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Hi Liz,

If you want activities that help with crossing the midline, you can refer to a

program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body movements that help with that

specific issue.

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Wed, 9 Jan 2008 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the

midline---Please help---Janice

's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06, NJ's speech

standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was within normal range:

HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what qualified him for services. His

tone issues were there as well but he has always had good balance. We have

pursued a program of core strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen

persistent gains along with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is

gone.Where we are now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got

us services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not for all of

Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc. so here we are.This is

what I see:He has a definite preference for the left hand. Brushes teeth with it

and prefers to write, such as it is, with it.When we do the balance beam walking

I hold his left hand and he leads with his right foot to walk and does well.

This is clearly what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

today when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was trying to lead

with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with ease.I am assuming this

to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie shouldn't he be walking with the

left foot leading and be comfortable?Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally

(had not seen that Since Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch

nose to floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him I am

sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent detox).Question:What am I

seeing and how do I fix whatever is not good?

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Thing is, am I right? Oh, and today he wrote with his right hand?

This kid is messing with me for sure.

>

>

> Hi Liz,

>

> If you want activities that help with crossing the midline, you can

refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

movements that help with that specific issue.

>

>

>

>

> ;

ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@...: lizlaw@...: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the midline---

Please help---Janice

>

>

>

>

> 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06, NJ's

speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well but he

has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains along

with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we are

now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not for

all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc. so

here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for the

left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it is,

with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand and

he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is clearly

what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this today

when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was trying to

lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with ease.I am

assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be comfortable?

Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that Since

Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him I am

sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

good?

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Liz, you must ignore which hand he uses for a few years! How old is Micheal?

4? So, in this time when his brain is making its own choices with regards to

dominance.... he will flip back and forth and side to side. Pay it no

attention and please do not attempt to influence his choices. This is

important. Dominance doesn't come in properly for a while yet so please leave

it alone. Techniquely, it can take all the way up to the age of 6 for a NT kid

to develop dominance! We shouldn't influence it before this age but let the

brain decide which hand is correct. I know that you are not doing this and are

just observing but I will tell you that he has quite some time to figure out

which side he feels most comfortable with. Expect him to be a little ambi for

that is actually quite normal at his age. It is when they never stop being

ambi-dexterous that we run into problems but little tykes are allowed this

luxury so don't be alarmed when you see him switch back and forth.

If the hand does not develop correct dominance and we accidently influence so

that the wrong hand is chose..... then it is tough to remediate. I got lucky

and Mark's hand is the right one for him but it could easily have been the other

way since he was so equal on each side. I just got lucky that he was not

naturally left handed for this would have meant that he would have had to

relearn how to write with his left hand at the age of 11. I simply cannot

imagine how tough that would have been....

In this age of Early Intervention and early pre-school, this is an area where we

really mess up with our kids.... we try to develop or encourage dominance before

it is ready to come in. Remember our children are late-bloomers and we should

practice more patience in this area. Mark's hand dominance was chosen for him

because he was in a special needs preschool. If I could do it again, knowing

now what I know about development, I would not have allowed the 'specialists' to

do this with my child.

To get his brain working and dominance moving forward to high knee marching and

have him pat the opposing knee when it is raised with his hand. This is great

for mid-line and will work all of his cortical connections. Running is

wonderful for developing cross-pattern movement.

Ignore the dominance of the hands, instead work tactility, finger manipulatives

(ie. finger puppets), lego, theraputty for strength, building sand castles,

working with lead-free wooden blocks, pulling that little red wagon of yours,

all of that type of kid-stuff. This will benefit him greatly.

Janice

Mother of Mark, 13

[ ] Crossing the midline---

Please help---Janice

>

>

>

>

> 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06, NJ's

speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well but he

has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains along

with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we are

now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not for

all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc. so

here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for the

left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it is,

with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand and

he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is clearly

what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this today

when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was trying to

lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with ease.I am

assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be comfortable?

Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that Since

Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him I am

sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

good?

