Guest guest Posted February 16, 2003 Report Share Posted February 16, 2003 welcome to the group MOnte and congratulations on the weight loss. Lori Owen - Denton, Texas CHF 4/14/01 479 lbs. SRVG 7/16/01 401 lbs. Current Weight 339.5 lbs. and loosing again Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce On Sun, 16 Feb 2003 23:29:01 -0000 " Monte Norton " writes: > Hi All, > > My name is Monte. I am a 36 year old male and had LAP RNY w/gall > bladder removal on 1/30/02. My starting weight was 660 lbs. > > This has been an amazing journey so far, a journey that started in > early September of 2001. At that point, I had really lost all hope > of > winning my war with obesity. I was in constant pain, had no > endurance, and at times, just could not leave my house to face the > > constant jibes and mockery I experienced when out in public. I was > literally planning my suicide. One night I was talking on the phone > > to my best friend of 17 years, and something I said set off an alarm > > in his head. He drove over to my house at 11 PM to confront me about > > whether I was considering suicide or not. When I admitted I was, he > > called 911. A police officer showed up and told me I had a > choice… I could go willingly to the hospital, or he would take me > in > by force. I went willingly, and during my intake at the hospital, my > > intake nurse asked me if I had considered WLS. At the time, I > really > didn't know much about it, having really only heard the horror > stories about the procedures of the 70's. She told me that there > had > been many advances in the field, and I really should look into it. > In > fact, it was the hospital psychiatrist who referred me to > Commonwealth Surgeons. The info packet they sent to me included a > video that described the RNY and had several patients who described > > the changes in their lives since their surgery. While watching that > > tape, I began to see just the faintest glimmer of light at the end > of > the tunnel. I had my initial consultation with Dr. Harrington in the > > middle of Oct 01, and instantly felt that I would be safe in his > hands. > > As for food, I did have a problem at about 4-5 months out where I > wasn't able to keep solid food down. At first, I thought it was > allergies (peak of the hay fever), and it didn't really bother me > because I really had no appetite anyway. It lasted about three > weeks, > and then I went in for an endoscopy. The doctor found nothing wrong > > and said it must be psychological. I doubted him at the time, but he > > must have been right, because I haven't had a problem since then. > I've thrown up just twice since then. > > I still (serious knocking on wood here lol) rarely get hungry. I > make > sure I get in my protein (mostly from shakes), vitamins, and water, > > and eat a little here and there to keep things rolling. Don't get me > > wrong, occasionally I think about how nice it would be to really > chow > down on a footlong sub from Jersey Mikes (that I could rarely finish > > even when I was pre-op) or a bacon double cheeseburger with fries, > but when I weigh those with more weight loss (and the freedom it > entails), I can dismiss those thoughts pretty easily. Most of the > time, food is like an ex-girlfriend... when we see each other, I > remember the good times, but then I think about how destructive the > > relationship was, and I look forward to going on about my business. > > Perhaps that 3 weeks I mentioned above was just a messy divorce lol. > > As a pre-op, I was living for the next meal or binge of sugar, but > now I can look forward to life. > > These days, I rarely have trouble with food disagreeing with me. I > stay away from fried foods, other than a bite or two here and there, > > as they tend to upset my pouch. I eat protein with a few bites of > veggies, and avoid the carbs (bread, pasta, rice, etc.). I have no > idea how much my pouch will hold, because I really don't push it to > > see how many forkfuls I can fit in. I can pretty much eyeball how > much food I want for my meal, and either throw away or box the > rest. > > 95% or more of what I drink, other than protein shakes (made with > water and powder only) is water. I have had 7-8 sips of diet soda in > > the last year. As a pre-op, I would go to 7-11 in the morning, fill > > up a Double Gulp (64 oz) with Dr. Pepper, sip on that all day, then > > stop in for a refill on my way home (and usually had a 2 liter in > the > fridge in case that wasn't enough). > > As far as sugar, I tend to avoid it. I probably have a bite or two > about every two weeks (usually on a holiday, birthday, etc.). Before > > surgery, I averaged over a half pound of chocolate a day, not to > mention doughnuts, other candy, and any other sweets I could get my > > hands on. Nowadays, I enjoy walking out of 7-11 with