Guest guest Posted December 5, 2004 Report Share Posted December 5, 2004 Sorry she couldn't travel, but we chose the tv as well and it has been more of a blessing than I even expected it to be. One of Asenath's favorite things to do (especially when fatigued) is to relax/lay on the couch, snuggle, and watch a good movie; most of the time a cartoon. We try to encourage he to be active, but rests are important too and this has really helped. I hope she will enjoy hers as much as Asenath has. See www.caringbridge.org/ia/mitomomof9 and this link to see a real look into Mito using a photo collage of my girls at www.heartbeatsformito.org Darla: mommy to Asenath (4) Mito, CNS Vasculitis, strokes, migraines, seizures, G-tube, hypotonicity, disautonomy, SID, dev. delays, asthma, cyclic vomiting... Zipporrah (12 months) Mito, strokes, neuro-motor planning dysfunction, SID, GERD, 100% G-tube fed, asthma, trach issues, aberrant subclavian artery, disautonomy, hypo & hypertonicity, migraines, possible seizures, dumping syndrome, iron deficiency... Luke (16), Leah (14), Rachael (12), Isaac (10), Tirzah (8), Kezia (3), & Marquis (2) (some with Mito symptoms) Re: Does anyone else have a difficult time during the holidays? > , > > What a good memory you have! Yes Audrey was to get her MAW to Disneyworld > in November, and yes, there was a problem because Amie's son Alec, from > her first marriage, was possibly not going to be able to go because his > Dad didn't want him to miss school, he is in the first grade. Well, > sometimes things have a way of being taken out of our hands. Anyway, In > September Audrey had pneumonia three times and she was so weak and Amie > and Doyle decided she was way to weak to even consider a trip out of state > so they decided on a large screen TV and some videos for Audrey's MAW. > She loves the 52 inch big screen and I know she will enjoy the TV much > more than she would have going to Disney. She really gets tired so easy > now. However, she always has enough energy to give grandma that smile > that I so need to see! > > I really have to go as I just home from a long 12 hours at work and the > bed looks pretty inviting right now. > > God be with you all, > Kathy, grandma to Audrey, 3 years > > Sorensen wrote: > Say Kathy: > > Wasn't Amie and Doyle going with Audrey and the gang on a Make A Wish > trip this past November. I thought there was a problem with the one boy > being able to have time off (which still amazed me) and was wondering if > they ever went. So glad you guys got to be together. So glad for > Audrey's blessed smile and what it can bring to others. > > Nerenhausen > mom to Leah > > kathy boone wrote: > > > , > > > > The holidays have always been hard for me as we have always lived away > > from our families and I would be jealous of my brother and all the > > talk about getting together with our Mom and Dad and all the great > > times they were having. Then something happened and I realized I had > > a wonderful family right with me in my children. As they grew and > > married our family begin to grow and we established our own > > traditions. The grandchildren have made the holidays so much better! > > > > I was doing really well this year then I went Christmas shopping. I > > did great until I tried to shop for Audrey. It is so hard knowing > > what to get her. I just parked my cart and went to Amie's so I could > > get my Grandma fix for the day from my special little girl, Audrey. > > When I see her I realize there is more to the holidays than food, fun > > and presents. > > > > A few years ago my family, my son and daughter and their spouses, and > > my husband and I were not on good terms. Somethings had happened that > > I won't go into, in fact they aren't even important anymore. Then > > something, or I should say someone happened into our lives. That > > someone would be Audrey. I truely believe Audrey was sent to us to > > heal our family. This past Sunday I had both of my children and their > > families together at my house for Thanksgiving. It was one of the > > happiest days of my life. As I sat holding Audrey and my other > > grandchildren were all running around, I saw Audrey smile and I know > > she knows what she has done. She, with the help of God, fixed things > > in my family. Now we truly are a family again. > > > > I think I have gotten a little off the subject, but I just want to say > > Thanks to my beautiful little Audrey for making things right again. I > > love her more than she will ever know. > > > > Happy Holidays to