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Hi,

I'm a Pediatric Neuropsychologist and I have done tons of research on

left-handedness, and I wrote a book called " Loving Lefties " . children who

prefer their left hand for some activities such as writing or throwing need not

necessarily prefer their left hand or left foot or left eye. Children who

prefer the left hand for unimanual activities tend to be more mixed with respect

to their hand,foot, and eye preferences. This is entirely normal even in left

handed college students. i have done over 10 yrs of research in this area and

I can assure you that there need not be anything atypical about this. Even 30%

of right handed children are naturally left eyed.

Jane M. Healey, Ph.D.

[ ] Crossing the midline---

Please help---Janice

>

>

>

>

> 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06, NJ's

speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well but he

has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains along

with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we are

now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not for

all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc. so

here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for the

left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it is,

with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand and

he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is clearly

what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this today

when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was trying to

lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with ease.I am

assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be comfortable?

Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that Since

Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him I am

sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

good?

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Big help. Today he wrote with the right hand and could walk the beam

with either foot leading. I'd guess ambidextrous but the detox W

sitting and the nose to ground sitting remains a concern.

> >

> >

> > Hi Liz,

> >

> > If you want activities that help with crossing the midline, you

can

> refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

> movements that help with that specific issue.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > ;

> ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

> 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the midline-

--

> Please help---Janice

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

NJ's

> speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

> within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

> qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

but he

> has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

along

> with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

are

> now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

> services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

for

> all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

so

> here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

the

> left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it

is,

> with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand

and

> he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

clearly

> what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

today

> when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

trying to

> lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

ease.I am

> assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

comfortable?

> Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

Since

> Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him

I am

> sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

> good?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Hi there,

Just a little tidbit- I am a left handed adult- at least that is what

I call myself! I write with my left hand now but was totally

ambidextrous until age 7 or 8. I got a blister on my right hand and

never wrote with that hand again.

I bat (softball) righthanded, throw a ball rt hand and am right-eyed.

I kick a ball left footed. I have always done things as they felt

most comfortable and fortunately my parents went with that.

I wouldnt worry so much which side your son favors, just focus on

helping him learn to do it all ways and he will choose whats best for

him as he grows more comfortable with each activity. I personally

feel there is too much focus on picking a side. Hope this helps shed

some light.

new member

mom to Zach 3

and Callan 20 months

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi Liz,

> > >

> > > If you want activities that help with crossing the midline,

you

> can

> > refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

> > movements that help with that specific issue.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > ;

> > ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

> > 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the

midline-

> --

> > Please help---Janice

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

> NJ's

> > speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months

was

> > within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is

what

> > qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

> but he

> > has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> > strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

> along

> > with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

> are

> > now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got

us

> > services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

> for

> > all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

> so

> > here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

> the

> > left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as

it

> is,

> > with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left

hand

> and

> > he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

> clearly

> > what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

> today

> > when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

> trying to

> > lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

> ease.I am

> > assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> > shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

> comfortable?

> > Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

> Since

> > Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> > floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for

him

> I am

> > sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> > detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is

not

> > good?

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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Hi,

As you know, left handed and right handed children can have motor delays, and I

suspect this is the case with your child. But the delays need not have anything

to do with the ambidexterity. I should have made that clear before. Your child

needs to be treated for the other motor problems you are describing, but you

don't have to worry right now about the fact that he is using the right or left

foot. However, it is important that your child choose a writing hand and be

consistent about that. this should be done by the age of 5. This way the

proper connections in the brain can be laid down for writing and good

graphomotor control.

jane M. Healey, Ph.D.

Pediatric Neuropsychologist

Ridgewood, NJ

[ ] Crossing the midline-

--

> Please help---Janice

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

NJ's

> speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

> within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

> qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

but he

> has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

along

> with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

are

> now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

> services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

for

> all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

so

> here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

the

> left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it

is,

> with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand

and

> he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

clearly

> what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

today

> when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

trying to

> lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

ease.I am

> assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

comfortable?

> Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

Since

> Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him

I am

> sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

> good?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________________

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Hi Jane -

My 5 year old son is right handed, right eyed, mixed on ears and

mixed on feet. We are currently doing the NACD program. They have him

doing hops on his right foot to encourage the right foot to take over

dominance. They also have him wearing an ear plug in his left ear to

encourage his right ear to take over dominance. I believe their

philosophy is that the most organized brains have dominance all on

one side. Your email below seems to disagree.

Do you think that what we are doing may be harmful for my son?

Thanks,

> >

> >

> > Hi Liz,

> >

> > If you want activities that help with crossing the midline, you

can

> refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

> movements that help with that specific issue.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > ;

> ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

> 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the midline-

--

> Please help---Janice

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

NJ's

> speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

> within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

> qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

but he

> has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

along

> with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

are

> now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

> services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

for

> all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

so

> here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

the

> left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it

is,

> with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand

and

> he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

clearly

> what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

today

> when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

trying to

> lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

ease.I am

> assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

comfortable?

> Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

Since

> Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him

I am

> sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

> good?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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He is under 3 and we are addressing the rest.

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi Liz,

> > >

> > > If you want activities that help with crossing the midline,

you

> can

> > refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

> > movements that help with that specific issue.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > ;

> > ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

> > 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the

midline-

> --

> > Please help---Janice

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

> NJ's

> > speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months

was

> > within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is

what

> > qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

> but he

> > has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> > strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

> along

> > with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

> are

> > now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got

us

> > services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

> for

> > all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

> so

> > here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

> the

> > left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as

it

> is,

> > with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left

hand

> and

> > he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

> clearly

> > what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

> today

> > when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

> trying to

> > lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

> ease.I am

> > assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> > shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

> comfortable?

> > Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

> Since

> > Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> > floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for

him

> I am

> > sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> > detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is

not

> > good?

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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The methods you are describing were scientfically debunked over 30 years ago,

and I am very surprised they are still in use. There is no theoretical or

scientific basis for this type of therapy. There is not a shred of evidence to

indicate that the most balanced brains have dominance on one side. In fact, the

rate of " mixed " dominance in the normal population is very high, much higher

than was once believed. One third of right handers are left eyed, and half of

left handers are right eyed. A large percentage of right handers throw and bat

with their left side. There is nothing atypical about this. I am not familiar

with the NACD program, and I do not know the circumstances under which your

therapist decided to do this, but it makes absolutely no sense to me, and I've

been a Neuropsychologist for almost 30 years. i believe the time can be far

better spent doing something else that will make a meaningful difference.

Jane M. Healey, Ph.D.

Pediatric Neuropsychologist

Ridgewood, NJ

[ ] Crossing the midline-

--

> Please help---Janice

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

NJ's

> speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

> within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

> qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

but he

> has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

along

> with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

are

> now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

> services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

for

> all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

so

> here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

the

> left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it

is,

> with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand

and

> he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

clearly

> what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

today

> when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

trying to

> lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

ease.I am

> assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

comfortable?

> Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

Since

> Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him

I am

> sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

> good?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Dear ,

After changing Mark's dominance in his ear.... he had WONDERFUL results! His

ability to retain information, to control his emotions and be a balanced

individual is completely different from before that ear switched.

Just before the ear switched, he had a very emotional spell and then he

normalized but was even better.... I don't regret working with Mark's ear for

one second and know that the results will last a lifetime. Do you know you

sometimes dyspraxic kids just shut-down if you rush them or if you push them to

go faster? Well, we don't get those periods of 'shutting down and shutting off'

anymore but we did right up until the ear switched. One would think that a 12

year old would not have such episodes and even though Mark was relatively mature

for his age, he still had a tough time with self-control.

You need to trust NACD and to believe in what they do. These people have the

benefit of seeing kids get better.... because the practices that they adopt

work. This is important to remember when you are doing your therapy program.

