Re: Re: eileen jeb874/Private e-mails, please

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 8/6/01 10:33:09 AM, duodenalswitch writes:

<< In a message dated 8/6/01 12:16:49 AM Eastern Daylight Time,

Happy2knowU2@... writes:

> Funny u couldnt be kind to me when i needed some friends and i was kind to

u

> helping u with the surgery but never the less i wish u all the best,

I don't need to open a can of worms here but really , this statement is

to me, just more proof of the immaturity in you. You asked the group for help

and advise, you got it and could not deal with it.

Glad for your weight loss, now just grow up.

A friend is someone who tells the truth, you could just not deal with it.

Eileen

>>

I was going to say this as soon as I read 's original post, but I had

hoped that it would just go unresponded to and fade away... These kinds of

posts and replies really need to be addressed to the individuals involved (I

know - this is almost impossible if the poster in question has 'blocked' all

individual e-mails from people yet feels free to make statements about them

on a public board).

Whatever you feel about Eileen, - could you address her in private

about it? Why the need to make statements like this to the entire group? I

recall you saying that you were extremely frustrated with Dr. GAgner's office

(you even mentioned that you switched to Dr. Herron), so why the personal

comments when Eileen expresses frustration about scheduling, etc. at Mt.

Sinai?

Once again, if anyone has a personal issue with another poster, please take

it up with them in private e-mail. This group isn't for pointing fingers and

saying 'you aren't a good friend' or 'you're immature'. :)

All the best,

Noverr-Chin

co-moderator, duodenalswitch

lap ds

January 25, 2001

six months post-op and still feelin' fabu!

pre-op: 307 lbs/bmi 45 (5' 9 1/2 " )

now: 228

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 8/6/01 10:33:09 AM, duodenalswitch writes:

<< In a message dated 8/6/01 12:16:49 AM Eastern Daylight Time,

Happy2knowU2@... writes:

> Funny u couldnt be kind to me when i needed some friends and i was kind to

u

> helping u with the surgery but never the less i wish u all the best,

I don't need to open a can of worms here but really , this statement is

to me, just more proof of the immaturity in you. You asked the group for help

and advise, you got it and could not deal with it.

Glad for your weight loss, now just grow up.

A friend is someone who tells the truth, you could just not deal with it.

Eileen

>>

I was going to say this as soon as I read 's original post, but I had

hoped that it would just go unresponded to and fade away... These kinds of

posts and replies really need to be addressed to the individuals involved (I

know - this is almost impossible if the poster in question has 'blocked' all

individual e-mails from people yet feels free to make statements about them

on a public board).

Whatever you feel about Eileen, - could you address her in private

about it? Why the need to make statements like this to the entire group? I

recall you saying that you were extremely frustrated with Dr. GAgner's office

(you even mentioned that you switched to Dr. Herron), so why the personal

comments when Eileen expresses frustration about scheduling, etc. at Mt.

Sinai?

Once again, if anyone has a personal issue with another poster, please take

it up with them in private e-mail. This group isn't for pointing fingers and

saying 'you aren't a good friend' or 'you're immature'. :)

All the best,

Noverr-Chin

co-moderator, duodenalswitch

lap ds

January 25, 2001

six months post-op and still feelin' fabu!

pre-op: 307 lbs/bmi 45 (5' 9 1/2 " )

now: 228