a bottle of > water or a bag of beef jerky. I have no idea if I dump or not, and I > > really don't want to know. > > My biggest vice (and we're still talking about food here, right?) is > > potato chips. But now a bag of chips lasts me 2-3 weeks instead of > one sitting. So I don't feel guilty when I have a few. > > As a pre-op, I didn't stand up unless I had a plan for where I was > going to sit down again. Now, I can walk around Wal-Mart (always > wondered just what the fuss was about... now I know lol) without a > problem. I even have hope for romance and maybe even a family some > day, something I never really felt I deserved until now. > > Anyway, that's the unabridged version of my journey so far. Thanks > for having me, > > Monte in VA > LAP RNY 1/30/02 > Dr. Harrington/ Commonwealth Surgeons > Pre-Surg. Wt. - 660 > 2/11/03 Wt. - 345 (-315) > > > > > Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG > > Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2003 Report Share Posted February 16, 2003 welcome to the group MOnte and congratulations on the weight loss. Lori Owen - Denton, Texas CHF 4/14/01 479 lbs. SRVG 7/16/01 401 lbs. Current Weight 339.5 lbs. and loosing again Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce On Sun, 16 Feb 2003 23:29:01 -0000 " Monte Norton " writes: > Hi All, > > My name is Monte. I am a 36 year old male and had LAP RNY w/gall > bladder removal on 1/30/02. My starting weight was 660 lbs. > > This has been an amazing journey so far, a journey that started in > early September of 2001. At that point, I had really lost all hope > of > winning my war with obesity. I was in constant pain, had no > endurance, and at times, just could not leave my house to face the > > constant jibes and mockery I experienced when out in public. I was > literally planning my suicide. One night I was talking on the phone > > to my best friend of 17 years, and something I said set off an alarm > > in his head. He drove over to my house at 11 PM to confront me about > > whether I was considering suicide or not. When I admitted I was, he > > called 911. A police officer showed up and told me I had a > choice… I could go willingly to the hospital, or he would take me > in > by force. I went willingly, and during my intake at the hospital, my > > intake nurse asked me if I had considered WLS. At the time, I > really > didn't know much about it, having really only heard the horror > stories about the procedures of the 70's. She told me that there > had > been many advances in the field, and I really should look into it. > In > fact, it was the hospital psychiatrist who referred me to > Commonwealth Surgeons. The info packet they sent to me included a > video that described the RNY and had several patients who described > > the changes in their lives since their surgery. While watching that > > tape, I began to see just the faintest glimmer of light at the end > of > the tunnel. I had my initial consultation with Dr. Harrington in the > > middle of Oct 01, and instantly felt that I would be safe in his > hands. > > As for food, I did have a problem at about 4-5 months out where I > wasn't able to keep solid food down. At first, I thought it was > allergies (peak of the hay fever), and it didn't really bother me > because I really had no appetite anyway. It lasted about three > weeks, > and then I went in for an endoscopy. The doctor found nothing wrong > > and said it must be psychological. I doubted him at the time, but he > > must have been right, because I haven't had a problem since then. > I've thrown up just twice since then. > > I still (serious knocking on wood here lol) rarely get hungry. I > make > sure I get in my protein (mostly from shakes), vitamins, and water, > > and eat a little here and there to keep things rolling. Don't get me > > wrong, occasionally I think about how nice it would be to really > chow > down on a footlong sub from Jersey Mikes (that I could rarely finish > > even when I was pre-op) or a bacon double cheeseburger with fries, > but when I weigh those with more weight loss (and the freedom it > entails), I can dismiss those thoughts pretty easily. Most of the > time, food is like an ex-girlfriend... when we see each other, I > remember the good times, but then I think about how destructive the > > relationship was, and I look forward to going on about my business. > > Perhaps that 3 weeks I mentioned above was just a messy divorce lol. > > As a pre-op, I was living for the next meal or binge of sugar, but > now I can look forward to life. > > These days, I rarely have trouble with food disagreeing with me. I > stay away from fried foods, other than a bite or two here and there, > > as they tend to upset my pouch. I eat protein with a few bites of > veggies, and avoid the carbs (bread, pasta, rice, etc.). I have no > idea how much my pouch will hold, because I really don't push it to > > see how many forkfuls I can fit in. I can pretty much eyeball how > much food I want for my meal, and either throw away or box the > rest. > > 95% or more of what I drink, other than protein shakes (made with > water and powder only) is water. I have had 7-8 sips of diet soda in > > the last year. As a pre-op, I would go to 7-11 in the morning, fill > > up a Double Gulp (64 oz) with Dr. Pepper, sip on that all day, then > > stop in for a refill on my way home (and usually had a 2 liter in > the > fridge in case that wasn't enough). > > As far as sugar, I tend to avoid it. I probably have a bite or two > about every two weeks (usually on a holiday, birthday, etc.). Before > > surgery, I averaged over a half pound of chocolate a day, not to > mention doughnuts, other candy, and any other sweets I could get my > > hands on. Nowadays, I enjoy walking out of 7-11 with a bottle of > water or a bag of beef jerky. I have no idea if I dump or not, and I > > really don't want to know. > > My biggest vice (and we're still talking about food here, right?) is > > potato chips. But now a bag of chips lasts me 2-3 weeks instead of > one sitting. So I don't feel guilty when I have a few. > > As a pre-op, I didn't stand up unless I had a plan for where I was > going to sit down again. Now, I can walk around Wal-Mart (always > wondered just what the fuss was about... now I know lol) without a > problem. I even have hope for romance and maybe even a family some > day, something I never really felt I deserved until now. > > Anyway, that's the unabridged version of my journey so far. Thanks > for having me, > > Monte in VA > LAP RNY 1/30/02 > Dr. Harrington/ Commonwealth Surgeons > Pre-Surg. Wt. - 660 > 2/11/03 Wt. - 345 (-315) > > > > > Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG > > Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2003 Report Share Posted February 16, 2003 Monte, Welcome to the list and back to the land of the living. I am glad you had a friend that cared enough about you to get you help. You are blessed and I hope he is still in your life enjoying the " new you " You sound like a very nice guy and I am sure romance is right around the corner. Just be ready for it when it comes your way and know that you deserve it! You deserve your health back... Romance and happiness in your life... and the freedom to walk through Wal-mart God bless you, Monte, and congratulations on a fabulous loss so far! Carol G. > Hi All, > > My name is Monte. I am a 36 year old male and had LAP RNY w/gall > bladder removal on 1/30/02. My starting weight was 660 lbs. > > This has been an amazing journey so far, a journey that started in > early September of 2001. At that point, I had really lost all hope of > winning my war with obesity. I was in constant pain, had no > endurance, and at times, just could not leave my house to face the > constant jibes and mockery I experienced when out in public. I was > literally planning my suicide. One night I was talking on the phone > to my best friend of 17 years, and something I said set off an alarm > in his head. He drove over to my house at 11 PM to confront me about > whether I was considering suicide or not. When I admitted I was, he > called 911. A police officer showed up and told me I had a > choice… I could go willingly to the hospital, or he would take me > in > by force. I went willingly, and during my intake at the hospital, my > intake nurse asked me if I had considered WLS. At the time, I really > didn't know much about it, having really only heard the horror > stories about the procedures of the 70's. She told me that there > had > been many advances in the field, and I really should look into it. In > fact, it was the hospital psychiatrist who referred me to > Commonwealth Surgeons. The info packet they sent to me included a > video that described the RNY and had several patients who described > the changes in their lives since their surgery. While watching that > tape, I began to see just the faintest glimmer of light at the end of > the tunnel. I had my initial consultation with Dr. Harrington in the > middle of Oct 01, and instantly felt that I would be safe in his > hands. > > As for food, I did have a problem at about 4-5 months out where I > wasn't able to keep solid food down. At first, I thought it was > allergies (peak of the hay fever), and it didn't really bother me > because I really had no appetite anyway. It lasted about three weeks, > and then I went in for an endoscopy. The doctor found nothing wrong > and said it must be psychological. I doubted him at the time, but he > must have been right, because I haven't had a problem since then. > I've thrown up just twice since then. > > I still (serious knocking on wood here lol) rarely get hungry. I