Note that we have not bothered switching Mark's leg. He is too old and there is

no point for him at this juncture. As the leg does not affect memory, we have

left it be. But the ear was important since it enabled him to be successful on

tests and to actually remember long-term much more efficiently.

Janice

[ ] Crossing the midline-

--

> Please help---Janice

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

NJ's

> speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

> within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

> qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

but he

> has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

along

> with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

are

> now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

> services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

for

> all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

so

> here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

the

> left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it

is,

> with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand

and

> he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

clearly

> what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

today

> when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

trying to

> lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

ease.I am

> assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

comfortable?

> Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

Since

> Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him

I am

> sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

> good?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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The question I have though is, is the mixed dominance prevalence the

population's collective adaptation to toxins? NACD also may be

meeting these kids where they are and getting them the best that can

be done after damage done.

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi Liz,

> > >

> > > If you want activities that help with crossing the midline,

you

> can

> > refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

> > movements that help with that specific issue.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > ;

> > ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

> > 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the

midline-

> --

> > Please help---Janice

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

> NJ's

> > speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months

was

> > within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is

what

> > qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

> but he

> > has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> > strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

> along

> > with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

> are

> > now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got

us

> > services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

> for

> > all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

> so

> > here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

> the

> > left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as

it

> is,

> > with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left

hand

> and

> > he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

> clearly

> > what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

> today

> > when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

> trying to

> > lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

> ease.I am

> > assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> > shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

> comfortable?

> > Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

> Since

> > Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> > floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for

him

> I am

> > sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> > detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is

not

> > good?

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > __________________________________________________________

> > > Share life as it happens with the new Windows Live.

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Dear Jane,

With regards to cortical dominance, I certainly do not believe that fixing

dominance fixes the neurological issues but there are many out there in

therapyland who do work with dominance in the context of neurodevelopmental

therapy: The Institute of Achievement of Human Potential, The National

Associaton of Child Devleopment, The Delacato centres, The Institute for

Neuro-Physiological Psychology (they hold international conferneces & seminars

each year) and I believe (not absolutely sure) that The Handle Institute also

works with dominace. They work dominance in the context of other issues

however.

For instance my son, had some severe auditory issues going on. He couldn't hear

many tones. He couldn't remember what he had heard. He couldn't speak because

he couldn't hear in addition to having muscle/tone/motor planning issues. No

one had ever identified these issues though he had been in therapy for years and

years. I was shocked to discover how poor my child's auditory abilities were

but we found a solution in one year while 9 years of professionals, specialists

and others couldn't do.

First we remediated his tonal processing via The Listening Program. We also

eliminated milk and thereby removed the offensive allergen that was congesting

his ears. In addition we worked his auditory short term memory and working

auditory memory via auditory digit spans, reverse digit spans and alpha-numeric

digit spans. Once we were sure that his ears were clear and healthy, we did

change his ear dominance from the left side to the right side.

I have a new child now. This stuff does work! I spent over 9 years in system

therapy and none of anything that was done for my child worked. My boy went

from being a special education lifer to mainstreaming within 9 months doing just

the above.... working his ears, auditory processing and his dominance. Is

dominance probably the least important thing we did? Yes, but something did

intrinsicly change in my son and while scientists may have debunked it years

ago, it certainly changed my child for the better! He is calmer, more able,

follows instructions and his grades have soared!

Scientists have debunked many of the things we talk about and practice on these

boards. Many of us believe that vaccinations were the cause of our childrens

injuries and scientists have debunked that as well. But we were there and we

saw what happened to our children....

I know that what you practice within the medical community will be different

from what we moms find effective in remediating our children. Please have an

open mind and understand that the medical community has for the most part,

labeled our children and then refused to provide adequate therapy.

We have learned to seek out what works, not what is peer-reviewed. I mean you

no disrespect but I do ask that you listen for a while, hear our stories and our

achievements before you critize a therapy that a mom is doing to benefit her

child. You may be surprised as to how much you can learn from us while we can

also learn from you.

