Guest guest Posted October 24, 2004 Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Hannah, I like your attitude! Luna :-# > In a strange sort of way, having braces and seeing peoples reaction > to it has become a weird sort of litmus test of their personality > and compassion for other people. If an adult would make fun of a > person with braces, what does that say about their maturity level?? > I am certain that some people have looked at me as an oddball and I > know for a fact that some people have laughed about it behind my > back; those people I immediately write off as not worth knowing. > There are 6 billion people in the world, I only make time for the > ones who show some character. The greatest thing about being older > is being more secure in who I am, what I am doing and letting > foolish peoples comments roll off my back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2004 Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Are there any adults that would make fun of another adult with braces? I really don't think so... if they are, i'm sure it's because of their own insecurity... wearing braces as an adult sends to messages: 1. you care about yourself 2. you are confident enough to do it These are two powerful messages... also, a lot depends on how you carry yourself.. if you're self- conscious in them, it will show... Since wearing my braces i've inspired another adult to get braces and been hit on my countless number of women using my braces as a pickup line! > > > > Just wondering how many of you handled the braces as an adult. Is > it > > embarrassing? Or you don't care? Do people make comments? I did > the > > brace thing as a teenager and hated it. It is hard to believe this > > may happen again. > > > > Thanks > > > > > > I find kids ask the most questions. I have kids in elementary > school and their classmates have asked what is that on my teeth, why > do i have braces (to fix my teeth duuh!), do braces hurt, aren't you > kinda old for braces, only kids get braces. None of the kids were > mean spirited, they just wanted some info. > > Adults are another story. In 3 1/2 years in braces (I'm 42) I have > never had an adult ask me directly about my braces. I can tell when > people are looking at them while I talk, but I just ignore it and > talk on. > > In a strange sort of way, having braces and seeing peoples reaction > to it has become a weird sort of litmus test of their personality > and compassion for other people. If an adult would make fun of a > person with braces, what does that say about their maturity level?? > I am certain that some people have looked at me as an oddball and I > know for a fact that some people have laughed about it behind my > back; those people I immediately write off as not worth knowing. > There are 6 billion people in the world, I only make time for the > ones who show some character. The greatest thing about being older > is being more secure in who I am, what I am doing and letting > foolish peoples comments roll off my back. > > 3 1/2 years of pain is well worth the years I have ahead with > straight teeth and functional jaws. My braces are due to come off > in early Dec. > > Hannah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 24, 2004 Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Are there any adults that would make fun of another adult with braces? I really don't think so... if they are, i'm sure it's because of their own insecurity... wearing braces as an adult sends to messages: 1. you care about yourself 2. you are confident enough to do it These are two powerful messages... also, a lot depends on how you carry yourself.. if you're self- conscious in them, it will show... Since wearing my braces i've inspired another adult to get braces and been hit on my countless number of women using my braces as a pickup line! > > > > Just wondering how many of you handled the braces as an adult. Is > it > > embarrassing? Or you don't care? Do people make comments? I did > the > > brace thing as a teenager and hated it. It is hard to believe this > > may happen again. > > > > Thanks > > > > > > I find kids ask the most questions. I have kids in elementary > school and their classmates have asked what is that on my teeth, why > do i have braces (to fix my teeth duuh!), do braces hurt, aren't you > kinda old for braces, only kids get braces. None of the kids were > mean spirited, they just wanted some info. > > Adults are another story. In 3 1/2 years in braces (I'm 42) I have > never had an adult ask me directly about my braces. I can tell when > people are looking at them while I talk, but I just ignore it and > talk on. > > In a strange sort of way, having braces and seeing peoples reaction > to it has become a weird sort of litmus test of their personality > and compassion for other people. If an adult would make fun of a > person with braces, what does that say about their maturity level?? > I am certain that some people have looked at me as an oddball and I > know for a fact that some people have laughed about it behind my > back; those people I immediately write off as not worth knowing. > There are 6 billion people in the world, I only make time for the > ones who show some character. The greatest thing about being older > is being more secure in who I am, what I am doing and letting > foolish peoples comments roll off my back. > > 3 1/2 years of pain is well worth the years I have ahead with > straight teeth and functional jaws. My braces are due to come off > in early Dec. > > Hannah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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