Re: Just venting - and we're listening - thanks Jo

September 17, 2004

Thanks Jo,

The words of support are greatly appreciated. I have been doing heat

and some lymphatic drianage in the evenings it helps me relax, I've

replaced my evening glass of wine with this since the wine and the

percocet make me see funny things!!

As for him moving out, well the house is his, he bought it while we

were together, we picked it out and moved in together, but I haven't

put a penny into it other than decorative things I can take with me

if I want.

I'm also a firm beleiver in things happening for a reason, I'm sure

that a better job is just around the corner for me.

Sorry to hear about your job, but something better will happen for

you too, especially with the spirit and enthusiasm that you seem to

show for everything.

Thanks

Marsha

> Marsha, my goodness, you are one tough lady!

>

> It sounds like you have a lot to handle at once and it's tough to

> think of your health first when life is still going on and pulling

on

> your sleeve. But how exciting to hear about wher eyou are with your

> life too!

> ....you are going thru some big changes...great new smile and bite

in

> the works and you sure are trying there with therapy,...deciding

that

> you deserve more from the person you choose to give your love to-

GOOD

> FOR YOU, be proud,...and with work and school...I will only say

that

> things tend to happen for a reason, so good thoughts.

> I too came back to workw ith some bad tudes here and was told that

> the area of this biz that is my niche is being phased out...so I

can

> understand the frurstration there, you're doing good for you and

yoru

> health, and inturn your employer and being penalized for it...I

hear

> about it all the time as a recruiter, I almost laughed-ironically

> after I heard it about me...but unfortunately it's too common, but

> again hopefully for a good reason. I am taking this as an oppty to

> MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. I am 5 almost 6 wks post-op, finally settling

> into me-still pains, poufy esp from talking a lot, but woo-hoo to

MY

> future, no holding me back and you sound the same.

> As to that man...why not ask him to move out? he's more able now-

no?

> but maybe you would prefer walls with out his memories...do it on

> YOUR terms regardless.

>

> and idea!!

> ...about the heat at PT, there are items that you can purchase for

> home that will allow you to microwave them and do home heat

therapy,

> the head wrap that zip-squeeze sels can be heated too I think, but

> you can also message you to help ease those moments some. I think I

> have read about self message for Lymphnodes from Fiddle...

>

> I hope your mom comes back soon and meanwhile, cry when you need

to,

> laugh if you want to and do it all on YOUR terms, you are the most

> impt thing you can focus on. And you deserve it! Be strong and

when

> you're not, we're listening...and WE understand.

>

> Hang in there! JO

>

September 17, 2004

Thanks Jo,

The words of support are greatly appreciated. I have been doing heat

and some lymphatic drianage in the evenings it helps me relax, I've

replaced my evening glass of wine with this since the wine and the

percocet make me see funny things!!

As for him moving out, well the house is his, he bought it while we

were together, we picked it out and moved in together, but I haven't

put a penny into it other than decorative things I can take with me

if I want.

I'm also a firm beleiver in things happening for a reason, I'm sure

that a better job is just around the corner for me.

Sorry to hear about your job, but something better will happen for

you too, especially with the spirit and enthusiasm that you seem to

show for everything.

Thanks

Marsha

> Marsha, my goodness, you are one tough lady!

>

> It sounds like you have a lot to handle at once and it's tough to

> think of your health first when life is still going on and pulling

on

> your sleeve. But how exciting to hear about wher eyou are with your

> life too!

> ....you are going thru some big changes...great new smile and bite

in

> the works and you sure are trying there with therapy,...deciding

that

> you deserve more from the person you choose to give your love to-

GOOD

> FOR YOU, be proud,...and with work and school...I will only say

that

> things tend to happen for a reason, so good thoughts.

