Guest guest Posted April 16, 2003 Report Share Posted April 16, 2003 Friends, I now have another mission. Growing up my mother taught me that everything was my fault. A minor for instance was that when there was bad weather it was because I was a bad girl. I was fat because I was lazy and had no will power. Etc. Etc. I have been in trouble since I started my new job. I believe that one reason is that when someone comes to my boss he assumes it is my fault and apologizes for me. I wonder what would happened if he supported me. Fay is not very good with words, but she is a good worker and I am sure she was just offering help not telling you that you can't do your job. Fay must have been trying to follow my directions and not trying to cause you difficulties. etc. Now for me following my own advice. I try to remember to support all posters and not throw around blame. I try to remember that we morbidly obese have had enough blame to last a lifetime, now it is time for kudos. Fay Bayuk **300/173 10/23/01 Dr. Open RNY 150 cm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2003 Report Share Posted April 16, 2003 Friends, I now have another mission. Growing up my mother taught me that everything was my fault. A minor for instance was that when there was bad weather it was because I was a bad girl. I was fat because I was lazy and had no will power. Etc. Etc. I have been in trouble since I started my new job. I believe that one reason is that when someone comes to my boss he assumes it is my fault and apologizes for me. I wonder what would happened if he supported me. Fay is not very good with words, but she is a good worker and I am sure she was just offering help not telling you that you can't do your job. Fay must have been trying to follow my directions and not trying to cause you difficulties. etc. Now for me following my own advice. I try to remember to support all posters and not throw around blame. I try to remember that we morbidly obese have had enough blame to last a lifetime, now it is time for kudos. Fay Bayuk **300/173 10/23/01 Dr. Open RNY 150 cm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2003 Report Share Posted April 17, 2003 Fay, I think you did wonderful on your protein days. I am a firm believer in what ever works. I know this works for a lot of people. I have tried it once and thought I would pull my hair out. Not sure if I can do it more then a day. Congratulations. Lori Owen - Denton, Texas CHF 4/14/01 479 lbs. SRVG 7/16/01 401 lbs. Current Weight 335 Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce On Thu, 17 Apr 2003 05:41:30 EDT fbayuk@... writes: > Friends, I now have another mission. Growing up my mother taught me > that > everything was my fault. A minor for instance was that when there > was bad > weather it was because I was a bad girl. I was fat because I was > lazy and > had no will power. Etc. Etc. > > I have been in trouble since I started my new job. I believe that > one reason > is that when someone comes to my boss he assumes it is my fault and > > apologizes for me. I wonder what would happened if he supported > me. > > Fay is not very good with words, but she is a good worker and I am > sure she > was just offering help not telling you that you can't do your job. > > Fay must have been trying to follow my directions and not trying to > cause you > difficulties. etc. > > Now for me following my own advice. I try to remember to support > all posters > and not throw around blame. I try to remember that we morbidly > obese have > had enough blame to last a lifetime, now it is time for kudos. > > > > Fay Bayuk > **300/173 > 10/23/01 > Dr. > Open RNY 150 cm > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2003 Report Share Posted April 17, 2003 Fay, I think you did wonderful on your protein days. I am a firm believer in what ever works. I know this works for a lot of people. I have tried it once and thought I would pull my hair out. Not sure if I can do it more then a day. Congratulations. Lori Owen - Denton, Texas CHF 4/14/01 479 lbs. SRVG 7/16/01 401 lbs. Current Weight 335 Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce On Thu, 17 Apr 2003 05:41:30 EDT fbayuk@... writes: > Friends, I now have another mission. Growing up my mother taught me > that > everything was my fault. A minor for instance was that when there > was bad > weather it was because I was a bad girl. I was fat because I was > lazy and > had no will power. Etc. Etc. > > I have been in trouble since I started my new job. I believe that > one reason > is that when someone comes to my boss he assumes it is my fault and > > apologizes for me. I wonder what would happened if he supported > me. > > Fay is not very good with words, but she is a good worker and I am > sure she > was just offering help not telling you that you can't do your job. > > Fay must have been trying to follow my directions and not trying to > cause you > difficulties. etc. > > Now for me following my own advice. I try to remember to support > all posters > and not throw around blame. I try to remember that we morbidly > obese have > had enough blame to last a lifetime, now it is time for kudos. > > > > Fay Bayuk > **300/173 > 10/23/01 > Dr. > Open RNY 150 cm > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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