make > sure I get in my protein (mostly from shakes), vitamins, and water, > and eat a little here and there to keep things rolling. Don't get me > wrong, occasionally I think about how nice it would be to really chow > down on a footlong sub from Jersey Mikes (that I could rarely finish > even when I was pre-op) or a bacon double cheeseburger with fries, > but when I weigh those with more weight loss (and the freedom it > entails), I can dismiss those thoughts pretty easily. Most of the > time, food is like an ex-girlfriend... when we see each other, I > remember the good times, but then I think about how destructive the > relationship was, and I look forward to going on about my business. > Perhaps that 3 weeks I mentioned above was just a messy divorce lol. > As a pre-op, I was living for the next meal or binge of sugar, but > now I can look forward to life. > > These days, I rarely have trouble with food disagreeing with me. I > stay away from fried foods, other than a bite or two here and there, > as they tend to upset my pouch. I eat protein with a few bites of > veggies, and avoid the carbs (bread, pasta, rice, etc.). I have no > idea how much my pouch will hold, because I really don't push it to > see how many forkfuls I can fit in. I can pretty much eyeball how > much food I want for my meal, and either throw away or box the rest. > > 95% or more of what I drink, other than protein shakes (made with > water and powder only) is water. I have had 7-8 sips of diet soda in > the last year. As a pre-op, I would go to 7-11 in the morning, fill > up a Double Gulp (64 oz) with Dr. Pepper, sip on that all day, then > stop in for a refill on my way home (and usually had a 2 liter in the > fridge in case that wasn't enough). > > As far as sugar, I tend to avoid it. I probably have a bite or two > about every two weeks (usually on a holiday, birthday, etc.). Before > surgery, I averaged over a half pound of chocolate a day, not to > mention doughnuts, other candy, and any other sweets I could get my > hands on. Nowadays, I enjoy walking out of 7-11 with a bottle of > water or a bag of beef jerky. I have no idea if I dump or not, and I > really don't want to know. > > My biggest vice (and we're still talking about food here, right?) is > potato chips. But now a bag of chips lasts me 2-3 weeks instead of > one sitting. So I don't feel guilty when I have a few. > > As a pre-op, I didn't stand up unless I had a plan for where I was > going to sit down again. Now, I can walk around Wal-Mart (always > wondered just what the fuss was about... now I know lol) without a > problem. I even have hope for romance and maybe even a family some > day, something I never really felt I deserved until now. > > Anyway, that's the unabridged version of my journey so far. Thanks > for having me, > > Monte in VA > LAP RNY 1/30/02 > Dr. Harrington/ Commonwealth Surgeons > Pre-Surg. Wt. - 660 > 2/11/03 Wt. - 345 (-315) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2003 Report Share Posted February 16, 2003 Monte, Welcome to the list and back to the land of the living. I am glad you had a friend that cared enough about you to get you help. You are blessed and I hope he is still in your life enjoying the " new you " You sound like a very nice guy and I am sure romance is right around the corner. Just be ready for it when it comes your way and know that you deserve it! You deserve your health back... Romance and happiness in your life... and the freedom to walk through Wal-mart God bless you, Monte, and congratulations on a fabulous loss so far! Carol G. > Hi All, > > My name is Monte. I am a 36 year old male and had LAP RNY w/gall > bladder removal on 1/30/02. My starting weight was 660 lbs. > > This has been an amazing journey so far, a journey that started in > early September of 2001. At that point, I had really lost all hope of > winning my war with obesity. I was in constant pain, had no > endurance, and at times, just could not leave my house to face the > constant jibes and mockery I experienced when out in public. I was > literally planning my suicide. One night I was talking on the phone > to my best friend of 17 years, and something I said set off an alarm > in his head. He drove over to my house at 11 PM to confront me about > whether I was considering suicide or not. When I admitted I was, he > called 911. A police officer showed up and told me I had a > choice… I could go willingly to the hospital, or he would take me > in > by force. I went willingly, and during my intake at the hospital, my > intake nurse asked me if I had considered WLS. At the time, I really > didn't know much about it, having really only heard the horror > stories about the procedures of the 70's. She told me that there > had > been many advances in the field, and I really should look into it. In > fact, it was the hospital psychiatrist who referred me to > Commonwealth Surgeons. The info packet they sent to me included a > video that described the RNY and had several patients who described > the changes in their lives since their surgery. While watching that > tape, I began to see just the faintest glimmer of light at the end of > the tunnel. I had my initial consultation with Dr. Harrington in the > middle of Oct 01, and instantly felt that I would be safe in his > hands. > > As for food, I did have a problem at about 4-5 months out where I > wasn't able to keep solid food down. At first, I thought it was > allergies (peak of the hay fever), and it didn't really bother me > because I really had no appetite anyway. It lasted about three weeks, > and then I went in for an endoscopy. The doctor found nothing wrong > and said it must be psychological. I doubted him at the time, but he > must have been right, because I haven't had a problem since then. > I've thrown up just twice since then. > > I still (serious knocking on wood here lol) rarely get hungry. I make > sure I get in my protein (mostly from shakes), vitamins, and water, > and eat a little here and there to keep things rolling. Don't get me > wrong, occasionally I think about how nice it would be to really chow > down on a footlong sub from Jersey Mikes (that I could rarely finish > even when I was pre-op) or a bacon double cheeseburger with fries, > but when I weigh those with more weight loss (and the freedom it > entails), I can dismiss those thoughts pretty easily. Most of the > time, food is like an ex-girlfriend... when we see each other, I > remember the good times, but then I think about how destructive the > relationship was, and I look forward to going on about my business. > Perhaps that 3 weeks I mentioned above was just a messy divorce lol. > As a pre-op, I was living for the next meal or binge of sugar, but > now I can look forward to life. > > These days, I rarely have trouble with food disagreeing with me. I > stay away from fried foods, other than a bite or two here and there, > as they tend to upset my pouch. I eat protein with a few bites of > veggies, and avoid the carbs (bread, pasta, rice, etc.). I have no > idea how much my pouch will hold, because I really don't push it to > see how many forkfuls I can fit in. I can pretty much eyeball how > much food I want for my meal, and either throw away or box the rest. > > 95% or more of what I drink, other than protein shakes (made with > water and powder only) is water. I have had 7-8 sips of diet soda in > the last year. As a pre-op, I would go to 7-11 in the morning, fill > up a Double Gulp (64 oz) with Dr. Pepper, sip on that all day, then > stop in for a refill on my way home (and usually had a 2 liter in the > fridge in case that wasn't enough). > > As far as sugar, I tend to avoid it. I probably have a bite or two > about every two weeks (usually on a holiday, birthday, etc.). Before > surgery, I averaged over a half pound of chocolate a day, not to > mention doughnuts, other candy, and any other sweets I could get my > hands on. Nowadays, I enjoy walking out of 7-11 with a bottle of > water or a bag of beef jerky. I have no idea if I dump or not, and I > really don't want to know. > > My biggest vice (and we're still talking about food here, right?) is > potato chips. But now a bag of chips lasts me 2-3 weeks instead of > one sitting. So I don't feel guilty when I have a few. > > As a pre-op, I didn't stand up unless I had a plan for where I was > going to sit down again. Now, I can walk around Wal-Mart (always > wondered just what the fuss was about... now I know lol) without a > problem. I even have hope for romance and maybe even a family some > day, something I never really felt I deserved until now. > > Anyway, that's the unabridged version of my journey so far. Thanks > for having me, > > Monte in VA > LAP RNY 1/30/02 > Dr. Harrington/ Commonwealth Surgeons > Pre-Surg. Wt. - 660 > 2/11/03 Wt. - 345 (-315) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2003 Report Share Posted February 16, 2003 Monte what struck me most about your post, was how everyone did their job. Your friend, the police officer, the intake nurse, the docs. You must be a wonderful person to have such a good friend. It is more usual for these people to not notice. It is heartwarming to see the system work. Fay Bayuk 300/175 10/23/01 Dr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2003 Report Share Posted February 16, 2003 Monte what struck me most about your post, was how everyone did their job. Your friend, the police officer, the intake nurse, the docs. You must be a wonderful person to have such a good friend. It is more usual for these people to not notice. It is heartwarming to see the system work. Fay Bayuk 300/175 10/23/01 