Guest guest Posted October 20, 2004 Report Share Posted October 20, 2004 Thanks and Cammie for your opinions! Thanks for taking the time to help me out! >From: ceast36532 <no_reply > >Reply-To: orthognathicsurgerysupport >To: orthognathicsurgerysupport >Subject: [Orthognathic Surgery Support ] Re: Any Opinions? >Date: Thu, 14 Oct 2004 19:57:58 -0000 > > >To be honest, I wouldn't have gone about it that way. However, you >did, and so that's that. The docs should be mature and secure enough >not to get their noses out of joint about it, I'd think. > >What I think I would do, and you still can, is to ask for an >appointment or a phone call with your ortho, and tell him you do not >understand. That you had understood that all the prep you still >needed was the closing of that space, and that's accomplished. That >you had real job reasons for wanting to get it done this fall, and >that you don't understand why you aren't ready now. > >Being " furious " won't help, nor will suspecting sinister motives, >unless you have more basis than you've told us, in which case you >could have even bigger troubles. > > I would not be confrontational with the ortho, nor accusatory, but I >would ask for an explanation, and more than an " I will know when >you're ready. " Tell him you want to understand what's going on, that >you don't now, and that you'll work with him any way you can. It may >be that after one problem was resolved, something else was disclosed >that hadn't been apparent earlier. > >It's also not out of line, in my book, for you to have asked about a >surgeon's scheduling situation. Some are booked months and months in >advance, and if something goes awry, or someone " forgets " to call for >an appointment (it's happened, believe it or not), you can be delayed >unnecessarily. You certainly are not unreasonable in wanting to have >an idea how to plan around the disruptions in your life that the >surgery will bring. > >Just try to remember that it's all a cooperative project, and that >you need everybody's help to get it going -- at this point, too, you >need them more than they need you, so a bit of sugar-coating won't >hurt. ;~> > >Cammie > > > > Hi, I have been reading posts for a couple of months. I thank >everyone for > > their stories. I feel like I am so much more prepared for surgery. >I am > > wondering if someone would give me their opinion. I am going to >have lower > > jaw surgery. Been in braces for 1 yr. My ortho told me I had a 1mm >space to > > close up then I would be ready for surgery this fall! 6 weeks later >the > > space was totally closed and he said " maybe surgery in the spring, > > definately summer. " I said why spring now, what went wrong. He >said " nothing > > went wrong, I will know when you are ready. We have to work >together. " And > > by the way... The OS (they are friends) is behind and having >problems > > getting people in for Dec. I was furious! I work as a school nurse >and will > > not have 2 weeks off again untill summer. So I called the OS and >talked to > > his surgery nurse.I explained the situation and she said she could >fit me in > > to see the OS in Nov. and maybe fit me in for Dec b/c lower would >only take > > 1 1/2 hrs. I feel like I really went behind my Ortho's back. I like >him and > > now am afraid to face him. Any opinions??? Thanks.. > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's FREE! hthttp://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 20, 2004 Report Share Posted October 20, 2004 Thanks and Cammie for your opinions! Thanks for taking the time to help me out! >From: ceast36532 <no_reply > >Reply-To: orthognathicsurgerysupport >To: orthognathicsurgerysupport >Subject: [Orthognathic Surgery Support ] Re: Any Opinions? >Date: Thu, 14 Oct 2004 19:57:58 -0000 > > >To be honest, I wouldn't have gone about it that way. However, you >did, and so that's that. The docs should be mature and secure enough >not to get their noses out of joint about it, I'd think. > >What I think I would do, and you still can, is to ask for an >appointment or a phone call with your ortho, and tell him you do not >understand. That you had understood that all the prep you still >needed was the closing of that space, and that's accomplished. That >you had real job reasons for wanting to get it done this fall, and >that you don't understand why you aren't ready now. > >Being " furious " won't help, nor will suspecting sinister motives, >unless you have more basis than you've told us, in which case you >could have even bigger troubles. > > I would not be confrontational with the ortho, nor accusatory, but I >would ask for an explanation, and more than an " I will know when >you're ready. " Tell him you want to understand what's going on, that >you don't now, and that you'll work with him any way you can. It may >be that after one problem was resolved, something else was disclosed >that hadn't been apparent earlier. > >It's also not out of line, in my book, for you to have asked about a >surgeon's scheduling situation. Some are booked months and months in >advance, and if something goes awry, or someone " forgets " to call for >an appointment (it's happened, believe it or not), you can be delayed >unnecessarily. You certainly are not unreasonable in wanting to have >an idea how to plan around the disruptions in your life that the >surgery will bring. > >Just try to remember that it's all a cooperative project, and that >you need everybody's help to get it going -- at this point, too, you >need them more than they need you, so a bit of sugar-coating won't >hurt. ;~> > >Cammie > > > > Hi, I have been reading posts for a couple of months. I thank >everyone for > > their stories. I feel like I am so much more prepared for surgery. >I am > > wondering if someone would give me their opinion. I am going to >have lower > > jaw surgery. Been in braces for 1 yr. My ortho told me I had a 1mm >space to > > close up then I would be ready for surgery this fall! 6 weeks later >the > > space was totally closed and he said " maybe surgery in the spring, > > definately summer. " I said why spring now, what went wrong. He >said " nothing > > went wrong, I will know when you are ready. We have to work >together. " And > > by the way... The OS (they are friends) is behind and having >problems > > getting people in for Dec. I was furious! I work as a school nurse >and will > > not have 2 weeks off again untill summer. So I called the OS and >talked to > > his surgery nurse.I explained the situation and she said she could >fit me in > > to see the OS in Nov. and maybe fit me in for Dec b/c lower would >only take > > 1 1/2 hrs. I feel like I really went behind my Ortho's back. I like >him and > > now am afraid to face him. Any opinions??? Thanks.. > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! Download today - it's FREE! hthttp://messenger.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200471ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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