> I too came back to workw ith some bad tudes here and was told that

> the area of this biz that is my niche is being phased out...so I

can

> understand the frurstration there, you're doing good for you and

yoru

> health, and inturn your employer and being penalized for it...I

hear

> about it all the time as a recruiter, I almost laughed-ironically

> after I heard it about me...but unfortunately it's too common, but

> again hopefully for a good reason. I am taking this as an oppty to

> MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. I am 5 almost 6 wks post-op, finally settling

> into me-still pains, poufy esp from talking a lot, but woo-hoo to

MY

> future, no holding me back and you sound the same.

> As to that man...why not ask him to move out? he's more able now-

no?

> but maybe you would prefer walls with out his memories...do it on

> YOUR terms regardless.

>

> and idea!!

> ...about the heat at PT, there are items that you can purchase for

> home that will allow you to microwave them and do home heat

therapy,

> the head wrap that zip-squeeze sels can be heated too I think, but

> you can also message you to help ease those moments some. I think I

> have read about self message for Lymphnodes from Fiddle...

>

> I hope your mom comes back soon and meanwhile, cry when you need

to,

> laugh if you want to and do it all on YOUR terms, you are the most

> impt thing you can focus on. And you deserve it! Be strong and

when

> you're not, we're listening...and WE understand.

>

> Hang in there! JO

>

September 17, 2004

Hi Marsha,

Sounds like you have a spirit that won't quit like me, but

sometimes......ARGH! Enough already!

PS--as to my job....timing is so ironic...their mention to me was

subtle and that;s typical here, being in my niche I have grown keen

on reading in between the lines and what they saw as a casual

mention, confirmed my thoughts, this was last wed. Moments ago, seems

I got " informed " of the reality...and yes, while my role isn't

disappearing, they are forming a new partnership and moving in a diff

direction...and my niche can stay and continue, as always w/o the

support and investment it has deserved for yrs. So Ta-da! Yup...and

now I can feel the confidence and security to do what's best for

me...after all as you and I have both learned, someone has to! and

damn straight it's starting with me!

CHEERS to OUR futures, with great smiles and great dreams!!!

All the best, JO

> > Marsha, my goodness, you are one tough lady!

> >

> > It sounds like you have a lot to handle at once and it's tough to

> > think of your health first when life is still going on and

pulling

> on

> > your sleeve. But how exciting to hear about wher eyou are with

your

> > life too!

> > ....you are going thru some big changes...great new smile and

bite

> in

> > the works and you sure are trying there with therapy,...deciding

> that

> > you deserve more from the person you choose to give your love to-

> GOOD

> > FOR YOU, be proud,...and with work and school...I will only say

> that

> > things tend to happen for a reason, so good thoughts.

> > I too came back to workw ith some bad tudes here and was told

that

> > the area of this biz that is my niche is being phased out...so I

> can

> > understand the frurstration there, you're doing good for you and

> yoru

> > health, and inturn your employer and being penalized for it...I

> hear

> > about it all the time as a recruiter, I almost laughed-ironically

> > after I heard it about me...but unfortunately it's too common,

but

> > again hopefully for a good reason. I am taking this as an oppty

to

> > MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. I am 5 almost 6 wks post-op, finally settling

> > into me-still pains, poufy esp from talking a lot, but woo-hoo to

> MY

> > future, no holding me back and you sound the same.

> > As to that man...why not ask him to move out? he's more able now-

> no?

> > but maybe you would prefer walls with out his memories...do it on

> > YOUR terms regardless.

> >

> > and idea!!

> > ...about the heat at PT, there are items that you can purchase

for

> > home that will allow you to microwave them and do home heat

> therapy,

> > the head wrap that zip-squeeze sels can be heated too I think,

but

> > you can also message you to help ease those moments some. I think

I

> > have read about self message for Lymphnodes from Fiddle...

> >

> > I hope your mom comes back soon and meanwhile, cry when you need

> to,

> > laugh if you want to and do it all on YOUR terms, you are the

most

> > impt thing you can focus on. And you deserve it! Be strong and

> when

> > you're not, we're listening...and WE understand.

> >

> > Hang in there! JO

> >

September 17, 2004