Re: ooh..this is painfiul please help now

[Guest guest]

Dear sweet Vicki,

I can only imagine how much this hurts. There for a long time,

my family and I did not talk. My father actually died before we got back

together. It hurt tons. But ya know, eventually we did get back

together. It maybe that your dad just needs time to think about this.

Don't give up hope.

Lori Owen - Denton, Texas

CHF 4/14/01 479 lbs.

SRVG 7/16/01 401 lbs.

Current Weight 335

Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce

On Sun, 23 Mar 2003 00:01:49 -0000 " vickiang "

writes:

> To make a long story short,I have a stepmother who is small town

> southern whose life is based on destroying other peple. One

> down..on

> to the next one. Even dead people aren't safe from criticism. I

> was

> so incredibly hurt when my s.m. ranted on my grandad, whom I loved

> so

> very much. And wouldn't you know, as much as s.p. bitched about my

> grandmother, and my grandmother knew it, she left the family wedding

>

> rings to her. I don't care about the rings per se because they

> aren't worth a lot of money, but I have a sentimental attachment...I

>

> would love her great grandson to present it to his wife. But she

> got

> it, and she hated the woman.

>

> Well, I told my Dad that I would no longer tolerate his wife's

> behavior. I also talked to her and honestly I can't remember what I

>

> said, but I do remember ripping me to shreds. It was uncalled for.

>

> It was beyondcompassion. It was cruel,

>

> So I don't know what she told my Dad, but he has decided to dis-own

>

> me. He hung up on me on the phone.

>

> I am in such a god place in my life. I am strong. I am healthy. I

>

> love my husband and my kids, and even my dogs.

>

> But this hurts so much.

>

> I'm not going to eat or drink over it.

>

> Vicki A.

>

>

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>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Dear sweet Vicki,

I can only imagine how much this hurts. There for a long time,

my family and I did not talk. My father actually died before we got back

together. It hurt tons. But ya know, eventually we did get back

together. It maybe that your dad just needs time to think about this.

Don't give up hope.

Lori Owen - Denton, Texas

CHF 4/14/01 479 lbs.

SRVG 7/16/01 401 lbs.

Current Weight 335

Dr. Ritter/Dr. Bryce

On Sun, 23 Mar 2003 00:01:49 -0000 " vickiang "

writes:

> To make a long story short,I have a stepmother who is small town

> southern whose life is based on destroying other peple. One

> down..on

> to the next one. Even dead people aren't safe from criticism. I

> was

> so incredibly hurt when my s.m. ranted on my grandad, whom I loved

> so

> very much. And wouldn't you know, as much as s.p. bitched about my

> grandmother, and my grandmother knew it, she left the family wedding

>

> rings to her. I don't care about the rings per se because they

> aren't worth a lot of money, but I have a sentimental attachment...I

>

> would love her great grandson to present it to his wife. But she

> got

> it, and she hated the woman.

>

> Well, I told my Dad that I would no longer tolerate his wife's

> behavior. I also talked to her and honestly I can't remember what I

>

> said, but I do remember ripping me to shreds. It was uncalled for.

>

> It was beyondcompassion. It was cruel,

>

> So I don't know what she told my Dad, but he has decided to dis-own

>

> me. He hung up on me on the phone.

>

> I am in such a god place in my life. I am strong. I am healthy. I

>

> love my husband and my kids, and even my dogs.

>

> But this hurts so much.

>

> I'm not going to eat or drink over it.

>

> Vicki A.

>

>

> Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG

>

> Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Nothing worse than mean family members. I have a sister like that. I've had

to choose not to deal with her, as dealing with her brings too much pain to

my life. Life is painful enough without those who would deliberately inflict

it.

I think you need to introduce your wicked step-mother to Regina's in-laws,

and let them have at each other. Might neutralize the problem. Sorry, I had

to say it. <smirk>

Regards~

Jacque

Distal RNY, 5/30/00

Drs. Fox and Oh

310~127

Beginning BMI 50.0

Current BMI 20.4

> To make a long story short,I have a stepmother who is small town

> southern whose life is based on destroying other peple. One down..on

> to the next one. Even dead people aren't safe from criticism. I was

> so incredibly hurt when my s.m. ranted on my grandad, whom I loved so

> very much. And wouldn't you know, as much as s.p. bitched about my

> grandmother, and my grandmother knew it, she left the family wedding

> rings to her. I don't care about the rings per se because they

> aren't worth a lot of money, but I have a sentimental attachment...I

> would love her great grandson to present it to his wife. But she got

> it, and she hated the woman.

>

> Well, I told my Dad that I would no longer tolerate his wife's

> behavior. I also talked to her and honestly I can't remember what I

> said, but I do remember ripping me to shreds. It was uncalled for.

> It was beyondcompassion. It was cruel,

>

> So I don't know what she told my Dad, but he has decided to dis-own

> me. He hung up on me on the phone.

>

> I am in such a god place in my life. I am strong. I am healthy. I

> love my husband and my kids, and even my dogs.

>

> But this hurts so much.

>

> I'm not going to eat or drink over it.

>

> Vicki A.

[Guest guest]

Nothing worse than mean family members. I have a sister like that. I've had

to choose not to deal with her, as dealing with her brings too much pain to

my life. Life is painful enough without those who would deliberately inflict

it.

I think you need to introduce your wicked step-mother to Regina's in-laws,

and let them have at each other. Might neutralize the problem. Sorry, I had

to say it. <smirk>

Regards~

Jacque

Distal RNY, 5/30/00

Drs. Fox and Oh

310~127

Beginning BMI 50.0

Current BMI 20.4

> To make a long story short,I have a stepmother who is small town

> southern whose life is based on destroying other peple. One down..on

> to the next one. Even dead people aren't safe from criticism. I was

> so incredibly hurt when my s.m. ranted on my grandad, whom I loved so

> very much. And wouldn't you know, as much as s.p. bitched about my

> grandmother, and my grandmother knew it, she left the family wedding

> rings to her. I don't care about the rings per se because they

> aren't worth a lot of money, but I have a sentimental attachment...I

> would love her great grandson to present it to his wife. But she got

> it, and she hated the woman.

>

> Well, I told my Dad that I would no longer tolerate his wife's

> behavior. I also talked to her and honestly I can't remember what I

> said, but I do remember ripping me to shreds. It was uncalled for.

> It was beyondcompassion. It was cruel,

>

> So I don't know what she told my Dad, but he has decided to dis-own

> me. He hung up on me on the phone.

>

> I am in such a god place in my life. I am strong. I am healthy. I

> love my husband and my kids, and even my dogs.

>

> But this hurts so much.

>

> I'm not going to eat or drink over it.

>

> Vicki A.

[Guest guest]

I think you need to introduce your wicked step-mother to

Regina's in-laws,

and let them have at each other. Might neutralize the problem.

Sorry, I had

to say it.

Doubt this would neutralize any one of them, but may make for an

entertaining evening. : )

Regina

[Guest guest]

I think you need to introduce your wicked step-mother to

Regina's in-laws,

and let them have at each other. Might neutralize the problem.

Sorry, I had

to say it.

Doubt this would neutralize any one of them, but may make for an

entertaining evening. : )

Regina