my Mito Family, > > Kathy, grandma to Audrey, 3 years > > > > nu12002 wrote: > > > > > > My son is 5 1/2 now so you would think I'd handle the holidays > > better. But every year around this time I seem to get depressed. My > > is severely delayed and I guess buying Xmas presents reminds me > > that he hasn't really improved in 5 years. In fact each year he > > seems to develop more issues. He was born in September so that first > > Xmas we were blissfully unaware of any problems. I also have an > > older son who may be autistic and/or bipolar(mito related?) He is > > becoming more of a behavioral problem lately. > > I normally am very grateful that my is in better health than > > some. I can't even imagine those who have lost their angels and what > > they go through. But I am usually very aware of how fortunate we > > are. But this time of year is just really difficult for me. My > > husband is having a hard time being patient with me. He's such a > > wonderful husband & father and very calm and rational. But when my > > mood is a little dark it seems to affect him as well. > > Don't get me wrong; I'm not lying in bed all day. I get up each > > morning and do my routine, I cooked Thanksgiving dinner & I helped > > decorate for Xmas already. But inside I'm just so sad. I call it > > being functionally depressed-LOL > > I've told my husband that my heart just aches for both my sons. Any > > parent wants the best for their kids and it kills me that they have > > so many issues. I mourn a little for the " normal " kids that they > > should have been. I also carry the guilt that their issues are my > > fault. I didn't do anything wrong but since I carried them I feel > > that I'm to blame. I don't say that so someone can absolve my > > guilt. I tell my husband that I will always feel a little > > responsible no matter what the docs say. > > I'm sorry if I made anyone else sad. I'm sure you all have bad > > days/weeks. I guess it helps to get it out. Thanks for listening:) > > Blessings, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please contact mito-owner with any problems or > > questions. > > > > > > > > > > Please contact mito-owner with any problems or > > questions. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 5, 2004 Report Share Posted December 5, 2004 Sorry she couldn't travel, but we chose the tv as well and it has been more of a blessing than I even expected it to be. One of Asenath's favorite things to do (especially when fatigued) is to relax/lay on the couch, snuggle, and watch a good movie; most of the time a cartoon. We try to encourage he to be active, but rests are important too and this has really helped. I hope she will enjoy hers as much as Asenath has. See www.caringbridge.org/ia/mitomomof9 and this link to see a real look into Mito using a photo collage of my girls at www.heartbeatsformito.org Darla: mommy to Asenath (4) Mito, CNS Vasculitis, strokes, migraines, seizures, G-tube, hypotonicity, disautonomy, SID, dev. delays, asthma, cyclic vomiting... Zipporrah (12 months) Mito, strokes, neuro-motor planning dysfunction, SID, GERD, 100% G-tube fed, asthma, trach issues, aberrant subclavian artery, disautonomy, hypo & hypertonicity, migraines, possible seizures, dumping syndrome, iron deficiency... Luke (16), Leah (14), Rachael (12), Isaac (10), Tirzah (8), Kezia (3), & Marquis (2) (some with Mito symptoms) Re: Does anyone else have a difficult time during the holidays? > , > > What a good memory you have! Yes Audrey was to get her MAW to Disneyworld > in November, and yes, there was a problem because Amie's son Alec, from > her first marriage, was possibly not going to be able to go because his > Dad didn't want him to miss school, he is in the first grade. Well, > sometimes things have a way of being taken out of our hands. Anyway, In > September Audrey had pneumonia three times and she was so weak and Amie > and Doyle decided she was way to weak to even consider a trip out of state > so they decided on a large screen TV and some videos for Audrey's MAW. > She loves the 52 inch big screen and I know she will enjoy the TV much > more than she would have going to Disney. She really gets tired so easy > now. However, she always has enough energy to give grandma that smile > that I so need to see! > > I really have to go as I just home from a long 12 hours at work and the > bed looks pretty inviting right now. > > God be with you all, > Kathy, grandma to Audrey, 3 years > > Sorensen wrote: > Say Kathy: > > Wasn't Amie and Doyle going with Audrey