be in this world or the next. I hope this helps. God Bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 Dear Group, First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. Yours in Weight Loss, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 Dear Group, First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. Yours in Weight Loss, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 Hi , for me I was both mentally and emotionally prepared. It had been in and out of my head for 3 years before seeing the doctor last January. You know how sometimes, something just clicks, and you know it's right.....that's where I was. My initial decision to do this was for medical reasons. But as a post-op I'm amazed at how it's affecting my life. I feel strong, happy, caring about myself, outgoing, and already much better medically. I think that's why I wasn't hesitant or afraid of the surgery.....it felt like going to a safer place. Joan LAP RNY 11/18/03 Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA 282pre-op/275surg/243/140 Just thinking Dear Group, First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. Yours in Weight Loss, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 Hi , for me I was both mentally and emotionally prepared. It had been in and out of my head for 3 years before seeing the doctor last January. You know how sometimes, something just clicks, and you know it's right.....that's where I was. My initial decision to do this was for medical reasons. But as a post-op I'm amazed at how it's affecting my life. I feel strong, happy, caring about myself, outgoing, and already much better medically. I think that's why I wasn't hesitant or afraid of the surgery.....it felt like going to a safer place. Joan LAP RNY 11/18/03 Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA 282pre-op/275surg/243/140 Just thinking Dear Group, First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. Yours in Weight Loss, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 , The same is true with me. God was the biggest factor in my decision process.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 , The same is true with me. God was the biggest factor in my decision process.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 there is a wonderful Einstein Quote... am paraphrasing here ... " the meaning of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again ....while still ......expecting a different result " .... I believe that God inspired Einstein to write that quote so that I might read it one day ... when I needed it most!! ...Hope this helps you. Skinny Wishes from Mandy in CA 275/149/126 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 there is a wonderful Einstein Quote... am paraphrasing here ... " the meaning of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again ....while still ......expecting a different result " .... I believe that God inspired Einstein to write that quote so that I might read it one day ... when I needed it most!! ...Hope this helps you. Skinny Wishes from Mandy in CA 275/149/126 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 My faith in God was THE deciding factor in going ahead with surgery. I researched endlessly but was still praying and unsure. That's when I realized....I had turned this over to God, so it didn't matter what I did. I didn't need a sign. I knew God would see me through whatever decision I made, whatever complications I might have. I also had others praying for me throughout the process. I had very little anxiety in the weeks before surgery and was absolutely stress free the day of surgery. I am happy to say that my surgery was flawless and I have had no major complications. I am happier than ever and feeling great! I still have much to learn about how to use my new " system " , but am thankful for each new and wonderful day. Rely on your faith. That's what it's all about! Best wishes, 11/18/03 284/249/228/? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 My faith in God was THE deciding factor in going ahead with surgery. I researched endlessly but was still praying and unsure. That's when I realized....I had turned this over to God, so it didn't matter what I did. I didn't need a sign. I knew God would see me through whatever decision I made, whatever complications I might have. I also had others praying for me throughout the process. I had very little anxiety in the weeks before surgery and was absolutely stress free the day of surgery. I am happy to say that my surgery was flawless and I have had no major complications. I am happier than ever and feeling great! I still have much to learn about how to use my new " system " , but am thankful for each new and wonderful day. Rely on your faith. That's what it's all about! Best wishes, 11/18/03 284/249/228/? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 Joan I would say my faith stayed the same. But I have always had a fairly strong faith that He watches over me. I do believe that you HAVE to be emotionally and mentally ready for the surgery. A few days ago someone posted about a friend who was still eating bad foods all of the time and going out to eat at Fast food restaurants. She was obviously not emotionally and mentally ready for the surgery. The surgery alone is not going to do it. It really is just a tool. I am sure if you tried hard enough you could get around the " rules " . When you are ready for the surgery I don't think it would even cross your mind to try to get around them (well....at least not for more than 30 seconds ). Good Luck!!! Candi Just thinking Dear Group, First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. Yours in Weight Loss, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 Joan I would say my faith stayed the same. But I have always had a fairly strong faith that He watches over me. I do believe that you HAVE to be emotionally and mentally ready for the surgery. A few days ago someone posted about a friend who was still eating bad foods all of the time and going out to eat at Fast food restaurants. She was obviously not emotionally and mentally ready for the surgery. The surgery alone is not going to do it. It really is just a tool. I am sure if you tried hard enough you could get around the " rules " . When you are ready for the surgery I don't think it would even cross your mind to try to get around them (well....at least not for more than 30 seconds ). Good Luck!!! Candi Just thinking Dear Group, First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. Yours in Weight Loss, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 , I think that without God i would not have made the decision to do this...I asked for prayer from numerous people about the surgery. I did the pros and cons...and originally I was scared, but the day of, I felt wholy at peace. People prayed for the surgeon's hands to be like God's. I think that if you pray on this decision, and it is the right thing for you, everything just falls into place...as it did for me. This is such a long process and candidates in my town are very carefully selected and run thru a mill of tests, I felt it was part of God's plan for my life. And now because of my progress, many people I know are becoming interested in it. Hope this helps...and my prayers are with you. Hannah open RNy 9/29/03 288/217/??? > Dear Group, > > First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. > > Yours in Weight