Dr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2003 Report Share Posted February 16, 2003 Hey, Monte, welcome aboard -- you've done great so far, keep it up. Don't forget the exercise (I, the original couch potato, can't believe I just said that.). Life at 382 days post-op/Introduction (long) Hi All, My name is Monte. I am a 36 year old male and had LAP RNY w/gall bladder removal on 1/30/02. My starting weight was 660 lbs. This has been an amazing journey so far, a journey that started in early September of 2001. At that point, I had really lost all hope of winning my war with obesity. I was in constant pain, had no endurance, and at times, just could not leave my house to face the constant jibes and mockery I experienced when out in public. I was literally planning my suicide. One night I was talking on the phone to my best friend of 17 years, and something I said set off an alarm in his head. He drove over to my house at 11 PM to confront me about whether I was considering suicide or not. When I admitted I was, he called 911. A police officer showed up and told me I had a choice. I could go willingly to the hospital, or he would take me in by force. I went willingly, and during my intake at the hospital, my intake nurse asked me if I had considered WLS. At the time, I really didn't know much about it, having really only heard the horror stories about the procedures of the 70's. She told me that there had been many advances in the field, and I really should look into it. In fact, it was the hospital psychiatrist who referred me to Commonwealth Surgeons. The info packet they sent to me included a video that described the RNY and had several patients who described the changes in their lives since their surgery. While watching that tape, I began to see just the faintest glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. I had my initial consultation with Dr. Harrington in the middle of Oct 01, and instantly felt that I would be safe in his hands. As for food, I did have a problem at about 4-5 months out where I wasn't able to keep solid food down. At first, I thought it was allergies (peak of the hay fever), and it didn't really bother me because I really had no appetite anyway. It lasted about three weeks, and then I went in for an endoscopy. The doctor found nothing wrong and said it must be psychological. I doubted him at the time, but he must have been right, because I haven't had a problem since then. I've thrown up just twice since then. I still (serious knocking on wood here lol) rarely get hungry. I make sure I get in my protein (mostly from shakes), vitamins, and water, and eat a little here and there to keep things rolling. Don't get me wrong, occasionally I think about how nice it would be to really chow down on a footlong sub from Jersey Mikes (that I could rarely finish even when I was pre-op) or a bacon double cheeseburger with fries, but when I weigh those with more weight loss (and the freedom it entails), I can dismiss those thoughts pretty easily. Most of the time, food is like an ex-girlfriend... when we see each other, I remember the good times, but then I think about how destructive the relationship was, and I look forward to going on about my business. Perhaps that 3 weeks I mentioned above was just a messy divorce lol. As a pre-op, I was living for the next meal or binge of sugar, but now I can look forward to life. These days, I rarely have trouble with food disagreeing with me. I stay away from fried foods, other than a bite or two here and there, as they tend to upset my pouch. I eat protein with a few bites of veggies, and avoid the carbs (bread, pasta, rice, etc.). I have no idea how much my pouch will hold, because I really don't push it to see how many forkfuls I can fit in. I can pretty much eyeball how much food I want for my meal, and either throw away or box the rest. 95% or more of what I drink, other than protein shakes (made with water and powder only) is water. I have had 7-8 sips of diet soda in the last year. As a pre-op, I would go to 7-11 in the morning, fill up a Double Gulp (64 oz) with Dr. Pepper, sip on that all day, then stop in for a refill on my way home (and usually had a 2 liter in the fridge in case that wasn't enough). As far as sugar, I tend to avoid it. I probably have a bite or two about every two weeks (usually on a holiday, birthday, etc.). Before surgery, I averaged over a half pound of chocolate a day, not to mention doughnuts, other candy, and any other sweets I could get my hands on. Nowadays, I enjoy walking out of 7-11 with a bottle of water or a bag of beef jerky. I have no idea if I dump or not, and I really don't want to know. My biggest vice (and we're still talking about food here, right?) is potato chips. But now a bag of chips lasts me 2-3 weeks instead of one sitting. So I don't feel guilty when I