Guest guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Publicly posting email that was sent to you privately is considered beyond rude, even unacceptable on any other list that I am on. on 7/13/02 3:15 PM, emarjency at emarjency@... wrote: > Apparently I've lost my touch in figuring out what's properly > directed private email and accidently misdirected public posting. My > sincere apologies to anyone who I repost inappropriately; I hope > maintaining anonymity is a sufficient cloaking device. My motives are > only to share what I think is valuable information or concerns with > the entire group. My previous comment regarding individuals who > mispost was intended to readdress an observation so many have made > already made in this group, not to chastize a particular individual -- > not at all, and I apologize if my words were interpreted as such. > > In that spirit, someone emailed me this question, which I feel is > deserving of responses from other people (mine follows): Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Publicly posting email that was sent to you privately is considered beyond rude, even unacceptable on any other list that I am on. on 7/13/02 3:15 PM, emarjency at emarjency@... wrote: > Apparently I've lost my touch in figuring out what's properly > directed private email and accidently misdirected public posting. My > sincere apologies to anyone who I repost inappropriately; I hope > maintaining anonymity is a sufficient cloaking device. My motives are > only to share what I think is valuable information or concerns with > the entire group. My previous comment regarding individuals who > mispost was intended to readdress an observation so many have made > already made in this group, not to chastize a particular individual -- > not at all, and I apologize if my words were interpreted as such. > > In that spirit, someone emailed me this question, which I feel is > deserving of responses from other people (mine follows): Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Apparently I've lost my touch in figuring out what's properly directed private email and accidently misdirected public posting. My sincere apologies to anyone who I repost inappropriately; I hope maintaining anonymity is a sufficient cloaking device. My motives are only to share what I think is valuable information or concerns with the entire group. My previous comment regarding individuals who mispost was intended to readdress an observation so many have made already made in this group, not to chastize a particular individual -- not at all, and I apologize if my words were interpreted as such. In that spirit, someone emailed me this question, which I feel is deserving of responses from other people (mine follows): -=-=-= I thought I would ask u cause I also break out on tolerian cream, so my question is have u tried the cea Care cream or Emu Super rich moisturizer? Im thinking about order rosacea care cream...got a sample of emu super rich but haven't tried it yet. -=-== I have not tried any of the emu products. For the past six months of so I've intermittently used cea Care's moisturing cream -- it's very rich so a very little goes a long way. I don't react to it, and I may even get some anti-inflammatory benefit, but if I use it too many days in a row I will break out, in pretty much the same fashion as I do with the Tolerian cream. I even break out in the same fashion to Oil of Olay's Sensitive formula, again using near-microscopic amounts. What are these breakouts from? I don't know. I've assumed they're clogged pores, but they may well be from emulsifiers or, as Barry points out, preservatives or other ingredients. I even had a bad reaction to simple moisturizing oil, although I was literally pouring that onto my face. These days, I'm going without any moisturizers. Here's to the person who said they love eye lines! <g> Marjorie Marjorie Lazoff, MD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Apparently I've lost my touch in figuring out what's properly directed private email and accidently misdirected public posting. My sincere apologies to anyone who I repost inappropriately; I hope maintaining anonymity is a sufficient cloaking device. My motives are only to share what I think is valuable information or concerns with the entire group. My previous comment regarding individuals who mispost was intended to readdress an observation so many have made already made in this group, not to chastize a particular individual -- not at all, and I apologize if my words were interpreted as such. In that spirit, someone emailed me this question, which I feel is deserving of responses from other people (mine follows): -=-=-= I thought I would ask u cause I also break out on tolerian cream, so my question is have u tried the cea Care cream or Emu Super rich moisturizer? Im thinking about order rosacea care cream...got a sample of emu super rich but haven't tried it yet. -=-== I have not tried any of the emu products. For the past six months of so I've intermittently used cea Care's moisturing cream -- it's very rich so a very little goes a long way. I don't react to it, and I may even get some anti-inflammatory benefit, but if I use it too many days in a row I will break out, in pretty much the same fashion as I do with the Tolerian cream. I even break out in the same fashion to Oil of Olay's Sensitive formula, again using near-microscopic amounts. What are these breakouts from? I don't know. I've assumed they're clogged pores, but they may well be from emulsifiers or, as Barry points out, preservatives or other ingredients. I even had a bad reaction to simple moisturizing oil, although I was literally pouring that onto my face. These days, I'm going without any moisturizers. Here's to the person who said they love eye lines! <g> Marjorie Marjorie Lazoff, MD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 > These days, I'm going without any moisturizers. Here's to the person > who said they love eye lines! <g> > > Marjorie > > Marjorie Lazoff, MD Merle Norman has a new moisturizer for sensitive skin -- even specifies for rosacea. No spf, and supposedly free of all ingredients known to be harsh. They didn't have samples, but maintain they stand by all their products. I just started using Supercity 25 and don't use more than one new thing at a time, so will I will try it later. I do use their powder base makeup. It works well for me and provides good coverage w/ zinc oxide protection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 > These days, I'm going without any moisturizers. Here's to the person > who said they love eye lines! <g> > > Marjorie > > Marjorie