Note: I live with a child who is severely ambi-dexterous and it is NO

BENEFIT.... only a drag! He never develops expertise in any one hand and thus

while he can bat both right and left (cute parlor trick).... he stopped

developing expertise after the first year and soon the other boys past him far

behind. While a professional may think this is okay.... try living with it. I

chronically try to encourage my ambi-boy to develop expertise using his dominant

hand. The more he does, the better his skills actually get. You don't improve

your skill sets unless you use your dominant hand and learn to 'Cross the

Mid-line' This, by the way, was the name of a newsletter out of the UK devoted

to dyspraxia, since crossing the mid-line and developing cross pattern movement

is so important in helping people with dyspraxia.

Nice to meet you and I hope that I have not offended you,

Janice

Mother of Mark, 13

Janice

[ ] Crossing the midline-

--

> Please help---Janice

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

NJ's

> speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

> within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

> qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

but he

> has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

along

> with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

are

> now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

> services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

for

> all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

so

> here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

the

> left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it

is,

> with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand

and

> he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

clearly

> what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

today

> when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

trying to

> lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

ease.I am

> assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

comfortable?

> Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

Since

> Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him

I am

> sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

> good?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________________

> > Share life as it happens with the new Windows Live.

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One question about hearing and emotion. no longer allows us

to sing when music is on. This is new? Is it that it is too much

extra to process? It is a big deal and he gets mad, yells top, top.

puts out his hand, shakes his head no and screams if we have not

obeyed.

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi Liz,

> > >

> > > If you want activities that help with crossing the midline,

you

> can

> > refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

> > movements that help with that specific issue.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > ;

> > ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

> > 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the

midline-

> --

> > Please help---Janice

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

> NJ's

> > speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months

was

> > within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is

what

> > qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

> but he

> > has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> > strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

> along

> > with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

> are

> > now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got

us

> > services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

> for

> > all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

> so

> > here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

> the

> > left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as

it

> is,

> > with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left

hand

> and

> > he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

> clearly

> > what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

> today

> > when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

> trying to

> > lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

> ease.I am

> > assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> > shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

> comfortable?

> > Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

> Since

> > Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> > floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for

him

> I am

> > sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> > detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is

not

> > good?

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > __________________________________________________________

> > > Share life as it happens with the new Windows Live.

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I agree that total ambidexterity is never a good thing. A child should develop

a definite preference for most major unimanual activities by the age of 5 or 6,

when a child does not, this often means there is neurodevelopmental compromise

in the lower motor centers of the brain. This lack of dominance is very

different from the kind i was talking about in my previous post. when children

do not develop a preference for either side it is called ambiguous handedness, a

term coined by folks in California, I believe UCLA, and it often occurs in the

context of ASD, though not always. This is a rare condition and it most

certainly affects the child's ability to develop motor skills. So i agree with

you that this type of lack of dominance is a problem for children.

With respect to the other issue you raised about having an open mind, I wonder

why i would be on this list serve reading all of your stories if I didn't have

an open mind. I have been reading these stories for two weeks now, and i will

continue to read them. so no offense taken at all, I can take the heat.

jane M. Healey, Ph.D.

[ ] Crossing the midline-

--

> Please help---Janice

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

NJ's

> speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months was

> within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is what

> qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

but he

> has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

along

> with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

are

> now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us

> services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

for

> all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

so

> here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

the

> left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as it

is,

> with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left hand

and

> he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

clearly

> what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

today

> when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

trying to

> lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

ease.I am

> assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

comfortable?

> Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

Since

> Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him

I am

> sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not

> good?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________________

> > Share life as it happens with the new Windows Live.

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I appreciate this exchange as the one whose kid started the inquiry.

My kid is almost 3 and only again started vacilating since the

Listening Program. I suspect it is reorganization. He is actually

moving to the right in dominance and I suspect that is what his true

dominance will be but time will tell. I am not stressing over it but

have a more pressing concern:

At what age was he supposed to stop with the nose to ground ability

while seated (not that he does this often but I know it is not good

that he can)?