have a few. As a pre-op, I didn't stand up unless I had a plan for where I was going to sit down again. Now, I can walk around Wal-Mart (always wondered just what the fuss was about... now I know lol) without a problem. I even have hope for romance and maybe even a family some day, something I never really felt I deserved until now. Anyway, that's the unabridged version of my journey so far. Thanks for having me, Monte in VA LAP RNY 1/30/02 Dr. Harrington/ Commonwealth Surgeons Pre-Surg. Wt. - 660 2/11/03 Wt. - 345 (-315) Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2003 Report Share Posted February 16, 2003 Hey, Monte, welcome aboard -- you've done great so far, keep it up. Don't forget the exercise (I, the original couch potato, can't believe I just said that.). Life at 382 days post-op/Introduction (long) Hi All, My name is Monte. I am a 36 year old male and had LAP RNY w/gall bladder removal on 1/30/02. My starting weight was 660 lbs. This has been an amazing journey so far, a journey that started in early September of 2001. At that point, I had really lost all hope of winning my war with obesity. I was in constant pain, had no endurance, and at times, just could not leave my house to face the constant jibes and mockery I experienced when out in public. I was literally planning my suicide. One night I was talking on the phone to my best friend of 17 years, and something I said set off an alarm in his head. He drove over to my house at 11 PM to confront me about whether I was considering suicide or not. When I admitted I was, he called 911. A police officer showed up and told me I had a choice. I could go willingly to the hospital, or he would take me in by force. I went willingly, and during my intake at the hospital, my intake nurse asked me if I had considered WLS. At the time, I really didn't know much about it, having really only heard the horror stories about the procedures of the 70's. She told me that there had been many advances in the field, and I really should look into it. In fact, it was the hospital psychiatrist who referred me to Commonwealth Surgeons. The info packet they sent to me included a video that described the RNY and had several patients who described the changes in their lives since their surgery. While watching that tape, I began to see just the faintest glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. I had my initial consultation with Dr. Harrington in the middle of Oct 01, and instantly felt that I would be safe in his hands. As for food, I did have a problem at about 4-5 months out where I wasn't able to keep solid food down. At first, I thought it was allergies (peak of the hay fever), and it didn't really bother me because I really had no appetite anyway. It lasted about three weeks, and then I went in for an endoscopy. The doctor found nothing wrong and said it must be psychological. I doubted him at the time, but he must have been right, because I haven't had a problem since then. I've thrown up just twice since then. I still (serious knocking on wood here lol) rarely get hungry. I make sure I get in my protein (mostly from shakes), vitamins, and water, and eat a little here and there to keep things rolling. Don't get me wrong, occasionally I think about how nice it would be to really chow down on a footlong sub from Jersey Mikes (that I could rarely finish even when I was pre-op) or a bacon double cheeseburger with fries, but when I weigh those with more weight loss (and the freedom it entails), I can dismiss those thoughts pretty easily. Most of the time, food is like an ex-girlfriend... when we see each other, I remember the good times, but then I think about how destructive the relationship was, and I look forward to going on about my business. Perhaps that 3 weeks I mentioned above was just a messy divorce lol. As a pre-op, I was living for the next meal or binge of sugar, but now I can look forward to life. These days, I rarely have trouble with food disagreeing with me. I stay away from fried foods, other than a bite or two here and there, as they tend to upset my pouch. I eat protein with a few bites of veggies, and avoid the carbs (bread, pasta, rice, etc.). I have no idea how much my pouch will hold, because I really don't push it to see how many forkfuls I can fit in. I can pretty much eyeball how much food I want for my meal, and either throw away or box the rest. 95% or more of what I drink, other than protein shakes (made with water and powder only) is water. I have had 7-8 sips of diet soda in the last year. As a pre-op, I would go to 7-11 in the morning, fill up a Double Gulp (64 oz) with Dr. Pepper, sip on that all day, then stop in for a refill on my way home (and usually had a 2 liter in the fridge in case that wasn't enough). As far as sugar, I tend to avoid it. I probably have a bite or two about