Lazoff, MD Merle Norman has a new moisturizer for sensitive skin -- even specifies for rosacea. No spf, and supposedly free of all ingredients known to be harsh. They didn't have samples, but maintain they stand by all their products. I just started using Supercity 25 and don't use more than one new thing at a time, so will I will try it later. I do use their powder base makeup. It works well for me and provides good coverage w/ zinc oxide protection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Hi , On Saturday, 13 July 2002, at 11:25:55 [GMT +0000] you wrote: C> Publicly posting email that was sent to you privately is considered beyond C> rude, even unacceptable on any other list that I am on. I don't believe that this is the general case. What is rude is when you want to copy a heated email to the group and say `look what they said to me' this will contribute to getting you banned - especially for the trouble makers in our group who troll and then get all righteous. Marjorie has said that she doesn't want to carry out email conversations between individuals, but rather use the public nature of replying to the group. This choice is fine and her politeness in anonymising posts is also probably the right thing to do. cheers, davidp. -- Pascoe, mailto:dp@..., Western Australia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 13, 2002 Report Share Posted July 13, 2002 Hi , On Saturday, 13 July 2002, at 11:25:55 [GMT +0000] you wrote: C> Publicly posting email that was sent to you privately is considered beyond C> rude, even unacceptable on any other list that I am on. I don't believe that this is the general case. What is rude is when you want to copy a heated email to the group and say `look what they said to me' this will contribute to getting you banned - especially for the trouble makers in our group who troll and then get all righteous. Marjorie has said that she doesn't want to carry out email conversations between individuals, but rather use the public nature of replying to the group. This choice is fine and her politeness in anonymising posts is also probably the right thing to do. cheers, davidp. -- Pascoe, mailto:dp@..., Western Australia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 The only problem with that statement is that is seems with this list 90% of the time you can NOT post to the list you are forced to email a response. I for one am not all that bright when it comes to message boards and prefer the way the other lists are run giving me an option to post to the board. If I email someone and you want to post it please do - I don't have the time or IQ to figure it out how to get it done without an active " reply ALL " button. In a message dated 7/14/2002 6:10:43 AM Eastern Daylight Time, carriei@... writes: > Since you bring it up, If someone emails another list member privately I > have found that that it is considered " common courtesy " to respect that > and keep the communication private. If the the recipient does not want > to do private email then s/he need not respond. I personally don't think > it's the recipient's business to decide to post publicly an email > obviously meant to be private. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 The only problem with that statement is that is seems with this list 90% of the time you can NOT post to the list you are forced to email a response. I for one am not all that bright when it comes to message boards and prefer the way the other lists are run giving me an option to post to the board. If I email someone and you want to post it please do - I don't have the time or IQ to figure it out how to get it done without an active " reply ALL " button. In a message dated 7/14/2002 6:10:43 AM Eastern Daylight Time, carriei@... writes: > Since you bring it up, If someone emails another list member privately I > have found that that it is considered " common courtesy " to respect that > and keep the communication private. If the the recipient does not want > to do private email then s/he need not respond. I personally don't think > it's the recipient's business to decide to post publicly an email > obviously meant to be private. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 > Marjorie has said that she doesn't want to carry out email conversations > between individuals, but rather use the public nature of replying to the > group. This choice is fine and her politeness in anonymising posts is also > probably the right thing to do. , that's part of it, but most of the mail I repost is from people who I strongly suspect intended the post for the group. You may have missed the group discussion on misdirected posts a few weeks ago on this topic. Reposting isn't an ideal solution, since it interferes with archival searches and the flow of threaded discussions. Can anything be done to assist new members, many of whom don't seem to be heeding your appropriate group warning and never adjust the Yahoo online To: menu, which presently defaults to the author of the post? Perhaps a To: setting that forces posters to select an address from several options in the dropdown list, rather than an automatic default to any one address? Marjorie Marjorie Lazoff, MD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 > Marjorie has said that she doesn't want to carry out email conversations > between individuals, but rather use the public nature of replying to the > group. This choice is fine and her politeness in anonymising posts is also > probably the right thing to do. , that's part of it, but most of the mail I repost is from people who I strongly suspect intended the post for the group. You may have missed the group discussion on misdirected posts a few weeks ago on this topic. Reposting isn't an ideal solution, since it interferes with archival searches and the flow of threaded discussions. Can anything be done to assist new members, many of whom don't seem to be heeding your appropriate group warning and never adjust the Yahoo online To: menu, which presently defaults to the author of the post? Perhaps a To: setting that forces posters to select an address from several options in the dropdown list, rather than an automatic default to any one address? Marjorie Marjorie Lazoff, MD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 > Marjorie has said that she doesn't want to carry out email conversations > between individuals, but rather use the public nature of replying to the > group. This choice is fine and her politeness in anonymising posts is also > probably the right thing to do. , that's part of it, but most of the mail I repost is from people who I strongly suspect intended