fighting with your spouse

[Guest guest]

I can identify with all that is being said about this subject...I had

my surgery in Nov 2000 and have lost 100 pounds...I feel terrific but

the struggles have been huge!!...My husband never had a weight

problem and when I started to " change " after the surgery he started

to make his own changes as well...I am alot more open than I was

before, I say what is on my mind and try to handle his verbal

mistreatments to the best of my ability...I have gone through 4 years

of therapy and know that I have all the tools I need to make a

decision as to whether or not I want to stay in this relationship

however it still is not that easy...My current decision is to not

make any rash decisions and celebrate who I am regardless of what my

husband thinks...I am a good person, faithful and I must trust myself

to deal with this in my own time...

[Guest guest]

I can identify with all that is being said about this subject...I had

my surgery in Nov 2000 and have lost 100 pounds...I feel terrific but

the struggles have been huge!!...My husband never had a weight

problem and when I started to " change " after the surgery he started

to make his own changes as well...I am alot more open than I was

before, I say what is on my mind and try to handle his verbal

mistreatments to the best of my ability...I have gone through 4 years

of therapy and know that I have all the tools I need to make a

decision as to whether or not I want to stay in this relationship

however it still is not that easy...My current decision is to not

make any rash decisions and celebrate who I am regardless of what my

husband thinks...I am a good person, faithful and I must trust myself

to deal with this in my own time...