every two weeks (usually on a holiday, birthday, etc.). Before surgery, I averaged over a half pound of chocolate a day, not to mention doughnuts, other candy, and any other sweets I could get my hands on. Nowadays, I enjoy walking out of 7-11 with a bottle of water or a bag of beef jerky. I have no idea if I dump or not, and I really don't want to know. My biggest vice (and we're still talking about food here, right?) is potato chips. But now a bag of chips lasts me 2-3 weeks instead of one sitting. So I don't feel guilty when I have a few. As a pre-op, I didn't stand up unless I had a plan for where I was going to sit down again. Now, I can walk around Wal-Mart (always wondered just what the fuss was about... now I know lol) without a problem. I even have hope for romance and maybe even a family some day, something I never really felt I deserved until now. Anyway, that's the unabridged version of my journey so far. Thanks for having me, Monte in VA LAP RNY 1/30/02 Dr. Harrington/ Commonwealth Surgeons Pre-Surg. Wt. - 660 2/11/03 Wt. - 345 (-315) Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2003 Report Share Posted February 17, 2003 Most of the time, food is like an ex-girlfriend... when we see each other, I remember the good times, but then I think about how destructive the relationship was, and I look forward to going on about my business. Perhaps that 3 weeks I mentioned above was just a messy divorce lol. << ************************* Monte, I love this analogy! So true! Welcome! It's great to have you on board! in NJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2003 Report Share Posted February 17, 2003 Most of the time, food is like an ex-girlfriend... when we see each other, I remember the good times, but then I think about how destructive the relationship was, and I look forward to going on about my business. Perhaps that 3 weeks I mentioned above was just a messy divorce lol. << ************************* Monte, I love this analogy! So true! Welcome! It's great to have you on board! in NJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2003 Report Share Posted February 17, 2003 Monte... I read your post and had to respond. First you are so lucky you have such a wonderful friend. I know that feeling of not wanting to go on. I always told myself that it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. The only thing is, when it's your own body, which you have to look at every day, the problem doesn't seem so temporary. I'm very proud of you for following through with the help and proud of your friend for taking a stand and caring enough about you to do the right thing. Now, you have done so well. You've not only lost a tremendous amount of weight, your attitude is wonderful. People who don't have a problem with food, weight and self-esteem never know what we go through. I give you huge kudos (no, not the breakfast bar ) for what you've done. You really are an inspiration. I had my surgery 2/12/02 and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. It was a therapist that helped to push me in that direction and I will always be indebted to her. Keep up the good work and keep us informed of your progress. Hugs, Tigger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2003 Report Share Posted February 17, 2003 Monte... I read your post and had to respond. First you are so lucky you have such a wonderful friend. I know that feeling of not wanting to go on. I always told myself that it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. The only thing is, when it's your own body, which you have to look at every day, the problem doesn't seem so temporary. I'm very proud of you for following through with the help and proud of your friend for taking a stand and caring enough about you to do the right thing. Now, you have done so well. You've not only lost a tremendous amount of weight, your attitude is wonderful. People who don't have a problem with food, weight and self-esteem never know what we go through. I give you huge kudos (no, not the breakfast bar ) for what you've done. You really are an inspiration. I had my surgery 2/12/02 and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. It was a therapist that helped to push me in that direction and I will always be indebted to her. Keep up the good work and keep us informed of your progress. Hugs, Tigger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2003 Report Share Posted February 18, 2003 Monte, What an incredible story. Sounds like you have a guardian angle. Welcome to the group! Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2003 Report Share Posted February 18, 2003 Monte, What an incredible story. Sounds like you have a guardian angle. Welcome to the group! Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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