the post for the group. You may have missed the group discussion on misdirected posts a few weeks ago on this topic. Reposting isn't an ideal solution, since it interferes with archival searches and the flow of threaded discussions. Can anything be done to assist new members, many of whom don't seem to be heeding your appropriate group warning and never adjust the Yahoo online To: menu, which presently defaults to the author of the post? Perhaps a To: setting that forces posters to select an address from several options in the dropdown list, rather than an automatic default to any one address? Marjorie Marjorie Lazoff, MD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 > Marjorie has said that she doesn't want to carry out email conversations > between individuals, but rather use the public nature of replying to the > group. This choice is fine and her politeness in anonymising posts is also > probably the right thing to do. , that's part of it, but most of the mail I repost is from people who I strongly suspect intended the post for the group. You may have missed the group discussion on misdirected posts a few weeks ago on this topic. Reposting isn't an ideal solution, since it interferes with archival searches and the flow of threaded discussions. Can anything be done to assist new members, many of whom don't seem to be heeding your appropriate group warning and never adjust the Yahoo online To: menu, which presently defaults to the author of the post? Perhaps a To: setting that forces posters to select an address from several options in the dropdown list, rather than an automatic default to any one address? Marjorie Marjorie Lazoff, MD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 Woody, It doesn't take a high IQ.....if you are responding to a message directly from the Yahoo site all you do select the " To: " address from the pull down menu. As it is now D. Pascoe has it set up to default to the individual sender, but if you want to send the message to the board then select the rosacea support group address. could change the default setting so that it defaults to the cea group address instead of the individual sender. However I must say I find it very strange that only one or two people on this group seem to have this very frequent " need to re-post messages " problem... Hth, carrie on 7/14/02 10:52 AM, woody1046@... at woody1046@... wrote: > The only problem with that statement is that is seems with this list 90% of > the time you can NOT post to the list you are forced to email a response. I > for one am not all that bright when it comes to message boards and prefer the > way the other lists are run giving me an option to post to the board. If I > email someone and you want to post it please do - I don't have the time or IQ > to figure it out how to get it done without an active " reply ALL " button. > > > In a message dated 7/14/2002 6:10:43 AM Eastern Daylight Time, > carriei@... writes: > > >> Since you bring it up, If someone emails another list member privately I >> have found that that it is considered " common courtesy " to respect that >> and keep the communication private. If the the recipient does not want >> to do private email then s/he need not respond. I personally don't think >> it's the recipient's business to decide to post publicly an email >> obviously meant to be private. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 Woody, It doesn't take a high IQ.....if you are responding to a message directly from the Yahoo site all you do select the " To: " address from the pull down menu. As it is now D. Pascoe has it set up to default to the individual sender, but if you want to send the message to the board then select the rosacea support group address. could change the default setting so that it defaults to the cea group address instead of the individual sender. However I must say I find it very strange that only one or two people on this group seem to have this very frequent " need to re-post messages " problem... Hth, carrie on 7/14/02 10:52 AM, woody1046@... at woody1046@... wrote: > The only problem with that statement is that is seems with this list 90% of > the time you can NOT post to the list you are forced to email a response. I > for one am not all that bright when it comes to message boards and prefer the > way the other lists are run giving me an option to post to the board. If I > email someone and you want to post it please do - I don't have the time or IQ > to figure it out how to get it done without an active " reply ALL " button. > > > In a message dated 7/14/2002 6:10:43 AM Eastern Daylight Time, > carriei@... writes: > > >> Since you bring it up, If someone emails another list member privately I >> have found that that it is considered " common courtesy " to respect that >> and keep the communication private. If the the recipient does not want >> to do private email then s/he need not respond. I personally don't think >> it's the recipient's business to decide to post publicly an email >> obviously meant to be private. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 Maybe that's my problem since I never go on line. I do something AOL calls flash mail which takes all of 7 seconds on my phone bill then I answer off line in email. For AOL there is no pulling down the " To: " to for me either. That's OK anyway - I'm here for the education anyway. In a message dated 7/14/2002 5:52:41 PM Eastern Daylight Time, carriei@... writes: > It doesn't take a high IQ.....if you are responding to a message directly > from the Yahoo site all you do select the " To: " address from the pull down > menu. As it is now D. Pascoe has it set up to default to the individual > sender, but if you want to send the message to the board then select the > rosacea support group address. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 Maybe that's my problem since I never go on line. I do something AOL calls flash mail which takes all of 7 seconds on my phone bill then I answer off line in email. For AOL there is no pulling down the " To: " to for me either. That's OK anyway - I'm here for the education anyway. In a message dated 7/14/2002 5:52:41 PM Eastern Daylight Time, carriei@... writes: > It doesn't take a high IQ.....if you are responding to a message directly > from the Yahoo site all you do select the " To: " address from the pull down > menu. As it is now D. Pascoe has it set up to default to the individual > sender, but if you want to send the message to the board then select the > rosacea support group address. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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