To Jo: Re: 2 weeks post-op today, an my ELBOW is NUMB?!

[Guest guest]

Bring a whole new image to the commercial, " have more fun in bed! "

just sleeping or heck laying on it is like a hot bath!

How was your night? Sweet dreams??

and thank you, I am very blessed. My faince and I met in college and

have been together ever since...12 1/2 yrs now...we have only waited

for a wedding past few yrs bec of my surg. He said you know, it's a

biggie for you and you would rather our pics post-op, so we'll just

wait...in any hurry?, I'm not going anywhere! and in NY there's no

common law so before y'all say that...we're still legally single but

as I see it and tell the nosey relatives (whom have been in and out

of marriages since we've been together) as I see it, we are more

committed than marriage, since we are not legally obligated to stay

and we both choose to do so every day.

The only thing that will change here is our taxes, I have his dental

benes and we share everything...oh but maybe the last names on the

pets at the vet may change...as to me....I can't make up my mind. I'm

quite used to the last name and for years people just call me by

that. Matter a fact-funny, when I walked into the OS tues, he walked

in and exclaimed my last name as a greeting! I was stunned and

laughed I almost forgot his, I call him mario so time will tell.

as to the hyphen thing-the names together are gross...so consider me

undecided on the name but quite smitten and certain on the man:)

JO

> > > > I have had pains in my neck big time before from work and the

> > > desk/pc

> > > > thing---this isn't that and it's not starting at my hands,

but

> > > > somewhere in my neck/shoulder/back...the dang yet blessed

> > reclyner

> > > is

> > > > to blame I am 99.9% sure...bec I always wake up in pain and

> can't

> > > get

> > > > comfie to sleep there anymore either...tongiht I am breaking

> the

> > > mold

> > > > and telling my OS...sure I will sleep up at 90 degrees if you

> > want

> > > me

> > > > to, but I am moving bk to my bed for some serious

> rest..........

> > > > plus my poor-wonderful+loving fiance, has been sleeping all

> > > crunched

> > > > on our counh for 2 wks now and he already has neck/bk

> > probs...he's

> > > > been in a lot of pain too and been so quiet about it as I am

> his

> > > > first concern...but I think some bed sleep would be a good

> thing

> > > for

> > > > both of us...and if not then back to the chair I go!

> > > >

> > > > thanks again, JO

[Guest guest]

Bring a whole new image to the commercial, " have more fun in bed! "

just sleeping or heck laying on it is like a hot bath!

How was your night? Sweet dreams??

and thank you, I am very blessed. My faince and I met in college and

have been together ever since...12 1/2 yrs now...we have only waited

for a wedding past few yrs bec of my surg. He said you know, it's a

biggie for you and you would rather our pics post-op, so we'll just

wait...in any hurry?, I'm not going anywhere! and in NY there's no

common law so before y'all say that...we're still legally single but

as I see it and tell the nosey relatives (whom have been in and out

of marriages since we've been together) as I see it, we are more

committed than marriage, since we are not legally obligated to stay

and we both choose to do so every day.

The only thing that will change here is our taxes, I have his dental

benes and we share everything...oh but maybe the last names on the

pets at the vet may change...as to me....I can't make up my mind. I'm

quite used to the last name and for years people just call me by

that. Matter a fact-funny, when I walked into the OS tues, he walked

in and exclaimed my last name as a greeting! I was stunned and

laughed I almost forgot his, I call him mario so time will tell.

as to the hyphen thing-the names together are gross...so consider me

undecided on the name but quite smitten and certain on the man:)

JO

> > > > I have had pains in my neck big time before from work and the

> > > desk/pc

> > > > thing---this isn't that and it's not starting at my hands,

but

> > > > somewhere in my neck/shoulder/back...the dang yet blessed

> > reclyner

> > > is

> > > > to blame I am 99.9% sure...bec I always wake up in pain and

> can't

> > > get

> > > > comfie to sleep there anymore either...tongiht I am breaking

> the

> > > mold

> > > > and telling my OS...sure I will sleep up at 90 degrees if you

> > want

> > > me

> > > > to, but I am moving bk to my bed for some serious

> rest..........

> > > > plus my poor-wonderful+loving fiance, has been sleeping all

> > > crunched

> > > > on our counh for 2 wks now and he already has neck/bk

> > probs...he's

> > > > been in a lot of pain too and been so quiet about it as I am

> his

> > > > first concern...but I think some bed sleep would be a good

> thing

> > > for

> > > > both of us...and if not then back to the chair I go!

> > > >

> > > > thanks again, JO