Loss, > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 , I think that without God i would not have made the decision to do this...I asked for prayer from numerous people about the surgery. I did the pros and cons...and originally I was scared, but the day of, I felt wholy at peace. People prayed for the surgeon's hands to be like God's. I think that if you pray on this decision, and it is the right thing for you, everything just falls into place...as it did for me. This is such a long process and candidates in my town are very carefully selected and run thru a mill of tests, I felt it was part of God's plan for my life. And now because of my progress, many people I know are becoming interested in it. Hope this helps...and my prayers are with you. Hannah open RNy 9/29/03 288/217/??? > Dear Group, > > First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. > > Yours in Weight Loss, > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 heavy duty ?, jason. yeah, most definitely, i place myself in the Good Lord's hands, every single day. the only time i was nervous as a pre-op was the night before surg, but i called a long term postie & was fine. the Man Above made sure this lady was HOME when her phone rang & i was able to ramble about my pre-op jitters. however, being the looney type A that i am, i also believe that legwork, sacrifice,strategy, & determination are crucial to " getting goals accomplished " . best of luck & by all means, keeping picking our brains:-) lori h. 20 grateful & driven months post-op > Dear Group, > > First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. > Yours in Weight Loss, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 heavy duty ?, jason. yeah, most definitely, i place myself in the Good Lord's hands, every single day. the only time i was nervous as a pre-op was the night before surg, but i called a long term postie & was fine. the Man Above made sure this lady was HOME when her phone rang & i was able to ramble about my pre-op jitters. however, being the looney type A that i am, i also believe that legwork, sacrifice,strategy, & determination are crucial to " getting goals accomplished " . best of luck & by all means, keeping picking our brains:-) lori h. 20 grateful & driven months post-op > Dear Group, > > First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. > Yours in Weight Loss, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 , I have to say that my faith in God has seen me through this. It has not altered or changed my faith. I was very nervous on the day of my surgery. My pastor came to the hospital and we prayed before I had the procedure done. I am currently just over 3 months post op and have had some minor complications but God has gotten me through it so far and I believe He will see me through it all the way. As far as the emotional and mental part of it....I have to be honest with you, I was not prepared for some of it. I had major " Head hunger " and no matter what people told me prior to surgery...it did not prepare me for the " battle " that I was going to have with my own mind. But again, God helped me through it and I prevailed as a winner. The first several weeks after the surgery is very emotionally and mentally draining. You are changing so fast and it is not only the weight that is changing but your way of thinking is changing and the way you look at food and eating is changing. You have good days and bad days. Laughing days and crying days. But YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH!!! I did not do the surgery just to loss weight...I did it to improve my health and rid myself of the health issues that obesity was causing me. I am glad to say that I no longer have issues with high blood pressure, swelling of my feel and ankles, my knees do not hurt like they use to, not to mention some of the other issues that I was dealing with. So as you can see, although I have has some complications, (2 strictures and problems with my thyroid) this surgery has greatly improved my quality of life and my over all health. I can not wait to see how much healthier I am going to be a year from now. But I do have to give all the Praise and Glory to God cause it was He who guided the surgeons hands and healed me from the surgery. Keep your faith and He will see you through. God Bless and Good Luck Shelley D. 9/25/03 Open RYN 236/179/140 > Dear Group, > > First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. > > Yours in Weight Loss, > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 26, 2003 Report Share Posted December 26, 2003 , I have to say that my faith in God has seen me through this. It has not altered or changed my faith. I was very nervous on the day of my surgery. My pastor came to the hospital and we prayed before I had the procedure done. I am currently just over 3 months post op and have had some minor complications but God has gotten me through it so far and I believe He will see me through it all the way. As far as the emotional and mental part of it....I have to be honest with you, I was not prepared for some of it. I had major " Head hunger " and no matter what people told me prior to surgery...it did not prepare me for the " battle " that I was going to have with my own mind. But again, God helped me through it and I prevailed as a winner. The first several weeks after the surgery is very emotionally and mentally draining. You are changing so fast and it is not only the weight that is changing but your way of thinking is changing and the way you look at food and eating is changing. You have good days and bad days. Laughing days and crying days. But YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH!!! I did not do the surgery just to loss weight...I did it to improve my health and rid myself of the health issues that obesity was causing me. I am glad to say that I no longer have issues with high blood pressure, swelling of my feel and ankles, my knees do not hurt like they use to, not to mention some of the other issues that I was dealing with. So as you can see, although I have has some complications, (2 strictures and problems with my thyroid) this surgery has greatly improved my quality of life and my over all health. I can not wait to see how much healthier I am going to be a year from now. But I do have to give all the Praise and Glory to God cause it was He who guided the surgeons hands and healed me from the surgery. Keep your faith and He will see you through. God Bless and Good Luck Shelley D. 9/25/03 Open RYN 236/179/140 > Dear Group, > > First off, I wanted to wish all Season's Greetings! I already KNOW what one of my New Years resolutions is going to be that I am actually going to keep, and that is to get this weight off. With the WLS, that is not going to be a problem. I have family support behind me and I am ready to start the journey that lies ahead of me. However, I would like to throw out a few questions. This mainly goes out to post-ops, but what role has your faith played in this procedure? Has it changed, altered, been shaken, or has it stayed the same? Also, were you prepared emotionally and mentally prepared for the procedure, and how has that played a part in your decision? I have often thought about these areas in my life and have wondered whether they all need to play a role in this area. > > Yours in Weight Loss, > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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