As for taking heat, this is a hot board but neither you or your

colleagues nor the docs, the teachers, therapists, etc. are

responsible for our individual children's issues and all are part of

the solution as we all venture into uncharted waters and revisit old

myths to be sure they are just that. So glad you are here!

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi Liz,

> > >

> > > If you want activities that help with crossing the midline,

you

> can

> > refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

> > movements that help with that specific issue.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > ;

> > ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

> > 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the

midline-

> --

> > Please help---Janice

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

> NJ's

> > speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months

was

> > within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is

what

> > qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

> but he

> > has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> > strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

> along

> > with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

> are

> > now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got

us

> > services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

> for

> > all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

> so

> > here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

> the

> > left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as

it

> is,

> > with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left

hand

> and

> > he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

> clearly

> > what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

> today

> > when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

> trying to

> > lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

> ease.I am

> > assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> > shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

> comfortable?

> > Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

> Since

> > Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> > floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for

him

> I am

> > sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> > detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is

not

> > good?

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > __________________________________________________________

> > > Share life as it happens with the new Windows Live.

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My son did this, too. It corrected itself when we began OT (and maybe due to

the listening program that we were doing) so I assumed it was sensory. Before

the OT, we could never sing around him.

@...: lizlaw@...: Fri, 11

Jan 2008 20:56:25 +0000Subject: [ ] Re: Crossing the

midline---Please help---Janice

One question about hearing and emotion. no longer allows us to sing when

music is on. This is new? Is it that it is too much extra to process? It is a

big deal and he gets mad, yells top, top. puts out his hand, shakes his head no

and screams if we have not obeyed.> > >> > > > > > Hi Liz,> > > > > > If you want activities that help with

crossing the midline, you > can > > refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey

use exercises/body > > movements that help with that specific issue. > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > > ; > >

ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008 > > 19:08:46

-0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the midline-> --> > Please

help---Janice> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 's deal:While I called EI for

speech in EI in 10/06, > NJ's > > speech standards are low and little to no

words at 21 months was > > within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand

issue is what > > qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

> but he > > has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core > >

strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains > along > > with

TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we > are > > now:Some

fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got us > > services...the

right hand. I would not be concerned were it not > for > > all of Janice's posts

on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc. > so > > here we are.This is what I

see:He has a definite preference for > the > > left hand. Brushes teeth with it

and prefers to write, such as it > is, > > with it.When we do the balance beam

walking I hold his left hand > and > > he leads with his right foot to walk and

does well. This is > clearly > > what he prefers to do...his natural position. I

realized this > today > > when I did it the other way (held his right hand and

he was > trying to > > lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not

with > ease.I am > > assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a

leftie > > shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be >

comfortable?> > Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that >

Since > > Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to > >

floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for him > I am > >

sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent > > detox).Question:What am

I seeing and how do I fix whatever is not > > good? > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > __________________________________________________________> > >

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We get this behavior from our son, too. I have not been able to figure

out why, other than my singing voice is really not that good.

-jimk

ilizzy03 wrote:

>

> One question about hearing and emotion. no longer allows us

> to sing when music is on. This is new? Is it that it is too much

> extra to process? It is a big deal and he gets mad, yells top, top.

> puts out his hand, shakes his head no and screams if we have not

> obeyed.

>

> -

>

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Generally or since TLP? If he is still on milk or other allergen and

does not do TLP it may stop if those things are removed.

> >

> > One question about hearing and emotion. no longer allows

us

> > to sing when music is on. This is new? Is it that it is too much

> > extra to process? It is a big deal and he gets mad, yells top,

top.

> > puts out his hand, shakes his head no and screams if we have not

> > obeyed.

> >

> > -

> >

>

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Dr Healey-

You sound like someone I would love to have on " my team " with my son's

care! Are you still in practice and taking patients? I'm in the

Bergen/Passaic

Cty region and am desperate to find someone that knows SOMEthing about

Apraxia.