and the gang on a Make A Wish > trip this past November. I thought there was a problem with the one boy > being able to have time off (which still amazed me) and was wondering if > they ever went. So glad you guys got to be together. So glad for > Audrey's blessed smile and what it can bring to others. > > Nerenhausen > mom to Leah > > kathy boone wrote: > > > , > > > > The holidays have always been hard for me as we have always lived away > > from our families and I would be jealous of my brother and all the > > talk about getting together with our Mom and Dad and all the great > > times they were having. Then something happened and I realized I had > > a wonderful family right with me in my children. As they grew and > > married our family begin to grow and we established our own > > traditions. The grandchildren have made the holidays so much better! > > > > I was doing really well this year then I went Christmas shopping. I > > did great until I tried to shop for Audrey. It is so hard knowing > > what to get her. I just parked my cart and went to Amie's so I could > > get my Grandma fix for the day from my special little girl, Audrey. > > When I see her I realize there is more to the holidays than food, fun > > and presents. > > > > A few years ago my family, my son and daughter and their spouses, and > > my husband and I were not on good terms. Somethings had happened that > > I won't go into, in fact they aren't even important anymore. Then > > something, or I should say someone happened into our lives. That > > someone would be Audrey. I truely believe Audrey was sent to us to > > heal our family. This past Sunday I had both of my children and their > > families together at my house for Thanksgiving. It was one of the > > happiest days of my life. As I sat holding Audrey and my other > > grandchildren were all running around, I saw Audrey smile and I know > > she knows what she has done. She, with the help of God, fixed things > > in my family. Now we truly are a family again. > > > > I think I have gotten a little off the subject, but I just want to say > > Thanks to my beautiful little Audrey for making things right again. I > > love her more than she will ever know. > > > > Happy Holidays to my Mito Family, > > Kathy, grandma to Audrey, 3 years > > > > nu12002 wrote: > > > > > > My son is 5 1/2 now so you would think I'd handle the holidays > > better. But every year around this time I seem to get depressed. My > > is severely delayed and I guess buying Xmas presents reminds me > > that he hasn't really improved in 5 years. In fact each year he > > seems to develop more issues. He was born in September so that first > > Xmas we were blissfully unaware of any problems. I also have an > > older son who may be autistic and/or bipolar(mito related?) He is > > becoming more of a behavioral problem lately. > > I normally am very grateful that my is in better health than > > some. I can't even imagine those who have lost their angels and what > > they go through. But I am usually very aware of how fortunate we > > are. But this time of year is just really difficult for me. My > > husband is having a hard time being patient with me. He's such a > > wonderful husband & father and very calm and rational. But when my > > mood is a little dark it seems to affect him as well. > > Don't get me wrong; I'm not lying in bed all day. I get up each > > morning and do my routine, I cooked Thanksgiving dinner & I helped > > decorate for Xmas already. But inside I'm just so sad. I call it > > being functionally depressed-LOL > > I've told my husband that my heart just aches for both my sons. Any > > parent wants the best for their kids and it kills me that they have > > so many issues. I mourn a little for the " normal " kids that they > > should have been. I also carry the guilt that their issues are my > > fault. I didn't do anything wrong but since I carried them I feel > > that I'm to blame. I don't say that so someone can absolve my > > guilt. I tell my husband that I will always feel a little > > responsible no matter what the docs say. > > I'm sorry if I made anyone else sad. I'm sure you all have bad > > days/weeks. I guess it helps to get it out. Thanks for listening:) > > Blessings, > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Please contact mito-owner with any problems or > > questions. > > > > > > > > > > Please contact mito-owner with any problems or > > questions. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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