On Thursday we had my son into the Neurologist, and I am just blown away at

his lack of knowledge about Apraxia, and even more baffled by his general

way he deals with me as a parent. To the point of disgust-- which is a pretty

hard thing to get me to say!!

But I would truly love to be able to find someone that could see the issues

for what they are-- a GLOBAL issue and not things that are separated here and

there, etc.

His lack of ability to walk properly isn't just due to an orthopedic issue,

but is directly tied into his Apraxia, which I know is Global. It's all just

so frustrating.

But in all seriousness, I hate to burden you with this in your " private "

online life-- but if you're still in practice, I would love contact numbers

where I could find a Dr like yourself with Apraxia knowledge

Becky

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Dear Becky,

I am most certainly in practice in Ridgewood, NJ. i see children from ages 3

through Graduate school (yes, many of my clients are in Graduate School now,

we are all getting older). i don't do evaluations below age 3 as i feel you

wouldn't get much from the eval at that age.

I feel that the term " apraxia " is being overused now, but then again, every

diagnosis gets overused to some extent. Look at ADD, ASD, PDD, these are all

overused as well. The honest truth is that the medical community has not stayed

abreast of important changes occurring in the Early Intervention movement.

Neuropsychologists learn all about apraxia in their training. We have some idea

as to how motor planning and programming get " connected up " in the brain, but

we are still a bit behind in what the best interventions are for these problems.

That is because children are being diagnosed at younger and younger ages, and

the research and science has not been able to keep up. This is not offerred as

an excuse, but it is reality. In the end, we try to understand what we can,

and hopefully admit when we don't know.

I'd love to consult with you at some point, call my office at 201-251-8411.

Jane M. Healey, Ph.D.

Re: [ ] Re: Crossing the midline---Please

help---Janice

Dr Healey-

You sound like someone I would love to have on " my team " with my son's

care! Are you still in practice and taking patients? I'm in the Bergen/Passaic

Cty region and am desperate to find someone that knows SOMEthing about

Apraxia.

On Thursday we had my son into the Neurologist, and I am just blown away at

his lack of knowledge about Apraxia, and even more baffled by his general

way he deals with me as a parent. To the point of disgust-- which is a pretty

hard thing to get me to say!!

But I would truly love to be able to find someone that could see the issues

for what they are-- a GLOBAL issue and not things that are separated here and

there, etc.

His lack of ability to walk properly isn't just due to an orthopedic issue,

but is directly tied into his Apraxia, which I know is Global. It's all just

so frustrating.

But in all seriousness, I hate to burden you with this in your " private "

online life-- but if you're still in practice, I would love contact numbers

where I could find a Dr like yourself with Apraxia knowledge

Becky

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Hi Jane -

Thank you. Since, we have decided to take the NACD approach (I've

heard a lot of good about their program and not much bad) and nobody

has indicated that there is any harm we are going to continue trying

to get his ear and foot on the right side. I'm forever making sure

that what we do isn't harmful to my sons and I appreciate your

response.

Something that I have found that is interesting. Although, my son is

right handed, he seems to have stronger fingers/more dexterity with

his left hand. We are doing these finger strengthening excerises and

there was quite a difference between the strength of his left and

right hand. After about a month the difference isn't quite as

noticeable as before. Still, I would have expected his right hand to

work better than the left.

-

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi Liz,

> > >

> > > If you want activities that help with crossing the midline,

you

> can

> > refer to a program called Brain Gym. THey use exercises/body

> > movements that help with that specific issue.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > ;

> > ApraxiaDyspraxiaBiomedSupport@: lizlaw@: Wed, 9 Jan 2008

> > 19:08:46 -0500Subject: [ ] Crossing the

midline-

> --

> > Please help---Janice

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

> NJ's

> > speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months

was

> > within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is

what

> > qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

> but he

> > has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> > strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

> along

> > with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

> are

> > now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got

us

> > services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

> for

> > all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

> so

> > here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

> the

> > left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as

it

> is,

> > with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left

hand

> and

> > he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

> clearly

> > what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

> today

> > when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

> trying to

> > lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

> ease.I am

> > assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> > shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

> comfortable?

> > Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

> Since

> > Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> > floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for

him

> I am

> > sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> > detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is

not

> > good?

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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> > > Share life as it happens with the new Windows Live.

> > > http://www.windowslive.com/share.html?

> > ocid=TXT_TAGHM_Wave2_sharelife_012008

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He has been doing this for some time, just generally.

TLP?

-jimk

ilizzy03 wrote:

>

> Generally or since TLP? If he is still on milk or other allergen and

> does not do TLP it may stop if those things are removed.

>

>

> > >

> > > One question about hearing and emotion. no longer allows

> us

> > > to sing when music is on. This is new? Is it that it is too much

> > > extra to process? It is a big deal and he gets mad, yells top,

> top.

> > > puts out his hand, shakes his head no and screams if we have not

> > > obeyed.

> > >

> > > -

> > >

> >

>

>

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I think that he is just 'hearing' you, probably for the first time and he has

decided that he wants to hear the music!

NO, NO mommy.... ie. that's not the way it's supposed to be... you're supposed

to listen! That's kinda cute but it doesn't say much for what he thinks about

your singing! :)

You do want to make sure that he doesn't get too OCD with this and let him know

that it's fun to sing along with music.... and its fun to dance along with music

too! Make sure that he learns 'flexiblity' and that he can still enjoy the

music with you singing or him singing!

Dance together to the music, laugh and tickle. Have him associate it with fun

and work this new attitude so that it reflects how we, as a society, value

music! Right now, for him, music is a serious business.... it is therapy and

your are 'supposed' to listen not play.

Janice

[ ] Crossing the

midline-

> --

> > Please help---Janice

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > 's deal:While I called EI for speech in EI in 10/06,

> NJ's

> > speech standards are low and little to no words at 21 months

was

> > within normal range: HELLO The speech plus the hand issue is

what

> > qualified him for services. His tone issues were there as well

> but he

> > has always had good balance. We have pursued a program of core

> > strenthening, etc. since summer and have seen persistent gains

> along

> > with TLP gains that were immediate. Head loll is gone.Where we

> are

> > now:Some fine motor work needs to be done in the hand that got

us

> > services...the right hand. I would not be concerned were it not

> for

> > all of Janice's posts on dysgraphia, crossing the midline, etc.

> so

> > here we are.This is what I see:He has a definite preference for

> the

> > left hand. Brushes teeth with it and prefers to write, such as

it

> is,

> > with it.When we do the balance beam walking I hold his left

hand

> and

> > he leads with his right foot to walk and does well. This is

> clearly

> > what he prefers to do...his natural position. I realized this

> today

> > when I did it the other way (held his right hand and he was

> trying to

> > lead with the left foot). He eventually did it but not with

> ease.I am

> > assuming this to mean he is mixed up. If he is truly a leftie

> > shouldn't he be walking with the left foot leading and be

> comfortable?

> > Recent detox brought W sitting occasionally (had not seen that

> Since

> > Sept). Also he can still sit and move forward and touch nose to

> > floor. Then envy of every 40 year old woman but not good for

him

> I am

> > sure. Lastly, peekaboo flatfootedness during recent

> > detox).Question:What am I seeing and how do I fix whatever is

not

> > good?

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > __________________________________________________________

> > > Share life as it happens with the new Windows Live.

> > > http://www.windowslive.com/share.html?

> > ocid=TXT_TAGHM_Wave2_sharelife_012008

> > >

> > >

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The Listening Program

> > > >

> > > > One question about hearing and emotion. no longer

allows

> > us

> > > > to sing when music is on. This is new? Is it that it is too

much

> > > > extra to process? It is a big deal and he gets mad, yells top,

> > top.

> > > > puts out his hand, shakes his head no and screams if we have

not

> > > > obeyed.

> > > >

> > > > -

> > > >

> > >

> >

> >

>

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